I don't think I've ever met a typical aries male

until now. This one AM has been trying to speak to me since January, and while I've been responding back, I haven't really been doing much in the "let's get closer" department because I've been busy with certain things in life. There are times when I ignore him, when I'm too busy to get back with him, when plans to hang out backfire, and he keeps coming back. There was one time where I didn't speak to him for a couple of weeks (and this was before I had his number) and out of the blue he messages me and gives me his number even after he expressed that it didn't seem I was the type to want to get to know people. He's very into his appearance (working out every day, his many pictures of himself with his shirt off) as well himself in general. Although I remember once he told me that his brother went to my university, and I asked him about his brother; his response, "I don't really know much about what he's studying, but hey, keep your focus on me, okay!" I only asked him what his brother's name was and his major in case I knew him!

Just recently, this Aries said something to me that kind of offended me. He commented on how I change the subject in conversations sometimes, (after I mentioned wanting to go to the cherry blossom festival after we couldn't hang out one day) and he told me I changed the subject and he was confused. I apologized and told him this happens at times since I have a lot going on in my head. He replied back with, "Right. Conversation is going to be tough then. U never get back on track." Mind you, we've spoken on the phone more than once and had nice conversation before. I got upset by that and told him off (sort of) and ignored him after that night and for the next couple of days. Since then, he's been texting me every day at least once. I can't tell if he's realized he did something wrong, but he sure hasn't stopped yet.

The thing is, he intrigues me a bit, which is why I haven't really dropped him completely (although, I was pining after a Cancer in between). I'm a Virgo, btw. I have many aries friends, some being my best friends, but we also butt heads constantly.

Also, you always hear about AriesG/VirgoM, but never AriesM/VirgoG. So I never exactly know if they have the same attraction as the other pairing or what brings them together.

I'm just speaking for myself as an aries but we honestly dont realize if we've offended someone. We're like children sometimes...we don't think before we speak. I've not encountered many male aries but the few that I do know it's either a love or hate relationship.

RUNNNN!!! LIKE HELL. Then again running would make him chase you more. call him non stop act clingy they him your feelings so he can stop bothering you, Trust me you don't want to be bothered with him!!!!!!!!!!!

tell* my bad

Lol, you know what AA your right. See how is goes for you but if he acts up I warned you.

I have love for Aries, I have good Aries friends. So your right my anger is more towards my ex Aries. But when I read her story she said he offended her and he kinda sound a lot like my ex so that's why I said run fast, but I don't mean to offend any other Aries out there.

Yes!! to all the above.

Posted by love_365

Candeh15??_you??re a very busy person and you have a lot on your mind. In my opinion this may not work right now. I think its best if you just leave it as friends. I am an Aries. I love being around Virgos but not for too long. It's just something about a Virgo that I don't like. The best word I can use??_.weird!!!! They mirror people.

Lol, I kind of knew it might not work out, but he's incredibly persistent. One of the things that really bothered me was that he kept saying, "You know, you live really far as heck. I don't want to inconvenience you." Now, I live in the DC metro area, like on the outskirts, and he lives in the city. I can easily tke the metro to see him; he just has the worst timing possible. I even asked him once to hang out, and he was like, "lets do it tomorrow, I want to finish something." But I was going out tomorrow. But it pissed me off when he kept saying I was really far, becuse in my mind, I'm not. When you're in the metro area, you're never too far from anything. And I just kept thinking that if he really wanted to see me, why couldn't he just work up the nerve to actually come to see me? It actually turns me off a little.

I actually remember tht I've dealt with an aries before. A year ago, I was speaking to one after I met him, typical aries, at my friend's apartment who I really fell for. He seemed to be really into me and he spoke to me everyday. After while of speaking to each other, when we were at a party at a friend's, we ended up getting really close, dancing and making out all night. Things were fine, but after some time, he began to speak to me less, until he just stopped altogether. I finally saw him at a party at the friend's apartment where we met, and later in the night, he was making out with another girl. Huzzah. Aries and I are quite special.

Also, virgos do really mirror people, lol. I think out of most of the signs, virgos and aries butt heads the most.

Oh I have nothing wrong with working out. I do that myself all the time. I love to work out because I also have a lot of energy that I build up and it relaxes me. Plus, I'm really nitpicky about my health and what not. He even asked me to come work out with him one morning, and I would have enjoyed that, but things didn't work out. A lot of the time, virgos mirror their partners because they will only give what they receive due to trust. Personally, it really makes me uncomfortable thinking I might be giving more than what I receive; if my partner seems sort of distant, I'll be the same. If my partner is absolutely loving and open, I'll be the same. However, if we aren't ready to fully trust our partner, we won't exactly mirror the others actions. With this aries, I think I have a more nonchalant, go with the flow attitude until I feel we either work something out or it just ends for good.

@ Candeh15 I understand exactly what you mean. My favorite cousin is an Virgo and she is the same way. I don't think she would ever go with an Aries though, she hated my EX Aries she was only civil for me. As for the working out yeah most Aries do, my ex do and I think he's addicted he's there 24/7 in the gym, He's starting to get way to big which i think is ewww. I remember he asked me to come workout to but I declined my cousin went with him cause Virgos do like to workout.