I need some Aries advice

I have been offered this great job in atlanta with awesome benefits and closer to home. Thats the reason I was looking for a new job to be closer to home with the way gas is rising and rising.

Anyway I like the job I have now. The people really depend on me and make me feel important. So its going to be so hard to give them 2 weeks notice.

So what would you do? I know I can only do whats best for me and my family. My gem tells me I need to get something closer because I am driving 2 hours a day to get back and forth to work. It will only take me 15 minutes to get to my new job.

Im confused please help 😢

and forgot to mention it is MORE money

Take the new job!!!!

It seems from what you are describing that pretty much everything at the new job will work better for you. You need to take care of you first and foremost. This is often said, but not always acted upon. Act upon it.

As for your current work situation, it can be really hard to leave people behind people who really appreciate you and what you do. There is no doubt about that. Hopefully, the new folks come to appreciate you as much as this current group. And if they don't, well, you have another notch in Ye Olde resume belt, and you can use that to move on if you have to.

You have to "strike when the metal is hot." Go, go, go, get 'em!!!!!

Posted by dofacc
Take the new job!!!!

It seems from what you are describing that pretty much everything at the new job will work better for you. You need to take care of you first and foremost. This is often said, but not always acted upon. Act upon it.

As for your current work situation, it can be really hard to leave people behind people who really appreciate you and what you do. There is no doubt about that. Hopefully, the new folks come to appreciate you as much as this current group. And if they don't, well, you have another notch in Ye Olde resume belt, and you can use that to move on if you have to.

You have to "strike when the metal is hot." Go, go, go, get 'em!!!!!

thank you...now i have to get up the nerve to turn in my resignation....thanks for the advice..it helps

Take the new Job everything will be fine and besides your an Aries think of this as a new adventure in your life and im sure you will have the same support at your new job as you did in your old one.

Take the money girl!




"The people really depend on me ..... So its going to be so hard to give them 2 weeks notice"
This is soooooo Aries!!!

You have to put yourself first for once. Look after you.

Take the new job, and have faith in your ability to make new connections in this world.

My biggest fear is losing the great team feeling I have in any of the teams I have been in. But too often I have found myself better off in new environments, though I don't make regrets, I do wonder at times why I didn't move on and upward sooner.

Case in point, the current AMAZING job I have now, was available for 2 years at the same place, but only now I have synced up with knowing it was there, and that I was available.

You will miss your current team, but they will cheer you on and understand your reasons!

GOOD LUCK with your decision, this is a great time to come into your own, whether you are an Aries with a job to hold onto, or an Aries like my friend who lost his job this Monday.

All the best D!

Posted by dward417
I have been offered this great job in atlanta with awesome benefits and closer to home. Thats the reason I was looking for a new job to be closer to home with the way gas is rising and rising.

Anyway I like the job I have now. The people really depend on me and make me feel important. So its going to be so hard to give them 2 weeks notice.

So what would you do? I know I can only do whats best for me and my family. My gem tells me I need to get something closer because I am driving 2 hours a day to get back and forth to work. It will only take me 15 minutes to get to my new job.

Im confused please help 😢

I am confused as to why you are confused :S

I think you have forgotten it's a job at the end of the day and in the business sense, even your current colleagues should encourage you to take the new role:

1. More money, not just with the new package but with savings in time and fuel.
2. Time saved can be put to more productive use and catching up with things you never have time to do, spending time with loved ones, etc. Not to talk of the tiredness associated with such long driving (and saving the environment!)
3. You are not thinking career progression: if you take the new package with higher benefits/package, this enables you negotiate an even bigger benefit package (hopefully) in your next role.
4. If your current role was unavailable for any reason and they couldn't afford you anymore, you will be dumped like a sack of hot potatoes. That's how it works

The people really depend on me and make me feel important ---> with all the time saved with the new job, you can do some charity/volunteer work --- same feeling to satisfy the Aries 'Joan of Arc tendencies 🙂

You will also have time to hang out with the friends you made at your old place.

thanks guys for all your helpful advice 🙂

Posted by ImpressMe
Hmmm...D' you fancy, huh, lol. Love the new pic 😉

thank you girl 🙂

Posted by ImpressMe
Hmmm...D' you fancy, huh, lol. Love the new pic 😉

I have to agree. Though I am just a bit confused, are Aries Allowed to look professional?

impressme im like that too...i have to be comfortable when i am at home...although i cant get naked because my 11 year old is about the house...LOL

ha you people dont even understand your selfs lol this funny and sad at the same time


look she feel sad and is going to suffer because she is going to miss a lot of greaat people she has in her life, da.

anyways make sure you keep all you contacts and phone number of your co workers you like and make it a point to hang out with them dont loose touch of people who love you.

they matter more than you know.

and yea sad you should take the new job but try to leave in good terms