In deadlock with leo guy

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I think what you described has to specifically do with the Mercury Square Saturn aspect in your chart. Saturn is inhibition, restriction, and hindrances. You may not like how he is communicating with you or something with the communication is rubbing you off in the wrong way, so you may come across to him harshly. Very intense passionate sexual affair, yes?
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Yes to the communication and HELL YES to the VERY intense passionate sexual affair! What else can you make of it Blue? I already knew it was the communication part bugging me and that he doesn't dig how I express my disapproval of it. Is there any way to see what's going on behind the scenes with his chart/aspects or would you need more info for that?
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Some women would kill to have a gentle man all deep in his feelings but that can be a scary sight because men don't express the way women do. Totally different, they bitch and decide they don't want to talk...disappear. What kind of shit is that? As a Ram we have to appeal to their feelings and make them feel like more than a piece of meat.

The universe is showing you but your eyes are closed. Turn down that fire honey. 😄
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So... before I read your message telling me to turn the heat down a bit and appeal to his feelings, I had already sent him a message this morning doing just that. He got back to me straight away! He didn't even get my last bitch session message and I didn't get the messages he's been sending to my whatsapp answering my follow up mails on fb. He said when I didn't respond to his messages, he figured I was out of town and travelling or something. I thought he was being cold and stubborn because of the tone of my last mail to him. But he said he wasn't even the slightest bit annoyed with me and is still very much into our arrangement. So basically, I've been beating myself up inside about how my temper ruined yet another cool thing, when it wasn't even ruined. There was just a very long misunderstanding of missed communication.

Irrational insecurities again! Do you guys get that?
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That's some of what I see.



Thank you Blue 🙂 So kind of you!

Does it look like most of the challenges revolve around the communication aspect? I find that the hardest thing to get a grip on with him. But it's still a lot easier to get to grips with my issues with his communication than it has been getting a grip on other issues i've had with boyfriends in the past. It's like I can reason with everything that annoys me about him so much easier than other guys. I find I am able to control my reactions with him easier because we're not obligated or committed and have no expectations or label on our situation.

And is it transformational for him too? or just me?
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If you have any other questions, send them to my inbox. I am taking a hiatus...



Thanks yew blue 🙂
I will leave you to hiatus in peace though 😄

What are you up to for the festive season? How do the 'Phoenicians' celebrate? lol
In SA, it's an overload of sun, sea, sand and silliness. EVERYTHING in excess! I'm heading to the beach on Thursday for a whole month. Looking forward to that!