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Having that conversation without backfiring?? Aries men help is needed
How to Have a Conversation About Relationship Intentions with an Aries Man
To discuss your relationship with an Aries man effectively, choose a calm moment and be honest about your feelings. Use clear, direct language and express your desire for clarity without pressure. Face-to-face conversations tend to be better for meaningful talks, but a heartfelt letter can also work if timed well and written sincerely.
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Do u see him every week or every 2 weeks? How far away do u live from each other?
Posted by Sofia87
Do u see him every week or every 2 weeks? How far away do u live from each other?
We seeing every week, and live in the same city, very close 😉
Right, my bad, i typed every other week before, should be every week
Oh Jesus Christ, just ask him where you see this going.
"So we've been seeing eachother for awhile. Where do you see this going?"
It's not that damned complicated. If you're that worried about his reaction, chances are you already know this isn't going anywhere beyond sex.
Posted by Sofia87
Do u see him every week or every 2 weeks? How far away do u live from each other?We seeing every week, and live in the same city, very close 😉
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Ok.. so there’s less sex & sleep overs? Is this due to u or him or the both of u ?
Posted by rockyroadicecream
Oh Jesus Christ, just ask him where you see this going."So we've been seeing eachother for awhile. Where do you see this going?"
It's not that damned complicated. If you're that worried about his reaction, chances are you already know this isn't going anywhere beyond sex.
😂😂😂😂
Bluntness overload
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Yep. It gets old seeing people come here and overcomplicating a situation because of their own insecurities. She knows this dude isn't in for the long run which is why she's afraid to ask.
Not asking = not hearing the reality of the situation= ignorance is bliss.
I don’t think he is ready. He will be making it very clear if he was. It’s looks like you are fwb. If he was ready and wanted to be exclusive he wouldn’t want you to be with anyone else.
Posted by pisceswoman123
I don’t think he is ready. He will be making it very clear if he was. It’s looks like you are fwb. If he was ready and wanted to be exclusive he wouldn’t want you to be with anyone else.
Whenever he kind of knowing i hang out with with guy friends, he acts funny... like wanting to see me immediately or makes plan quicker...
Is that can say he kind of “want me to be with anyone else”? 😢
However I could feel he's not ready for commitment, but not sure if he's somehow ready to be exclusive...
Posted by Sofia87
Do u see him every week or every 2 weeks? How far away do u live from each other?We seeing every week, and live in the same city, very close 😉
Ok.. so there’s less sex & sleep overs? Is this due to u or him or the both of u ?
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Still sleep there during the day after Saturdays brunch as usual, normally only sleepover if we meet on Sundays...
Less sex... him, he claimed he's been real stressful about his stability of his job....
He sounds very stand-offish for an otherwise interested Aries tbh. They want to be around you all the time, know what your doing, stay in contact etc etc. Unless circumstance don't allow this. Just ask him outright. Although if you arent sure by now....*shrugs*
Posted by Sofia87
Do u see him every week or every 2 weeks? How far away do u live from each other?We seeing every week, and live in the same city, very close 😉
Ok.. so there’s less sex & sleep overs? Is this due to u or him or the both of u ?
Still sleep there during the day after Saturdays brunch as usual, normally only sleepover if we meet on Sundays...
Less sex... him, he claimed he's been real stressful about his stability of his job....
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Ok, best u can do is bring up the status of your relationship before he goes away for Christmas. That sucks u guys won’t be together for Christmas. Just be straight up with him, tell him its been 6 months we have been seeing each other, I want to know if me & u are on the same page, I want this to progress into something serious, what about u ?
Posted by Sofia87
Do u see him every week or every 2 weeks? How far away do u live from each other?We seeing every week, and live in the same city, very close 😉
Ok.. so there’s less sex & sleep overs? Is this due to u or him or the both of u ?
Still sleep there during the day after Saturdays brunch as usual, normally only sleepover if we meet on Sundays...
Less sex... him, he claimed he's been real stressful about his stability of his job....
Ok, best u can do is bring up the status of your relationship before he goes away for Christmas. That sucks u guys won’t be together for Christmas. Just be straight up with him, tell him its been 6 months we have been seeing each other, I want to know if me & u are on the same page, I want this to progress into something serious, what about u ?
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Should I even mention something like I'm not up for anything like fwb etc... or I will leave him for good?
