Let me breathe!

I have a very good friend, probably one of my best friends which lately has been too much to bare.

As awful as it might sound, because she is ALWAYS there for me, I don't have it in my to always be there for her. Because she needs needs me all the time.

She is an Aries as well, with several other aries placements (i don't remember her chart, only seeing it was full of Aries. Her moon is aries too).

She is stealing my personality. Everything that I like, she will automatically like too. If I buy something, she wants to buy it too. If I choose a hair style , she will do the same. If I travel to a certain country because I love it, she will travel there too and announce it as her passion. If I take up on a new hobby, she will do the same and advertise it to all our friends the new thing she is doing.

It is getting so overwhelming that Im finding myself hiding things from her.

In restaurants she waits for me to order, and then she will order the same. I feel my identity is being stolen!

She evens says things to our mutual friends like: we do this, we like this, we are like this...when talking about myself and her. But we are two different people!

She needs to call me everyday or message me everyday. And the more I try to have some space to breath, the more she insists.

It is frustrating because if I need her, she is always there for me. But I cant do the same. It is against my nature. I feel she needs me 24/7 and is always demanding my time and attention and this is making me start to avoid her.

I even think she notices it, but instead of giving me some breathing space, she is coming full force.

I love her as a friend with all my heart but I cant tell her this. It would hurt her and seriously damage our relationship. So I say it here instead.

I really believe it is a case of having so much aries placements in her chart.

I need some space...

Vent over.

I have an Aries sun, moon, Merc and mars female friend who is up my ass a lot too. If I told her that she'd argue that she wasn't, lol.

I just ignore her texts and take space. She doesn't take it personal anymore and it cleared the air. She calls me the, "ghost." Lol.

Like poof! I vanish.

Yeah just don’t pick up the phone as much, it’s not rocket science.

Sounds like a horror movie, maybe she’s going to kill you at the end.

Posted by AriesJo
Yeah just don’t pick up the phone as much, it’s not rocket science.

Sounds like a horror movie, maybe she’s going to kill you at the end.

Not unless they kill themselves first.

It's time to fake your death and move to another country.

Posted by AriesJo
Yeah just don’t pick up the phone as much, it’s not rocket science.

Sounds like a horror movie, maybe she’s going to kill you at the end.

Hahaha hope not!

Yes, Im not picking up that much anymore. But it makes me feel a bit bad. ?

Posted by Lunabee
I have an Aries sun, moon, Merc and mars female friend who is up my ass a lot too. If I told her that she'd argue that she wasn't, lol.

I just ignore her texts and take space. She doesn't take it personal anymore and it cleared the air. She calls me the, "ghost." Lol.

Like poof! I vanish.

Poof! Vanish! I like that. 🙂

Need to get rid of the guilt though.

Posted by SassyKiwi

Posted by AriesJo
Yeah just don’t pick up the phone as much, it’s not rocket science.

Sounds like a horror movie, maybe she’s going to kill you at the end.

Not unless they kill themselves first.

It's time to fake your death and move to another country.

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Any nice suggestions where to go? 🙂

Posted by IamAries

Posted by SassyKiwi

Posted by AriesJo
Yeah just don’t pick up the phone as much, it’s not rocket science.

Sounds like a horror movie, maybe she’s going to kill you at the end.

Not unless they kill themselves first.

It's time to fake your death and move to another country.

Any nice suggestions where to go? 🙂

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well I have been there but not this bad and I've heard of this before and I think it's a personality disorder or something - it's not normal at all - they make movies like this and it sounds awful

I guess my cap moon saves me cause I can go cold on your ass at any point and I don't feel guilt because I have this overwhelming urge to keep myself sane in this world and that sheet makes me crazy so I just don't go there no matter what - that may seem like a selfish perspective to some but ask me if I care. I was born alone and I will die alone. In between I need to survive both physically and mentally. That is way too much drama and stress for me.