DECODING Aries... Get serious goddamnit! Lol

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RedSpring
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I'm a Pisces Girls. I got to meet this girl through one of those dating apps (first time I do this shit) and of course she was the one who fist start throwing the first messages I thought she was very cool and she asked me to hang out right away I accepted, but instead she said she were going to cook diner for me and invited me to her apartment and gracefully I accepted FOOD IS SO GOOD. I thought she has a very sparkling and beautiful energy and connected immediately very well or at least that's what I felt. Out of sudden she laid on my legs and we start talking until 4 am (she had to work the next day) but she told me to stay. The next day I went home and everyday since then she has been texted me, send me pictures, kisses through videos, she also asked me to listen to songs that she likes which have a very deep content and lyrics and then send me the videos singing those like if they were for me but VERY SUBTLE. But now she slowed down, she send me less messages through the day and even today I texted her because I did hear anything from her. I said the weekend that I wanted to see her and she told me that she was super busy until next week and because I am that kind of person that If like someone keep texting or at least want to know more about her, or at least a good morning, good night or how was your day WHATEVER... What game is she trying to play here? -.- So now I am supposed to wait until she wants to show up and tell me to meet her or maybe she's with another person since she says dating is fun for her, but she also said that she needed someone to cuddle with, and honestly I think this is very contradictory.
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I usually pull back from people when I feel like I’ve been around them too much. Not to be a jerk but also to find ways to miss them and not become too familiar too quickly.

Aries are intelligent people with feelings too lol 😂 we’re not just exciting balls of energy wanting to hang with people, we’ve got problems and thoughts and we need to escape as well.

I say, just relax and this will all pan out later. Just remain calm and not react to every single thing that happens with an Aries. We love calming energy.
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One more time!

People aren’t given emotions to be emotionless.

She liked you. She wanted to know you. She cooked dinner. She was honest and genuine and you only knew each other for a short time.

She had life before you. How much do you know about it?

She were communicating MAYBE fell for you at first then cooled off.

Maybe reconciled with an ex.

Maybe had met someone else.

Maybe busy.

No matter which one of those - she is not as hot for you as she maybe thought she was.

Who knows what’s going on with her inside her head, heart?

Aries supposed to be easy to talk to. They DO answer questions. Just ask.
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RedSpring
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5 Years

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I understand all of that and I don't bother her at all just a nice short message once in a while I also had a life before and do my things, hang out etc... the thing here is that the first week she seemed to be so nice and charming we connected too well and out of sudden it seems like we never met... and at times I'm like... What did I do wrong? She was saying that dating before was a failure and that she really enjoyed my company and also told me that she was craving that someone makes her feel a lot... Lol I guess I need to relax!
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Posted by RedSpring
Posted by DMV

The ol bait n switch.

Meaning they all remain on switched mode, or they show up later?
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Moreso...

They go hard and fast out the gate. Bombard you with attention. Draw you in. Spoil you.

Then they stop and act all busy.

But really they want you to chase and grovel.

Some feel like they give too much and blame you for being attached and making them feel trapped, when they really trapped their own selves.