Posted by Sofia87
Do u see him every week or every 2 weeks? How far away do u live from each other?We seeing every week, and live in the same city, very close 😉
Ok.. so there’s less sex & sleep overs? Is this due to u or him or the both of u ?
Still sleep there during the day after Saturdays brunch as usual, normally only sleepover if we meet on Sundays...
Less sex... him, he claimed he's been real stressful about his stability of his job....
Ok, best u can do is bring up the status of your relationship before he goes away for Christmas. That sucks u guys won’t be together for Christmas. Just be straight up with him, tell him its been 6 months we have been seeing each other, I want to know if me & u are on the same page, I want this to progress into something serious, what about u ?
Should I even mention something like I'm not up for anything like fwb etc... or I will leave him for good?
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No I wouldn’t say that cuz he should get the point that you’re not up for FWB after u say something like I told u to say
Posted by Earthgoddess
Oh tough oneIdk!!!
I asked to be sexually exclusive but he initiated the relationship.but the sex talk went like
After sex
Me: question? Are U sleeping with anyone else
Him: 😐...............yes
Me: like how many?
Him:😳..........3( looks down)
Me: why?
Him: idk aren't u
Me: No
Him:why not?
Me: your all I need so why would I
Him: 😳🙃 so....are u asking to be exclusive!
Me:yes 👀
Him: 😇 This can be whatever u want so ok
Me:😳😀😍😘 cuddle
Good luck
I wouldnt recover from a conversation like this 🙂 sleeping with 4 women at the same time would send me packing 🙂 🙂 but I guess it depends also on the involved feelings and a lenght of time of dating....
it seems your confidence and indifference towards this made him make you want more 🙂
how long into the dating you had this conversation above?
Posted by Earthgoddess
Oh tough oneIdk!!!
I asked to be sexually exclusive but he initiated the relationship.but the sex talk went like
After sex
Me: question? Are U sleeping with anyone else
Him: 😐...............yes
Me: like how many?
Him:😳..........3( looks down)
Me: why?
Him: idk aren't u
Me: No
Him:why not?
Me: your all I need so why would I
Him: 😳🙃 so....are u asking to be exclusive!
Me:yes 👀
Him: 😇 This can be whatever u want so ok
Me:😳😀😍😘 cuddle
Good luck
I wouldnt recover from a conversation like this 🙂 sleeping with 4 women at the same time would send me packing 🙂 🙂 but I guess it depends also on the involved feelings and a lenght of time of dating....
it seems your confidence and indifference towards this made him make you want more 🙂
how long into the dating you had this conversation above?
Ummm me and the Aries have a complicated start
On and off 5yrs so it's hard to say exactly
We would get together between my realationship with the libra. This last time tho he came on super strong when he found out I broke up AGAiN
I guess I had this reaction becuz I just knew I wasn't the only one ( he's super hot) and I had no expectations
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would you have this conversation (I mean like it went) if you were emotionally involved and it was the first time of getting together?
if you were "rejecting" him for 5 years (going back to your libra), then he is not sure about you and is happy to have you finally 🙂 its kinda romantic.... maybe he lied about the other 3 woman, to not seem to "under your spell".... the ego thing 🙂
Posted by WolfInRamsClothing
Weren't you the one with the condoms story? *rolls eyes
I just took a gander at that thread.
This chick is a fucking lost cause. She knew 3 months in there was something up. Here she is another three months later asking the same question.
Way too many women showing up to DXP stuck on stupid.
Posted by Sofia87
Do u see him every week or every 2 weeks? How far away do u live from each other?We seeing every week, and live in the same city, very close 😉
Ok.. so there’s less sex & sleep overs? Is this due to u or him or the both of u ?
Still sleep there during the day after Saturdays brunch as usual, normally only sleepover if we meet on Sundays...
Less sex... him, he claimed he's been real stressful about his stability of his job....
Ok, best u can do is bring up the status of your relationship before he goes away for Christmas. That sucks u guys won’t be together for Christmas. Just be straight up with him, tell him its been 6 months we have been seeing each other, I want to know if me & u are on the same page, I want this to progress into something serious, what about u ?
Should I even mention something like I'm not up for anything like fwb etc... or I will leave him for good?
