Cc1124
@Cc1124
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Having that conversation without backfiring?? Aries men help is needed
Sorry, advise... I'm not native English speaker, so please forgive
Do u see him every week or every 2 weeks? How far away do u live from each other?
Posted by Sofia87We seeing every week, and live in the same city, very close 😉
Do u see him every week or every 2 weeks? How far away do u live from each other?
Right, my bad, i typed every other week before, should be every week
Oh Jesus Christ, just ask him where you see this going.
"So we've been seeing eachother for awhile. Where do you see this going?"
It's not that damned complicated. If you're that worried about his reaction, chances are you already know this isn't going anywhere beyond sex.
"So we've been seeing eachother for awhile. Where do you see this going?"
It's not that damned complicated. If you're that worried about his reaction, chances are you already know this isn't going anywhere beyond sex.
Posted by Cc1124Ok.. so there’s less sex & sleep overs? Is this due to u or him or the both of u ?Posted by Sofia87We seeing every week, and live in the same city, very close 😉
Do u see him every week or every 2 weeks? How far away do u live from each other?click to expand
Posted by EarthgoddessYep. It gets old seeing people come here and overcomplicating a situation because of their own insecurities. She knows this dude isn't in for the long run which is why she's afraid to ask.Posted by rockyroadicecream😂😂😂😂
Oh Jesus Christ, just ask him where you see this going.
"So we've been seeing eachother for awhile. Where do you see this going?"
It's not that damned complicated. If you're that worried about his reaction, chances are you already know this isn't going anywhere beyond sex.
Bluntness overloadclick to expand
Not asking = not hearing the reality of the situation= ignorance is bliss.
I don’t think he is ready. He will be making it very clear if he was. It’s looks like you are fwb. If he was ready and wanted to be exclusive he wouldn’t want you to be with anyone else.
Posted by pisceswoman123Whenever he kind of knowing i hang out with with guy friends, he acts funny... like wanting to see me immediately or makes plan quicker...
I don’t think he is ready. He will be making it very clear if he was. It’s looks like you are fwb. If he was ready and wanted to be exclusive he wouldn’t want you to be with anyone else.
Is that can say he kind of “want me to be with anyone else”? 😢
However I could feel he's not ready for commitment, but not sure if he's somehow ready to be exclusive...
Posted by Sofia87Still sleep there during the day after Saturdays brunch as usual, normally only sleepover if we meet on Sundays...Posted by Cc1124Ok.. so there’s less sex & sleep overs? Is this due to u or him or the both of u ?Posted by Sofia87We seeing every week, and live in the same city, very close 😉
Do u see him every week or every 2 weeks? How far away do u live from each other?click to expand
Less sex... him, he claimed he's been real stressful about his stability of his job....
He sounds very stand-offish for an otherwise interested Aries tbh. They want to be around you all the time, know what your doing, stay in contact etc etc. Unless circumstance don't allow this. Just ask him outright. Although if you arent sure by now....*shrugs*
Posted by Cc1124Ok, best u can do is bring up the status of your relationship before he goes away for Christmas. That sucks u guys won’t be together for Christmas. Just be straight up with him, tell him its been 6 months we have been seeing each other, I want to know if me & u are on the same page, I want this to progress into something serious, what about u ?Posted by Sofia87Still sleep there during the day after Saturdays brunch as usual, normally only sleepover if we meet on Sundays...Posted by Cc1124Ok.. so there’s less sex & sleep overs? Is this due to u or him or the both of u ?Posted by Sofia87We seeing every week, and live in the same city, very close 😉
Do u see him every week or every 2 weeks? How far away do u live from each other?
Less sex... him, he claimed he's been real stressful about his stability of his job....click to expand
Posted by Sofia87Should I even mention something like I'm not up for anything like fwb etc... or I will leave him for good?Posted by Cc1124Ok, best u can do is bring up the status of your relationship before he goes away for Christmas. That sucks u guys won’t be together for Christmas. Just be straight up with him, tell him its been 6 months we have been seeing each other, I want to know if me & u are on the same page, I want this to progress into something serious, what about u ?Posted by Sofia87Still sleep there during the day after Saturdays brunch as usual, normally only sleepover if we meet on Sundays...Posted by Cc1124Ok.. so there’s less sex & sleep overs? Is this due to u or him or the both of u ?Posted by Sofia87We seeing every week, and live in the same city, very close 😉
Do u see him every week or every 2 weeks? How far away do u live from each other?
