Aries was ending a relationship when he met me....

I keep hearing from Aries?..on and off all summer. Well he has been sending me texts every now and then. So after the hurricane he asks how I'm doing.

I replied to him only to get a call from him the next day. We talked for a few and I guess he wanted to see me but I had company coming over because they have no power after the hurricane.

I told him to call me the next day to see if he wanted to come over. The next day I sent him a text asking if we were going to get together that day or what. I think he was working and he didn't respond. So I get a call from him, while my roommate and I were out to dinner. He was asking if I would like to come to his place and watch a movie (we have watched movies every time we get together). Well come to find out he still didn't have power at his place. I told him that I wanted to go visit my brother first that lives close to him and then go to his place after. (I figured if I am going to drive that way I might as well see how my brother and his family are doing). He said to take my time because the pwr wasn't restored yet.

Finally I get to his place he gives me a kiss on the lips and we sit outside and talk/catch up. I hadn't really seen him since mid july.
Yada yada yada?..we did the hokey pokey and we turned ourselves around!!!! LOL

So I decided to say/ask??..?you have a girlfriend don't you?? he was taken a back and just told me the whole truth or the truth according to him?.who knows.

That he had a gf but they were ending things around the time we met and hooked up the first time (back in June). That was the beginning of the end for them and then they decided to give it another shot??but they were off and on all summer. Hence the spottiness he displayed with me. (I have to admit the honesty was quiet refreshing)
He was telling me that he was really into her and he thought they could be the real thing for life. And he wanted to know why I suspected he had a girlfriend. I told him I just had a feeling and I went with my gut, and that he treated me like i was and option not a priority. He was so easy about the whole thing (so was I) and he was I guess happy that I didn't act all shady about it??.i could completely understand him without judging (I have been in the almost exact situation at the same time). It was all so WEIRD!!!!!
We then went on do discuss his feelings about how girls tend to get clingy with him and he was impressed on how independent I was. I think we bonded 😉

The only thing I am afraid of is??..I don't want to have feelings for him. I like him. And he never BSed me or promised anything. I don't know what he wants or if it is just to have someone (lonely and brokenhearted??). For me I am physically and mentally attracted to him but I have not feelings for him. And one other thing does he want to see me more— I never took this seriously or wanted too. Never had a casual thing but I know all things change which ever the direction, it won't stay like this for long.

SageTree - I'm an Aries F and I'm dating a Sag M - so a little reversed - regardless, THIS is a powerful combination: Sag/Aries...all I can say is hold on! The more you spend time together the more you two will just "click".

Trust me - you have feelings for him no way around it and he probably has feelings for you. Your independence is refreshing to him and his honesty and directness is great for you.

My advice is just roll with it for now - try not to define this just yet, sounds like the two of you are just now getting back to communicating.

P.S. I'm also located in Houston - just got the power back yesterday! Hope you faired well.

Run: got my pwr tues! thank goodness.....a little water in the kitchen and master bedroom, but that should be taken care of by today. Hope you and yours is ok....

Aries is ok in my book I find him very masculine and for me that is very important. I even feel like I am a girl around him. I usually feel like the more empowered person of any match I've been in before. And it helps that he's a hotty!! But on the other hand I don't like to get involved with the hotties, becuase they can tend to think something better is around the corner.

thats more of a ego then hottie, i dont think im a hottie yet i cant help to think that the next girl might be IT by it i mean a sagg cause in reality i think thats what i keep searching for even though i was drug to hell and back because of one , but thats all news, and i know i would jump feet first with another sagg but they are so hard to come by 😢

Did I mention that his personal library has a lot of books on psychology and others about sex? I thought that was peculiar. Like he is a get inside your mind and panties kind of guy— Just a theory

wow psychic sex ! 😉

Is he studying psychology or working as one?

Not really surprised, Aries is a physical, emotional, as well as mind sign - so you can find some exploring the human mind or the underworld.

I sometimes suspect that he is trying to read me.... and seducing me. I have a Pisces moon so I feel things to easy like I know what he is thinking when he looks at me. As if he is trying to crack a code. When we talked on the phone the first time, he did say I was very hard to read.

Zen... I think its a hobby, or was a minor. He doesn't have anything to do with that field as far a I know.

lol he is trying to seduce you haha thats what we aries do, specially the aries who have little oil upstairs, why do you think i love this website so much,
it has turned me from just occasionally getting lucky to a pretty much getting lucky anytime i want
:-) :-) :-)
who need psychology when you got astrology and no matter how hard you try or how you were raised your animal instincts are the same lol

lmao !

CAA for shame ! A girl doesn't need to know that 😛

So is it working SageTree? 😉

I think so....because he hasn't called and now im left wondering. Before I didn't care.

Oh boy!!!


Im fighting it though....

because he knows that you have an interest, he is testing you lol

because he knows that you have an interest, he is testing you lol


Awww that happened to me...sag you are a better fit for not becomming bored with that behavior & making fun out of it...I'm sure you have no worries...I on the other hand so a pretty butterfly & flew away.... sigh


Also for some hope.... SAG'S ARE AWESOME PEOPLE he would be extremely dumb to let you get away!

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Juicy..luv luv gems!!! My best friend is a gem and we are in two different universes but the same.
I laugh because I always say she can get distracted very easy...... she always sees something shiny and there she goes.

I get along with air; mostly are all my best friends. Earth is the hardest for me to get along with.

I guess I never met a fire sign that I actually dated?.they are the hardest to find. water forget it. But they are one step above earth.

CAA-I hope this is a fun test.........

if you never dates a fire sign than this should be a fun trip
you will kick your self in the butt why you havent dated a fire sign before lol

your getting me all excited!!! i want to date him now! Uh oh ,did i say that?!

just give him a little sign that you would like to and let him do the rest
but seriously imsaying that casue i know that before i met my ex sagg all my relationships would last 3-9 months and i would dump them, but when i met this sagg before i knew it was 5 years and i was getting dumped ouch for the first time lol oh my
but it was great and i have such a connection with every sagg girl i meat that its hard to ingore. so give it a try what you got to loose, maybe some sleepless nights lol