Aries are they usaully bitter and mean

No, not all Aries are like this. Depends on the experiences that a person has experienced in his/her life.

the past....like smoke from a cigarette, it fades away.

I personally choose not to live in the past - why for?

Maybe I am a bit different but....if I was with a man and our relationship did not work out, I'd be glad for him to find the one with whom it did and if it happened to be a friend of mine - cool.

I only hope for others to be happy while on their trip to planet Earth.

I wasn't friends with her before I dated him. I knew her because we live in a small town but we were not friends. When I started dating him she was very ignorant to me and I rose above it, she wanted to maintain a friendship with him and eventually we also became friends (Small town syndrome). After we broke up she remained friends with me and him as well but she seems to have resentment towards me..

aries woman are very jealous so maybe she still has feelings for this guy and is still angry with you because you were about to marry him. But what you are describing is not the typical aries women. We have nothing but mad respect for our friends and their relationships (I know I do!) I dont think you are telling the whole story...maybe you hurt her when you started dating him...whether you guys were friends are not you knew each other...i cant agree with you on that one freebird......it would pissed me off if he started dating someone I knew......even if I was totally over him..i would be mad at them both...and I doubt for seriously if we could be friends after that.

I was not friends with her before I started dating him and I knew of her but I had never spoken to her either...I understand that she cared for him but then why become firends with me...we broke up seven years ago and she is still friends with me...

and I dated a guy after we broke up who was a firend of mine and hers and she slept with him after we broke up...but the past is the past for me...

sorry guys no more to the story...These are the facts..I am not out to bash her, we have been friends for a long time...But I would like to understand her and maybe we could get to the bottom of her resentment towards me and have a real friendship...

she has told me that she was very happy with him because he treated her very good and she had just come out of a 22 year bad relationship..but I believe age was a factor for him she was 13 years older than him and he was not looking at this relationship as permanent..I do believe he was very upfront with her about this.

I could understand her being upset if she was my friend prior to dating him (but I wouldn't have dated him in that situation) but I don't understand her behavior of befriending me if she was mad at me..He dated someone else for a year after they broke up, maybe its misguided anger...I believe that she needs to let go of the past...

It seems your Aries friend is quite bitter and is not happy in her life. This may be why she brings up the past and your part in it. She really needs to move on more for her sake than yours, but if it bothers you, you need to tell her your not interested in what happened in the past and you want to move on. If she persists, you need to tell her that you cannot be friends with her if she insists on bringing up the past. Tell her that bluntly (that's all we Aries can understand 😉

The past is just the past and you shouldn't have to constantly answer to her about it. Hopefully she'll take your advice to move on in good faith and do just that.

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Aries peeps are forgiving and get over anger faster
than alot of the other signs,and if they do hold onto
something,they have been deeply hurt inside.

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