@Laidbackcap
10 Years
Do a lot of Aries woman act cold until they warm up to you?
I think so. I personally do. I think that making her laugh will earn you some points...
You gotta give her a vibe she hasn't felt before. Clones are a turn off.
Also, if you aren't serious, she's going to see right through you most likely.
If she isn't looking for anything serious, then you might get lucky.
so youre saying my aqua venus might save me ? hahaha
She calls me scumbag in a jokenly manner on a regular basis. I kind of come off as a prick becuase i feel thats intrigues her and because I tripped her by accident once. With this other coworker im the opposite, Im mr nice guy and she eats it up.
Yeah, I know it sounds bad, I guess I mean to say that once I want something I do whatever it takes to get it. Does that make sense?
Im pretty chill till i see that shiny object that makes me go crazy
I guess in the past Ive lost chances with woman I really liked and now im determined to not let that happen anymore.
Posted by Laidbackcap
I think she secretly wants me and is seeing if my intentions are pure. I guess my compliments dont do anything for her because every guy wants her. How does an Aries woman test you?
you are overthinking her intentions. She's probably just not in the right mind frame to want that sort of interaction with someone, or maybe, simply put: SHE'S BUSY. I think I explained the tunnel vision to you in another thread regarding aries and their work/education/finances. I think she feels as though there is not an organic mesh between you and her....usually when I get an intuitive feeling in my body, I try and distance myself from the situation and think about it objectively. You just haven't reached a place yet where you two naturally engage without the preconceived notions and agendas. (By agenda I mean you trying to figure out her intentions). Just...relax dude.
Posted by Laidbackcap
I think she secretly wants me and is seeing if my intentions are pure. I guess my compliments dont do anything for her because every guy wants her. How does an Aries woman test you?
btw, what's your entire chart, could you possibly post it here?
Zodiac in degrees 0.00
Placidus Orb:0
Sun Capricorn 20.36 Ascendant Aquarius 11.00
Moon Scorpio 3.44 II Pisces 24.17
Mercury Capricorn 14.37 III Taurus 0.34
Venus Aquarius 24.32 IV Taurus 28.02
Mars Virgo 15.14 V Gemini 20.58
Jupiter Virgo 9.50 R VI Cancer 13.37
Saturn Virgo 26.59 R VII Leo 11.00
Uranus Scorpio 24.32 VIII Virgo 24.17
Neptune Sagittarius 21.19 IX Scorpio 0.34
Pluto Libra 21.45 Midheaven Scorpio 28.02
Lilith Virgo 20.41 XI Sagittarius 20.58
Asc node Leo 29.50 XII Capricorn 13.37
well. I feel like I cant express myself like I really want. I feel like an outsider in terms of my way of thinking. Outside the box thinking.
This might be her chart. not 100% positive though. She is the toughest cookie Ive ever known besides my Aries mom
Sun Aries 28.49
Moon Sagittarius 7.14
Mercury Taurus 4.31 R
Venus Aries 13.22
Mars Scorpio 27.17 R
Jupiter Capricorn 12.47
Saturn Scorpio 14.10 R
Uranus Sagittarius 13.09 R
Neptune Capricorn 1.22 R
Pluto Scorpio 0.48 R
Lilith Pisces 14.22
Asc node Gemini 7.16
Posted by Laidbackcap
so youre saying my aqua venus might save me ? hahahaThe story I see is a Cap who is reacting because an Aries girl he likes is not being as receptive as he likes.
Aries is a very independent sign and I think we can get rebellious if there is some kind of expectation imposed on us that takes away our independence. I think that is what your Scorp Moon is doing from her point of view and your Scorp Moon is doing that because I think you want assurances that you are not wasting your time.
An Aries cannot open up tp someone who they feel don't respect them.
IMO 🙂
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My bf is a scorp moon and has been playing silly games like this and honestly its making me wanna run in opposite direction. I can't stand silly games so we are now at a point where we have to have a make or break talk and if this juvenile behaviour doesn't stop then I'm gone.
If you want an aries woman Tell her, give her attention and be straight with her don't play games as she will lose respect for you and wave you off
Zodiac in degrees 0.00
Placidus Orb:0
Sun Capricorn 20.36 Ascendant Aquarius 11.00
Moon Scorpio 3.44 II Pisces 24.17
Mercury Capricorn 14.37 III Taurus 0.34
Venus Aquarius 24.32 IV Taurus 28.02
Mars Virgo 15.14 V Gemini 20.58
Jupiter Virgo 9.50 R VI Cancer 13.37
Saturn Virgo 26.59 R VII Leo 11.00
Uranus Scorpio 24.32 VIII Virgo 24.17
Neptune Sagittarius 21.19 IX Scorpio 0.34
Pluto Libra 21.45 Midheaven Scorpio 28.02
Lilith Virgo 20.41 XI Sagittarius 20.58
Asc node Leo 29.50 XII Capricorn 13.37
your scorpio moon is going to scare her off if you don't stop playing these silly games. Just because she doesn't react the way YOU WANT her to, doesn't mean she doesn't like you. Everyone has their own way of expressing themselves. It is unfair to assume all these things based on her ambiguous mannerisms, and I'm going to stress the word ambiguous.
