dumper or dumpee?

aries, in your dating history, do you normally do the dumping or are you usually being dumped?
i can say that i have dated alot (age 39) in my life and have been dumped twice. one i swore was gay and the other, well i still have pain from that devastation when i think about it. lol. obviously i don't do well with rejection...AT ALL!
and if this is the case with most aries..that we don't get dumped...is it because we "get" them before they can "get" us?

dumper or dumpee?

I definitely stick it through, dating fizzles and things just naturally break off for everyone at times, but in a relationship, I don't ever recall being the first to raise the quit option, and say, "we are over".

I am currently the dumped, and I don't recall feeling so heartbroken about it.

It isn't that I don't understand what rejection is and how to deal with it, it is more like this time, well we said we would try, not just give up on the first hill to climb. I guess they say to be happy with yourself first before you go into a relationship in order to deal with a possible breakup. I am usually upbeat, happy to be alive, sunny etc, so I guess I went into this relationship without any backup plan on what if it goes sour.

Interesting topic, I definitely think we are usually dumped, turned down, ran away from etc.

Yeah there is usually a lot of quick transitions that happen when an Aries' relationship ends.

This is my first slow transition in a breakup because of debts owed to me, leases etc, otherwise yeah I have no qualms about establishing new life with a line between past and present. It just isn't right to dawdle if things turned sour.

oh, so blue moon, if you were to get dumped by someone who does focus on ending a relationship, you're saying you just roll with it and understand that it's just your relationship "changing/transforming"?
dang, i wish i could be that way! it sounds good on paper and the right way to be...but god knows i haven't mastered that concept.

i usually slowly fade away if im not too serious about the relationship. If i was serious about the person like i recently was i like to stick it through and beleive everything can be worked on if you really care for someone. I guess i just dont like giving up even if it's not meant to be. so yes i did get dumped well "disseapered on" by a virgo male