How to make an Aries commit? :(

I've been dating an Aries guy for 3 months now.He has venus in Aries,Mars in Taurus and Moon in cap.Our relationship is pretty good.He texts me everyday and we see eachother every weekend.He's usually the one who always initiates contact.He introduced me to all his friends and even told me he told his family about me.The only problem is I can't relax and I stress all the time because we are not official.I just don't feel safe in the relationship.What would be a good way to make my Aries guy commit to me and call me his gf 😢We never had the talk and I'm too shy to ask him what we are.Should i be the first one to ask him or should I wait for him?I'm always there for him....maybe backing off would help?

Posted by Curiousram
Good luck.... hun venus in aries aren't settlers and tbh they are cheaters.

ugh I thought so.That's the other thing I'm scared about 😢((((((((((((((((((

Venus in Aries here..neve cheated.

Posted by deepseagiant2
Venus in Aries here..neve cheated.

really?Are you a male?and what are your other placements?I keep hearing all venus in aries cheat 😢

LOL

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Posted by Curiousram
Good luck.... hun venus in aries aren't settlers and tbh they are cheaters.

Way to generalise.

Op, Venus in Aries here. Yes we are not all settlers, but for those of us who aren't, eventually we do when we feel the person and the time is right.

Also keep in mind sometimes it isn't really all about the signs. Have had 2 exes who cheated on me and both didn't have Venus in Aries.

Lol i was more on the not settling part. Cheating yes was a generalization

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yea I guess it's cause they love their freedom and space.The guys I'm dating likes to be alone.

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Posted by Curiousram
Good luck.... hun venus in aries aren't settlers and tbh they are cheaters.

Way to generalise.

Op, Venus in Aries here. Yes we are not all settlers, but for those of us who aren't, eventually we do when we feel the person and the time is right.

Also keep in mind sometimes it isn't really all about the signs. Have had 2 exes who cheated on me and both didn't have Venus in Aries.

Lol i was more on the not settling part. Cheating yes was a generalization

yea I guess it's cause they love their freedom and space.The guys I'm dating likes to be alone.

Do you know his moon sign? I am Aries Sun and Venus in Aries, and yes I love my personal space and need to be alone, but I have a Scorp Moon so that keeps me devoted (almost obsessed wih sometimes) to whomever I am dating, regardless of my need for freedom and space.

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My aries is Moon in Cap

Posted by Curiousram
^ Ew same guy i liked had the same placement cap moon/venus aries

uh oh 😢 did he cheat?or he just never gave you commitment?

oh cheated!sorry to hear curious ram😢

walkingonair, You can put some pressure to make him slowly commit, but not much. Just a little bit, so that he knows it matters to you, and he doesn't feel trapped.

My leeb ex first made me say "I love you" (wich took some weeks), then made sure to know my family (even more weeks), and so on... It's a game of pacience really. You said he presented his family to you, so it's a good indication already.

I think you could just tell him you'd want the relationship to be official. Be casual.

Just keep being a challenge (Aries love that), and don't even bother being worried. That'll make him interested.

don't try to MAKE us do anything. We hate being controlled. Being committed doesn't have anything to do with your zodiac sign, but there are certain personality traits of signs that may be approached a certain way so you could increase your chances of doing so.

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don't try to MAKE us do anything. We hate being controlled. Being committed doesn't have anything to do with your zodiac sign, but there are certain personality traits of signs that may be approached a certain way so you could increase your chances of doing so.

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