I dunno. She wont add my on FB, but she added another male coworker right away. I backed off now and still I get no where. I think I was dreaming up her attraction to me.
Posted by Laidbackcap
I dunno. She wont add my on FB, but she added another male coworker right away. I backed off now and still I get no where. I think I was dreaming up her attraction to me.
How long ago did you add her? Maybe she doesn't visit FB often.
I tried to add her like two days ago because I guess she had her FB hidden the whole time.
There are a lot of military friends of her leaving FB comments about how they had to get therapy because of her. LOL. I guess im not the only one confused about her
because i can see her facebook posts. They are joking about it but it looks like she put a lot of these guys through the ringer. They say she looks so innocent.
Posted by Laidbackcap
because i can see her facebook posts. They are joking about it but it looks like she put a lot of these guys through the ringer. They say she looks so innocent.So she added you? Or are those public posts on her timeline?
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Probably public.
their public
I really think shes a psychopath or narcissist. I saw all the signs when I started getting to close to her. It reminded me a lot of my ex. They only like to be the aggressor and dont like people with a backbone.
Posted by Laidbackcap
I really think shes a psychopath or narcissist. I saw all the signs when I started getting to close to her. It reminded me a lot of my ex. They only like to be the aggressor and dont like people with a backbone.
nah, you're just hurt and lashing out lol. It's convenient to deem someone psychotic when they don't like you back.
those facebook posts i saw confirmed I wasnt making stuff up in my head. She is definitely a wackjob that happens to an Aries.
haha you guys are as stubborn as a ram. Hello? She sends guys shes been with to therapy. That doesnt sound like a healthy person. People that send people to therapy due something pretty awful. But i guess you guys think aries do no wrong, right?
wow..this topic is still alive lol...carry on 😄
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wow..this topic is still alive lol...carry on 😄It's all educational for me. I'm always learning and understanding more about Caps, although I think OP's water dominant.
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loooooooool
shes love bombing me lately with compliments. Im not use to compliments but from her i get them regularly. Just being nice or something more?
im suppose to take her out to eat because I lost a bet with her. Dont know if i should hit on her or just keep it business.
Posted by LuckyLibra979
Nope not in my experience. They let you know right up front theyre pretty forward. You'll know in some way but you should be more forward than compliments. If she's used to em then you better be more forward like ask her out to eat or something Aries women are bold and they expect you to be bold, and if you're not they'll piss u off n make you bold
the last time I give her compliments she ripped me a new a-hole. lol, so.....
Posted by LuckyLibra979
Nope not in my experience. They let you know right up front theyre pretty forward. You'll know in some way but you should be more forward than compliments. If she's used to em then you better be more forward like ask her out to eat or something Aries women are bold and they expect you to be bold, and if you're not they'll piss u off n make you boldthe last time I give her compliments she ripped me a new a-hole. lol, so.....
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Go big or go home!
I don't act cold. I don't act. That's why I get so confused when I end up playing some guys game. I can see how to win but I try to do it without acting. By staying genuine. Well that just doesn't work most of the time, because the guy and I aren't compatible. Or he has designed his game to be impossible for ME to win. I end up so confused lol. I always want to win. The struggle is real.
Anyways, so, no I don't act cold. Until you capture my interest, I am cold. Then I am usually hot. If you reciprocate this right I get REALLY hot. I can't tell you how. I'd say 1/5 guys who make it to that stage do. It's mostly because they seem secure, confident, honest. Genuine. So coming back to hard is a huge no... makes you seem insecure. Double standard
I tend to see a guy out, even if I like him I must make sure he's sincere. Most aries ppl attract alot of attention, and to stand out from the regular bs you must prove yourself worthy. I think most aries girls are used to attract alot of player types aswell, and although we're good at calling the bluff, we do want to see how special we are to someone before we dive into it with our hearts. Most times our intentions are pure and game-free, but because we're naive by nature due to the fact we think everyones as honest as we are, we try and protect ourselves from heartaches and drama.
Handled right we can fall in love pretty fast and hard. But never take her for granted if that should happen. If I don't get the respect or effort I put into it myself, I go bored and is out of love before it begun. That being said we can also put up with too much too long and by then it's beyond repair, we get over ppl fast. Always own up to your words, we can't stand grand promises that never have root in reality.
And moping about and being negative or iverly sensitive about stuff is a huge turn OFF!
However I think we are die hard romantics who wants the happy ending. But we tend to frown at the word romance :p
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I think she secretly wants me and is seeing if my intentions are pure. I guess my compliments dont do anything for her because every guy wants her. How does an Aries woman test you?