No I wouldn’t say that cuz he should get the point that you’re not up for FWB after u say something like I told u to say
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Thanks Sofia87, hopefully it will turn out to be something good, but tbh I am ready for the worse. 😢
Posted by Sofia87
Do u see him every week or every 2 weeks? How far away do u live from each other?We seeing every week, and live in the same city, very close 😉
Ok.. so there’s less sex & sleep overs? Is this due to u or him or the both of u ?
Still sleep there during the day after Saturdays brunch as usual, normally only sleepover if we meet on Sundays...
Less sex... him, he claimed he's been real stressful about his stability of his job....
Ok, best u can do is bring up the status of your relationship before he goes away for Christmas. That sucks u guys won’t be together for Christmas. Just be straight up with him, tell him its been 6 months we have been seeing each other, I want to know if me & u are on the same page, I want this to progress into something serious, what about u ?
Should I even mention something like I'm not up for anything like fwb etc... or I will leave him for good?
No I wouldn’t say that cuz he should get the point that you’re not up for FWB after u say something like I told u to say
Thanks Sofia87, hopefully it will turn out to be something good, but tbh I am ready for the worse. 😢
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I hope so too 😊
Posted by Sofia87
Do u see him every week or every 2 weeks? How far away do u live from each other?We seeing every week, and live in the same city, very close 😉
Ok.. so there’s less sex & sleep overs? Is this due to u or him or the both of u ?
Still sleep there during the day after Saturdays brunch as usual, normally only sleepover if we meet on Sundays...
Less sex... him, he claimed he's been real stressful about his stability of his job....
Ok, best u can do is bring up the status of your relationship before he goes away for Christmas. That sucks u guys won’t be together for Christmas. Just be straight up with him, tell him its been 6 months we have been seeing each other, I want to know if me & u are on the same page, I want this to progress into something serious, what about u ?
Should I even mention something like I'm not up for anything like fwb etc... or I will leave him for good?
No I wouldn’t say that cuz he should get the point that you’re not up for FWB after u say something like I told u to say
Thanks Sofia87, hopefully it will turn out to be something good, but tbh I am ready for the worse. 😢
I hope so too 😊
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I wonder.. how or under what situation I should bring this up? Just thinking how to make it doesn't feel too awkward.... making it to text messages is too casual right ?
Still 2 weeks to go he flying home for Xmas...
Posted by Sofia87
Do u see him every week or every 2 weeks? How far away do u live from each other?We seeing every week, and live in the same city, very close 😉
Ok.. so there’s less sex & sleep overs? Is this due to u or him or the both of u ?
Still sleep there during the day after Saturdays brunch as usual, normally only sleepover if we meet on Sundays...
Less sex... him, he claimed he's been real stressful about his stability of his job....
Ok, best u can do is bring up the status of your relationship before he goes away for Christmas. That sucks u guys won’t be together for Christmas. Just be straight up with him, tell him its been 6 months we have been seeing each other, I want to know if me & u are on the same page, I want this to progress into something serious, what about u ?
Should I even mention something like I'm not up for anything like fwb etc... or I will leave him for good?
No I wouldn’t say that cuz he should get the point that you’re not up for FWB after u say something like I told u to say
Thanks Sofia87, hopefully it will turn out to be something good, but tbh I am ready for the worse. 😢
I hope so too 😊
I wonder.. how or under what situation I should bring this up? Just thinking how to make it doesn't feel too awkward.... making it to text messages is too casual right ?
Still 2 weeks to go he flying home for Xmas...
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No right situation hunnie, if it were me, I would bring it up in person
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Been seeing this Aries guy 6 momths now, everything still going good and we're still seeing each other once every other week in this whole 6 months and still going, less sex and sleepovers tho.
And now, myself feeling it's time to really know where we are, and would like to have that conversation with him before he's flying home a week for Christmas. Thinking that could give him time to think over it and see if he really misses me needs me wants me and lk
Iikes me enough.
However, myself feeling that he's not at the stage for commitment but he could be able to let us be exclusive to each others, and he definitely likes me, especially everytime when he knows I'm out with guys, he acts funny lol...
So, I'm thinking what phases or wording and tone and stuff I should say when I'm bring up this topic and should that be started under certain situation only?
And I am wondering if this should be done face to face or I shall put a letter in tbe xmas gift I gonna give him?
Please Aries men.... i need your advices x