How long will it take an Aries girl...

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thelibran
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to start chasing me? We met end of Nov when she was here on a business trip. Had a nice evening walking around the city till 2 am and occasionally checking out few pubs. Then she went back to her country. One day she asked me to help her out in sorting out some design and I did my best. She came back to Singapore few days before Xmas for another meeting and we went out again and checked out some pubs and talked a lot and again went for a long walk. Then she asked me to accompany her to see her off at the airport. Now am waiting for her to come back and finally settle down here so I can see her more. Are these some signs that the chase is already on? I am quite confused(obviously...) 🙂

I am quite anxious. Way restless. Appreciate your comments on this.

thanks. 🙂

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not long! An Aries girl would never hang out w/ someone if they didnt like them, we're too honest and independent, we hang out w/ ppl bc we want to, not need to.

What kinda conversations did you two have? Remember that Aries need intellectual stimulation (not an issue w/ a libra!) but while we're smart it's your charm that will ultimately win her over. When is she suppose to come back? The fact that she asked you to go the airport w/ her is a good sign that she's into you, as no Aries girl needs an escort to the airport, more so she wanted to spend the very last few minutes she could w/ you.

The long walks are also a good sign. Not something I would typically do w/ someone I didnt like or wasnt interested in. Her asking for your help is also good as it shows she respects your judgement and opinion. It is also likely an excuse to meet up or talk to you!

Keep it light but exciting, have fun with it. The best astrological advice I have ever read about Aries that I have found true for myself is to appear interesting rather than interested. Another words be nice, if you are too distant we will assume you arent interested and would back off. But if we think theirs something their but are kept guessing a little bit, you become a challege we want to win over, and trust me any restlessness you have likely pales in comparision to the thoughts in her head about how to win you over. Good luck!
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(( You need to do your part and let her know that you are interested. She may just think of you as a friend, do you have any clue how she may think of you? ))

This is exactly what worries me. I dont know if my signals are way subtle and she might begin to see me as a good friend than a potential lover. How can i put it across in an interesting manner? any suggestions? 🙂 thanks

We met in a dating site. But that was just 10 mts chat and then she said lets meet now. So we met and we talked and went around. We talked about so many things. Her career, my career, how she landed in singapore and how she jumped jobs and so many things. We just kept talking and it was way easy for me to talk bcoz it was all straight forward talks and there wasnt any traces of stupidity or nonsense. Then one day she was depressed after her boss yelled at her. So I talked to her about astrology and how Aries hates being bossed around and that too by someone with lower intelligence which really made her happy that night. Her boss is a saggi. So he keeps yelling at her to support his insecurities. So after I explained all the psychological reasons, i felt she is all excited. She even made me dance which i have never done before. She shud be back by end of this month. Waiting ... 🙂
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She probably chased her guys all her life. But for sure she secretly desires a man who can sweep her off her feet for a change. So, be a little flirtatious, veeeery polite and old fashioned, give her room to make a move and when you notice something like flirting from her side, take the lead. But gently. If you come on too strong, you'll seem easy and ged bored, if you are too aloof, you'll be just another prey. My bet is on very romantic gestures but not in public (for example, find out what time her plane arrives and surprise her by being there. Buy flowers, but don't give them to her in front of the whole airport this first time.) Oh! and be sure you mention that you didn't go on that dating site since a long time. My guy is a libra and I think he was the gift of God to me. So I hope this helps you and I hope you two will be a good match.