Do Aries run back to old girlfriends

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Jaxmxnxdonxell
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Ok I’m just after making a write up about me and and aries breaking up but what I want to ask is do Aries guys run back to ex girlfriends when they’re the one that broke up with you, the way we broke up was he said it was only for now and that we could get back together at Christmas or next June 2018 when he finishes secondary school. He’s now seeing a new girl and my friends have saw him multiple time with her in town and nights out and they’ve been seeing eachother a week after we broke up. I know that she’s a rebound but I was thinking when they finish will he come back to me then or idk. He broke my heart and I can’t stop thinking about it but I’ve been doing well about it. I was thinking should I text him in a week or two to meet up and see where things go, oh yeh also the weekend before he broke up with me he asked me for the key to my house and I’m only 17 but we were very serious we were together for two years and he still hasn’t asked for his stuff back like he left clothes at mine and all that so idk. Someone help me
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I also posted a message on your other post here.

And as I was saying I just ended things with an Aries man and I think he was already cheating on you. I don’t think you should text him at all, just live your life, probably he will text you. They usually do if they miss you. Otherwise just ignore him. I mean he just broke up with you and he’s already dating someone else? For real, move on
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Jaxmxnxdonxell
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Are you talking to me or bricklemark, if it’s me he told me he needed to focus on School and didn’t have time for a girlfriend and would be studying every weekend and he needs some space.. well then a week after our break up he’s been going about with this new girl for the past two months nearly 3 but I was told she’s a rebound I’m sure, but I was told he’s probably using this girl because having been with someone all the time and been together two years it’s like he has a big hole in his life and he’s lonely and can’t handle the pain himself so he’s using her just like he was with me again.
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I also told my ex we'd get back together eventually and l meant it...and she knows...it's been over a decade, but we still chat. We both know it.
why did you break up?
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She was unbearable. WAAAY too needy...a bit mental. But we had a mad connection...it's actually been 2 decades, but we're talkin like we're gonna end up together soon enough. I don't mind a second shot. 😊
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Hmmz, you are really ok with a guy treating you as a second priority? I think you owe yourself something better than that. What he told you was clearly a load of bull if he just went out with someone else. I think the problem is your ego has been hurt, and you are trying to fix it by thinking you will eventually get back with him. You should forget the idea he will come back, he may, he may not, but thinking about it just prevents you from living your life. Take this opportunity to re-invent yourself, grow stronger. You should never think that it’s ok for a guy to date someone else while you wait, and he will never respect you if you let him do this, but it doesn’t matter, because most of all you need to respect yourself. Never give yourself to anyone that treats you as a second priority.

And if it wasn’t obvious, you need to tell him to collect his stuff, you have to show him you don’t mess about, he has to see you will forget him in an instant when he doesn’t make the effort to be with you.
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I also told my ex we'd get back together eventually and l meant it...and she knows...it's been over a decade, but we still chat. We both know it.
why did you break up?
She was unbearable. WAAAY too needy...a bit mental. But we had a mad connection...it's actually been 2 decades, but we're talkin like we're gonna end up together soon enough. I don't mind a second shot. 😊
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And what’s stopping you? You want to wait another decade? If you really want to see someone, then tomorrow may be too late.

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I also told my ex we'd get back together eventually and l meant it...and she knows...it's been over a decade, but we still chat. We both know it.
why did you break up?
She was unbearable. WAAAY too needy...a bit mental. But we had a mad connection...it's actually been 2 decades, but we're talkin like we're gonna end up together soon enough. I don't mind a second shot. 😊
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So you are hoping to accept that neediness at a later age, or that she will be less needy at a later age? Just wondering what makes a man say, I dont want to be with you now because........but that will suit me in the future...
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Posted by LibraLovesHim
Posted by bricklemark
I also told my ex we'd get back together eventually and l meant it...and she knows...it's been over a decade, but we still chat. We both know it.
why did you break up?
She was unbearable. WAAAY too needy...a bit mental. But we had a mad connection...it's actually been 2 decades, but we're talkin like we're gonna end up together soon enough. I don't mind a second shot. 😊
And what’s stopping you? You want to wait another decade? If you really want to see someone, then tomorrow may be too late.

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We're both in relationships...
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Posted by bricklemark
Posted by LibraLovesHim
Posted by bricklemark
I also told my ex we'd get back together eventually and l meant it...and she knows...it's been over a decade, but we still chat. We both know it.
why did you break up?
She was unbearable. WAAAY too needy...a bit mental. But we had a mad connection...it's actually been 2 decades, but we're talkin like we're gonna end up together soon enough. I don't mind a second shot. 😊
So you are hoping to accept that neediness at a later age, or that she will be less needy at a later age? Just wondering what makes a man say, I dont want to be with you now because........but that will suit me in the future...
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Yes hopefully people mature with age. 😄 Also, l will have less trouble handling it, cause l'm a man and l take no shit.