LeoGemini11
@LeoGemini11
12 Years
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Posted by LeoGemini11Funny, isn't that what's happening to you here in your situation?
What a miserable person you are to poke fun at someone seeking advice. I hope karma bites you in the ass, tenfold. And I hope it's by a Leo.

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I dated him for 6 months about 2 years ago. I ended up breaking it off because I felt that he had no time for me and I didn't trust him (he liked to keep a lot of girls around on social media that I didn't know). We stopped talking for almost a year, but long story short, we ended up seeing each other while out a bar early this year and I took him home with me that night. The rest is history.
It started out as just sex. We'd hang out at a bar, at his house or mine and then end up hooking up. Fast forward to 7 months later and he has become my best friend. We talk almost everyday, we go out on little dates with each other (oftentimes not ending with sex), he buys me little gifts or trinkets for no reason, he comes to hang out with me and my friends all the time, we've attended a couple of weddings together this year... etc. etc. It's as if he's done a complete 180 from when we dated 2 years prior.
My problem is that I have fallen in love him, but I'm terrified of losing him as a friend considering how close we are now. He truly is always there when I need him (physically, mentally, emotionally...) and I feel that there is something there on his end as well.
When we initially started talking again, we were open about telling each other about people we were talking to/dating. A few months ago he told me about one girl in particular in detail, which hurt me to the core because I felt that I had deserved the same time, energy and effort back when we were first dating. He has since stopped talking to me about her and has been more doting towards me. We spend more time with each other than we did when we were actually "dating."
My question is, how should I go about this? I want to tell him how I feel, but I don't want to lose my friend. I definitely have an inkling that he feels the same or feels something for me, but I also know that he has issues with commitment. Do you think the above is enough to go on to take a risk?