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This topic was created in the Aries forum by JuiCy* on Saturday, September 20, 2008 and has 14 replies.

Understanding Aries Emotions and Behavior

Aries individuals are often direct and open but may also hold back their deeper feelings. They value honesty and straightforwardness but can sometimes mask their true emotions. Building trust and patience helps in understanding their emotional depth beyond their fiery exterior.

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@JuiCy*
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So everyone says you won't have to question a aries , you will know where you stand ...yada yada......So then maybe i have met the odd one of the bunch. I figured if i can understand a scorpio to a certain degree, An aries would be a walk in the park! Not the last one though... I feel like you guys hold alot back (feelings wise) although you are open. If that makes sense

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@ariesgirl402
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i hold on to my feelings a lot. particuarly if someone who i care about hurts my feelings i sulk inside until i can't deal with it anymore. so, it's like we're very open but not emotionally. my moon is in scorp so it's a double whammy for me🙂

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@i love ewe
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i can see that. people generally know where they stand with aries unless they put too much thought into it. aries are quite simple minded and not too complex (am i putting myself down by saying this?) but i make a point of keeping my interactions at a more superficial level (like, i find it easy to befriend people quickly and feel comfortable with them right off the bat).

ive noticed aries to be the kind of people that everyone knows and see around but few get really close to.

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@JuiCy*
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well my bestfriend of 10 years is an aries...thicker then thick! Although i can see how people might find her "simple" bc she is honest & direct......she to me is extremely complicated i guess we are like family and knowing a person inside & out for the most part just doesn't make it simple anymore lol....Also an aries male that i've gotten close to he always said "I have a hard time expressing myself" and he would try but... lol so i don't think aries are that simple at all.. just direct. It's human nature for us to think we are simple bc we know us (for the most part) lol but not to other people..

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@JuiCy*
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not that i don't understand her i do & can relate sometimes but i mean extremely complicated as to if she were to speak to another person about certain things they might be a bit confused...

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@zenalchemy
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Jui,

Aries is a sign of the self, so there are parts that no one can ever touch. Aries is described the child of the zodiac - when you think about it, do you ever understand a child? 🙂 If we did, having kids will be a walk in the park, right?

The openness can be related to the implusiveness, you'll know where you stand at a point in time as Aries lives in the moment, come back later...that may have changed.

The Aries = Sag + Scorp is a nice analogy though --- food for thought

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@JuiCy*
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it's originally suppost to be..Aries is the infant..Taurus is the infant reaching walking stages..gemini the child etc ...about being in the moment that actually put the peices all together... natrually men are moment types & being an aries i'm assuming that would double it's meaning.... zena thank you lol

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@zenalchemy
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sorry - I meant infant - I tend to interchange both - so you can see - infants can't xpress themselves verbally but to cry out in frustration when they want something...if they don't want anything, well...shiny new toy 😉

Oh right - more thoughts --- so Taurus reaching out for stability

I can see the Geminis in the why stage though - 'but why mom?, but why dad...' 😛

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@zenalchemy
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Hmmm, the moment thing + the infant thing - the infant only knows one emotion at any point in time so express in the moment e.g. infant hungry - screams until fed, then all is well forgets what they were screaming about almost immediately - that's the in-the-moment thing of Aries I think --- If they don't want anything, they're probably more quiet and secretive than most signs...

most other signs combine the past and/or future in their expressions or actions.

Aries females think in the moment too that's why they appear more male than female in conversations and actions - so the complication starts - "should I think this way? Is it considered normal for females to act this way?..." etc

What do you think?

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@Freebird
21 Years1,000+ Posts

"What do you think?"

Ah karumba! thinking hurts my head sometimes...over the y e a r s....I have learned to not think so much and go with what I am feeling - so much easier! I am still a liver of the moment and appreciate the fact that I am....what else is there?

In days gone by I am sure that I did question my thinking more times than not........not any more though! ::raises glass::

Cheers 😉