Less sex... him, he claimed he's been real stressful about his stability of his job....click to expand
Posted by Cc1124No I wouldn’t say that cuz he should get the point that you’re not up for FWB after u say something like I told u to sayPosted by Sofia87Should I even mention something like I'm not up for anything like fwb etc... or I will leave him for good?Posted by Cc1124Ok, best u can do is bring up the status of your relationship before he goes away for Christmas. That sucks u guys won’t be together for Christmas. Just be straight up with him, tell him its been 6 months we have been seeing each other, I want to know if me & u are on the same page, I want this to progress into something serious, what about u ?Posted by Sofia87Still sleep there during the day after Saturdays brunch as usual, normally only sleepover if we meet on Sundays...Posted by Cc1124Ok.. so there’s less sex & sleep overs? Is this due to u or him or the both of u ?Posted by Sofia87We seeing every week, and live in the same city, very close 😉
Do u see him every week or every 2 weeks? How far away do u live from each other?
Less sex... him, he claimed he's been real stressful about his stability of his job....click to expand
Posted by EarthgoddessI wouldnt recover from a conversation like this 🙂 sleeping with 4 women at the same time would send me packing 🙂 🙂 but I guess it depends also on the involved feelings and a lenght of time of dating....
Oh tough one
Idk!!!
I asked to be sexually exclusive but he initiated the relationship.but the sex talk went like
After sex
Me: question? Are U sleeping with anyone else
Him: 😐...............yes
Me: like how many?
Him:😳..........3( looks down)
Me: why?
Him: idk aren't u
Me: No
Him:why not?
Me: your all I need so why would I
Him: 😳🙃 so....are u asking to be exclusive!
Me:yes 👀
Him: 😇 This can be whatever u want so ok
Me:😳😀😍😘 cuddle
Good luck
it seems your confidence and indifference towards this made him make you want more 🙂
how long into the dating you had this conversation above?
Posted by Earthgoddesswould you have this conversation (I mean like it went) if you were emotionally involved and it was the first time of getting together?Posted by Pandora101Posted by EarthgoddessI wouldnt recover from a conversation like this 🙂 sleeping with 4 women at the same time would send me packing 🙂 🙂 but I guess it depends also on the involved feelings and a lenght of time of dating....
Oh tough one
Idk!!!
I asked to be sexually exclusive but he initiated the relationship.but the sex talk went like
After sex
Me: question? Are U sleeping with anyone else
Him: 😐...............yes
Me: like how many?
Him:😳..........3( looks down)
Me: why?
Him: idk aren't u
Me: No
Him:why not?
Me: your all I need so why would I
Him: 😳🙃 so....are u asking to be exclusive!
Me:yes 👀
Him: 😇 This can be whatever u want so ok
Me:😳😀😍😘 cuddle
Good luck
it seems your confidence and indifference towards this made him make you want more 🙂
how long into the dating you had this conversation above?
Ummm me and the Aries have a complicated start
On and off 5yrs so it's hard to say exactly
We would get together between my realationship with the libra. This last time tho he came on super strong when he found out I broke up AGAiN
I guess I had this reaction becuz I just knew I wasn't the only one ( he's super hot) and I had no expectations
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if you were "rejecting" him for 5 years (going back to your libra), then he is not sure about you and is happy to have you finally 🙂 its kinda romantic.... maybe he lied about the other 3 woman, to not seem to "under your spell".... the ego thing 🙂
Posted by WolfInRamsClothingI just took a gander at that thread.
Weren't you the one with the condoms story? *rolls eyes
This chick is a fucking lost cause. She knew 3 months in there was something up. Here she is another three months later asking the same question.
Way too many women showing up to DXP stuck on stupid.
Posted by Sofia87Thanks Sofia87, hopefully it will turn out to be something good, but tbh I am ready for the worse. 😢Posted by Cc1124No I wouldn’t say that cuz he should get the point that you’re not up for FWB after u say something like I told u to sayPosted by Sofia87Should I even mention something like I'm not up for anything like fwb etc... or I will leave him for good?Posted by Cc1124Ok, best u can do is bring up the status of your relationship before he goes away for Christmas. That sucks u guys won’t be together for Christmas. Just be straight up with him, tell him its been 6 months we have been seeing each other, I want to know if me & u are on the same page, I want this to progress into something serious, what about u ?Posted by Sofia87Still sleep there during the day after Saturdays brunch as usual, normally only sleepover if we meet on Sundays...Posted by Cc1124Ok.. so there’s less sex & sleep overs? Is this due to u or him or the both of u ?Posted by Sofia87We seeing every week, and live in the same city, very close 😉
Do u see him every week or every 2 weeks? How far away do u live from each other?
