@Subarufiend
15 Years
Will this FINALLY drive an Aries away—
Will This Behavior Drive an Aries Away
Aries individuals value honesty and independence. While manipulative actions may temporarily push them away, genuine communication and respecting their boundaries are more effective for ending the relationship permanently.
drama drama drama!
Why not just handle it like a mature adult?
Why participate in creating a nasty situation built around deception and targeting his innocent ex .. when you could have just dealt with this like you had some honor?
I hate women like you, actually. His ex didn't deserve to get dragged into your bullshit ... whatever pain she suffered from being with him, she had already found her way out his mess and on to something better .... then you decide to bring her down, so she could suffer your misery with you because you have no sense or compassion for her.
She was an innocent victim here, to you abusing her emotionally ... all on account of you being too immature to handle your own goddam feelings.
So I knew his ex's name and who she was. I contacted her with that fake fb and told her about how he had cheated on her all last year.
Damn you !!!!!!
Oh no, she knows exactly what she's doing.
That is to say, she knows what she's doing from her own motives, which are extremely self-absorbed and immature.
What she doesn't know that she's doing, is setting herself up.
It's ok, it's fine, it's probably even fun .. for now ... but, one, she's going to do something that to a big-badass bitch ... and god help her because that bitch is going to fuck her up.
For now, though ... that ex .. she didn't deserve that.
No matter what he did or didn't do .... his ex wasn't at fault for that, and didn't deserve to get her feelings hurt by this stupid kid who has no business trying to be an adult because she clearly is a juvenile.
Yes it will.
Aries hate waiting, being hanged on a string, and having no clue of the situation. We hate mind games. The longer the mind games last, the quicker we get bored and leave.
I'm Aries-Leo and I hold grudges and once I'm done, there's no looking back.
Yes ... that would have drove him away ... we dont like liars ... and we're definatly not fan of drama queens ... he's probably regretting now, how stupid it was of him to fall in love with someone like you ...
Does this make you feel better now? ... Grow up
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Do you think this will finally work to drive an Aries away?
I had been just hooking up with this Aries for the better part of last year (I knew he had a gf... he eventually broke up with her claiming that he was attracted to me.) and I was ONLY in it for the physical part. I always had a plan of escape if I felt MY emotions getting involved or if I felt HE was getting emotionally involved. Well that time came in Novemeber and I tried to get out.....
In November I tried to tell him that I was talking to someone else.... but that just made him chase me harder....
In January when I found out he was talking to his ex again I ran out of his house while he was in the shower with NO intention of continuing on with him.... again.... he chased harder....SO... to make sure that I drove him away completely I really went to the extreme.... I have a second facebook acct that I made up a long time ago and I had added him as a friend on there WAY before he ever added my normal one. So I knew his ex's name and who she was. I contacted her with that fake fb and told her about how he had cheated on her all last year. (She knew about SOME of it from him, but I don't think she knew the extreme amount he had cheated).... he sort of had a suspicion that it was me but I kept lying about it and saying it wasn't me because I wanted to build the situation up really bad. I kept lying about it and kept letting him just suspect me. Finally one day I decided to let him "realize" that the fake fb was me. I requested one of his friends that I KNOW he had told about this whole messed up situation and she told him that some stranger had requested him. When he looked at it I KNOW he saw the email address (because I left it visible) and finally connected the pieces of the puzzle (The email address is almost identical to the email address I use for my regular fb)......... So he was SUPER mad at me because I had lied about sending the messages to his ex. I thought for sure he was goin to blow up and tell me to EFF off.....He told me just needed time....... So here I was thinking that ALL this craziness I concocted was going to get rid of him for good.... but then he tells me he "just needs time"!!! UUURRRGGGGSO.... I finally just told him the WHOLE truth.... that I went out of my way to escape his ass. He KNEW that I had been trying to get away for awhile. He told me never to contact him again. Did I FINALLY drive him away for good?? Or will he come sniffing around again?