Aries ghosted me

This topic was created in the Aries forum by Cymorill on Wednesday, September 11, 2019 and has 13 replies.

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@Cymorill
6 Years

Hiya, pisces female here. Known an Aries for many years as an aquaintance, I moved away from the area he lived and went back for a holiday a couple of months ago, messaged him to meet up and have a drink.. We met up, and was having a laugh and I was drunk so told him I'd liked him for years, and then kissed him. We've been flirting on and off for the past couple of months on facebook, he has been liking all my posts and laughing at my jokes. We arranged to meet up last week, and the night before i was due to travel to meet him, he cuts off all contact, no warning no nothing. No more likes on my posts, although i'm still on his friends list. I'd sent him a couple of messages, to say I was arriving and if he wanted to still meet up to let me know, and he left them unread. I saw him in the pub while I was down there and ignored him, cos I'm a fiesty Pisces when pissed off and thought you wanna ignore me i'll do the same lol, and he either didnt see me or he did and he walked out without saying hello. Did he get cold feet, or was he not really interested in the first place? I tried sending him another message when I got back but it's just been left unread.

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@Sunmoonrising
7 Years

Leaving you unread was saying something loud and clear but it's a horrible childish thing to do. Keep your dignity and let some other poor girl deal with that until she too gets tired of it. I think it is spineless and rude myself.

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@LadyNeptune
10 Years25,000+ Posts

His lady found your text chain and had him delete you from his phone.

Honestly who knows.

Cold feet...

Uninterested...

Whatever it is, thats just plain rude. Don't give him anymore energy or space in your head. Onward and upward.

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@DMV
15 Years25,000+ PostsSagittarius

Posted by xoxflute
Posted by Cymorill

He doesnt have anyone, he is very single. I wouldnt have gone near him if he had someone else.

He may have been just having fun from the start. There is only really one reason for an Aries to ghost, and that is from the lack of the interest, IMO. So it could be that he met a girl he really liked...

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The other girl will be here soon lol

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@IamTheRam
9 Years1,000+ Posts

Humm...Sorry....

But this is clearly the behaviour of an Aries, that at it's least, already got someone in mind...Trust me on that one...We allways have a "#1 woman", you know ?..And your are clearly not her...He shows absolutly no interest in you...

And maybe, by some odd reason, you wold actualy get something out of this...but it will never be more then sex...well, at it's best lol ^^

Or maybe he turned out to be...gay, hun ?...now that wold actualy be a good thing for you, hey ?!... hehe xD

Anyway, don't waste your time with this, do your thing 🙂

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@VenusAquarius
14 Years10,000+ Posts

People are sensitive as fuck.

Gah damn...

He thought meet up as friends. You surprise him with, I had a crush on you for years, you were drunk, and he said, Ugh, ill.

The end.

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@Gemitati
11 Years25,000+ Posts

Posted by VenusAquarius

People are sensitive as fuck.

Gah damn...

He thought meet up as friends. You surprise him with, I had a crush on you for years, you were drunk, and he said, Ugh, ill.

The end.

Ooooo...keeeey!!! You riiight...

Happy, bitch— 🤦‍♀️

Teee heee...