I dont GET IT!

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deeZired
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17 YearsGemini

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My Aries Ex wont speak to me AT aLL and Pretty MuCh Hates me. N I dont get why he is acting this way, we have been broken up for a couple months now. Im especially confused cause we started off as friends.

Im starting to think its his maturity level.. he cant even verbalize why he is acting this way.. just says leave me the hell alone.

N the CraZy thing .. He BrokE up With ME!! lol WTH is goin ON!
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i've found it's easier to handle a breakup in a more harsh way, even though that's not necessarily how im feeling. i always need to step away completely for a long time before i even consider friendship.

i dont think he hates at all though. my exes always think i hate them for being so distant but that's never true. it's just easier to shut everything out and only think about myself at times like this. fyi IT IS his maturity level. this is very immature behavior and sometimes we just cant help it.
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If a fire sign does go cold on you, is that it??
Will you never get back into their good books again ??


mostly yes - it's rare but when it happens - that's it...

Ashley's mostly right...talking to anyone that hurt you will leave you vulnerable for hurt again ...aries doesn't go back...it here and now, forget reminiscing...it's like they have memory issues with the past...you'll likely be put in the 'forget books' 🙂 no friendships, no openness --- that's not normal for Aries to be that way, so even you will feel very uncomfortable around them..hehe


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deeZired
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17 YearsGemini

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can tell you Aries are HORRIBLE at communicating their feelings. For me, it's almost like I only have two emotions: Anger and happiness. The anger is usually a first instinct when something's bothering me...not the healthiest reacting I know,
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This Is so truE about him! But I mean a person can only take bein bunrt up so many times...lol. It can be exhausting.. I mean hell get suddenly extremely angry ..n then not even wanna talk about why ? just expects you to know. I love aries people, they are very kind and lovable. But i dont know if I want to get back with him.. Im afraid fire season is over for me.
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deeZired
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no! we will never get back together... he is insane. Irrational, controlling and jealous. I hate how aries have this I can do it but you cant attitude. Its so immature and selfish. I dont care about his feelings any more. I told him straight up to find another chick to love cause Im done with you.

We are currently not in the same city..and we cant even have a regular conversation. He just jumps to the same question over and over again... who are you talking to and who have you slept with? which I find to be beside the point.. .. ugh. Im so done with him....