Have you ever cheated on your partner?

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Freebird
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No, I have not cheated on any of my partners. I could have and had plenty of opportunities to but why ask for another problem when the situation i was in was a problem? I prefer to focus and deal with one problem at a time - either fix it or close the door and move on. If I am in a relationship and it is not going anywhere, I will end it before getting involved with someone else.

"Do you belive that once a cheater always a cheater or can a person change his/her ways?"

I suppose anyone can change if their desire is strong enough for them to - some cheaters thrive off of the drama and excitement that it brings into their lives - it is what makes them feel ALIVE - ego boosters. Some are also known as sex addicts.

anything is possible 😉


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class-act-aries
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im not sure if thats cheating but it comes pretty close or maybe it was cheating and im fooling my self
years ago, when i was just starting to date this girl ( i end up with her for 5 years) but it was so early in our relationship that if my memory serves me right we didnt eve had sex yet, we just made out a lot and it was driving me insane lol . so anyhow this other girl that i had past with showed up on my doorsteps and one thing led to another and we hooked up that day, that was the only one time i did that and felt so bad but still werent sure if it was cheating since i didnt seal the deal with the girl i was starting to date at the time.
after that i fell deeply in love with the girl i was starting to date and it (cheating) never even crossed my mind, i did look and fantasized about other girls but i knew the difference between fantasy and acting on it. looking and fantasizing is a normal for a guy, any guy that denies it isnt honest with him self and this is the type that will cheat first.
besides im a bad lier when it comes to things like that and i would never get away with it,
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ariesgirl402
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Have you ever cheated?
yes- once, well a few times but on the same boyfriend with one guy. i was very young and that was my 1st relationship. i stayed with a guy i cheated with for a few years after.

Why do you think you cheated?
at a time i was in love with the guy i cheated with. need to experience. knew that boyfriend at the time wasn't the one and wanted to get out

Do you belive that once a cheater always a cheater or can a person change his/her ways?
not at all. that was the only time when i cheated on anyone. hated it while was doing it.

Do you still cheat now?
nope. i'll do everything not to cheat
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ariesgirl402
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Have you ever cheated?
yes- once, well a few times but on the same boyfriend with one guy. i was very young and that was my 1st relationship. i stayed with a guy i cheated with for a few years after.

Why do you think you cheated?
at a time i was in love with the guy i cheated with. need to experience. knew that boyfriend at the time wasn't the one and wanted to get out

Do you belive that once a cheater always a cheater or can a person change his/her ways?
not at all. that was the only time when i cheated on anyone. hated it while was doing it.

Do you still cheat now?
nope. i'll do everything not to cheat
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gemini_82grl
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18 Years

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The leo Im seeing right now is like that he has everything I have been wanting and looking for. I really hope he sticks around for a long time.
So geminifox I know how you feel about if you have it all why go elsewhere. Leo man is quite the catch Im imperested with myself... Now I have to figure out to keep him. But whatever Im doing now seems to keep him calling and wanting to see me.