Less sex... him, he claimed he's been real stressful about his stability of his job....click to expand
Posted by Cc1124I hope so too 😊Posted by Sofia87Thanks Sofia87, hopefully it will turn out to be something good, but tbh I am ready for the worse. 😢Posted by Cc1124No I wouldn’t say that cuz he should get the point that you’re not up for FWB after u say something like I told u to sayPosted by Sofia87Should I even mention something like I'm not up for anything like fwb etc... or I will leave him for good?Posted by Cc1124Ok, best u can do is bring up the status of your relationship before he goes away for Christmas. That sucks u guys won’t be together for Christmas. Just be straight up with him, tell him its been 6 months we have been seeing each other, I want to know if me & u are on the same page, I want this to progress into something serious, what about u ?Posted by Sofia87Still sleep there during the day after Saturdays brunch as usual, normally only sleepover if we meet on Sundays...Posted by Cc1124Ok.. so there’s less sex & sleep overs? Is this due to u or him or the both of u ?Posted by Sofia87We seeing every week, and live in the same city, very close 😉
Do u see him every week or every 2 weeks? How far away do u live from each other?
Less sex... him, he claimed he's been real stressful about his stability of his job....click to expand
Posted by Sofia87I wonder.. how or under what situation I should bring this up? Just thinking how to make it doesn't feel too awkward.... making it to text messages is too casual right ?Posted by Cc1124I hope so too 😊Posted by Sofia87Thanks Sofia87, hopefully it will turn out to be something good, but tbh I am ready for the worse. 😢Posted by Cc1124No I wouldn’t say that cuz he should get the point that you’re not up for FWB after u say something like I told u to sayPosted by Sofia87Should I even mention something like I'm not up for anything like fwb etc... or I will leave him for good?Posted by Cc1124Ok, best u can do is bring up the status of your relationship before he goes away for Christmas. That sucks u guys won’t be together for Christmas. Just be straight up with him, tell him its been 6 months we have been seeing each other, I want to know if me & u are on the same page, I want this to progress into something serious, what about u ?Posted by Sofia87Still sleep there during the day after Saturdays brunch as usual, normally only sleepover if we meet on Sundays...Posted by Cc1124Ok.. so there’s less sex & sleep overs? Is this due to u or him or the both of u ?Posted by Sofia87We seeing every week, and live in the same city, very close 😉
Do u see him every week or every 2 weeks? How far away do u live from each other?
Less sex... him, he claimed he's been real stressful about his stability of his job....click to expand
Still 2 weeks to go he flying home for Xmas...
Posted by Cc1124Posted by Sofia87I wonder.. how or under what situation I should bring this up? Just thinking how to make it doesn't feel too awkward.... making it to text messages is too casual right ?Posted by Cc1124I hope so too 😊Posted by Sofia87Thanks Sofia87, hopefully it will turn out to be something good, but tbh I am ready for the worse. 😢Posted by Cc1124No I wouldn’t say that cuz he should get the point that you’re not up for FWB after u say something like I told u to sayPosted by Sofia87Should I even mention something like I'm not up for anything like fwb etc... or I will leave him for good?Posted by Cc1124Ok, best u can do is bring up the status of your relationship before he goes away for Christmas. That sucks u guys won’t be together for Christmas. Just be straight up with him, tell him its been 6 months we have been seeing each other, I want to know if me & u are on the same page, I want this to progress into something serious, what about u ?Posted by Sofia87Still sleep there during the day after Saturdays brunch as usual, normally only sleepover if we meet on Sundays...Posted by Cc1124Ok.. so there’s less sex & sleep overs? Is this due to u or him or the both of u ?Posted by Sofia87We seeing every week, and live in the same city, very close 😉
Do u see him every week or every 2 weeks? How far away do u live from each other?
Less sex... him, he claimed he's been real stressful about his stability of his job....
Still 2 weeks to go he flying home for Xmas...click to expand
No right situation hunnie, if it were me, I would bring it up in person
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