Is aries capable of a thawing out?

Hi Im new here, was wondering could I get your oh so wise Aries points of view

I was involved in a brief but passionate relationship with an aries then as Im quiet outspoken I called him out quiet aggresively in front of people over an event where he was in the wrong. He was understandably annoyed and i apoligized. However this wasnt enough as his ego was bruised badly.
I apoligized again but it was received badly saying some hurtful things in retaliation I assume. Since then we havent spoken however because we tend to go the same places regularly, we see each other quiet alot, he seems to watch me alot in these situations and even sat at the same table as me once, neither of us ventured to make the first move at a conversation. Do you think I should try again to smooth the waters or is this a conflict thats unrepairable?

i'd say he will most likely come around since most aries are quick to forgive and forget. it isn't in their nature to hold grudges for too long. i would wait and see if he comes around but if he doesn't and you are still bothered by it, try smoothing it out one more time. but i think what would work best is ignoring him and the situation. this will most likely make him come around to you.

I completely agree I would never want to "talk it out" or make a scene or make him uncomfortable. I just think probably it's the reaction I'm worried about which is stopping me doing something casual and playful or the fact maybe this silence between us is where he's comfortable I don't want to be trying to force him through polietness into a friendship he doesn't want.

We FORGIVE and we can MOVE ON, but we aren't dopes. Keep a pattern of wronging us in ways we said were uncool, yeah things will get fizzled out. Basically we try to do the right thing time and time again for those we care for, and this can get us in a situation where someone slowly takes advantage of this or takes it for granted, then all is just sadness 😢

Be good to your Aries!

i hope hes thinking the same everevolving, but i don't know he seems kind of set in his own mind. Which is something I liked about him before now it's kind of to my disadvantage, the headstrong nature of ye aries is appealing and frustrating

I don't know if I wronged him really, I know he felt I was a little hot and cold but I think Im just flighty.
I would never be mean to an Aries 🙂 Not intentionally anyway...My sister is one too but I see bearly any of the classic traits in her