Why is it so hard to say I love you

Been seeing this Aries man for almost a year and I'm Libra. We both decided not to get serious from the very beginning as he's moving away to New York for a year in September.

Long story short, we both have been spending time with each other a lot like once a week. We decided to stop talking to each other early on this year as we felt like it was going to get serious. Then, we started talking to each other again.

He's currently preparing himself for NY and he's busy applying jobs etc. I booked flights to NY in December to see my family and I'll spend the weekend with him.

I don't want to bore you any further, we never agreed to be exclusive and he said he hasn't been with anyone else, me neither.

I'm in love with him and I can't say it. I'm really happy for him to go and gain all the experiences but I'm going to miss him so much and it's just heart breaking because we get on so well and the timing is butter.

I don't want him to forget about me. I know I sound really baby ish but what can I say to him. I've been trying to act cool the whole time and helping him with everything he needs but there were times I just want to say I love so much thanking for making this year better for me but I can't.

So what do you think I should do peeps ?

What will you regret more.

Telling him how you feel or not telling him how you feel.

If it were me, I would tell him as with him leaving, you don't really have much more else to loose.

If you say it, will you be expecting him to say it back?

tell him - you won't regret it

Posted by Queenofthepheasantfairies
What will you regret more.

Telling him how you feel or not telling him how you feel.

If it were me, I would tell him as with him leaving, you don't really have much more else to loose.

I've been thinking about that and honestly I feel like I will regret not saying at the same time it's scary thought to say I love you

Posted by Fafa
where do you live? why cant you visit him?

I live in Ireland. I'm going to NY in December to see my family and I will spend the weekend with him. So I'm really unsure that if I say it, he'll freak out and I won't get to spend time with him there

Posted by jeane
If you say it, will you be expecting him to say it back?

Yes I do because I feel like he loves me too but he won't say it because he's moving away and it's the right thing not to say it so both of us won't get hurt.

Love doesn't understand anything that's logical.😉 you can always tell him that you will always love and care for him... I don't know though normally Aries men are straight forward. They are fire sign. If they love you will tell you and declare their love for you regardless of the circumstances. But again love shud b unconditional . If you love him just express it without expecting anything back in return

Posted by LibraJackson

Posted by Queenofthepheasantfairies
What will you regret more.

Telling him how you feel or not telling him how you feel.

If it were me, I would tell him as with him leaving, you don't really have much more else to loose.

I've been thinking about that and honestly I feel like I will regret not saying at the same time it's scary thought to say I love you

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Tell him......loving someone and expressing it is never a mistake

How many people go to their gave saying "I wished I had never told that person I loved them" ?

Posted by saweetz1988
Love doesn't understand anything that's logical.😉 you can always tell him that you will always love and care for him... I don't know though normally Aries men are straight forward. They are fire sign. If they love you will tell you and declare their love for you regardless of the circumstances. But again love shud b unconditional . If you love him just express it without expecting anything back in return

Such a good lesson for all of us to learn

🙂

I think I'm going to plan something special before he goes and say it to him. Well If I have enough courage to say it, I don't know. I have to wait and see 😢

I think I'm going to plan something special before he goes and say it to him. Well If I have enough courage to say it, I don't know. I have to wait and see 😢

Posted by MyStarsShine
Tell him......loving someone and expressing it is never a mistake

How many people go to their gave saying "I wished I had never told that person I loved them" ?

I have. Huge mistake. Huge huge huge mistake.

I would only do it if it felt right at that exact moment. Don't overanalyze it.

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Posted by MyStarsShine
Tell him......loving someone and expressing it is never a mistake

How many people go to their gave saying "I wished I had never told that person I loved them" ?

I have. Huge mistake. Huge huge huge mistake.

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Why was it.....?

Posted by MyStarsShine

Posted by boxcarmirnta

Posted by MyStarsShine
Tell him......loving someone and expressing it is never a mistake

How many people go to their gave saying "I wished I had never told that person I loved them" ?

I have. Huge mistake. Huge huge huge mistake.

Why was it.....?

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Bc dude was a total sociopath who used it against me, he could always hang it over my head. He had total power. I still regret saying it.