Amethyst27
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Meeting Aries man for the first time. Could use some advice pls
Three red flags.
One, online dating.
Two, he disappeared and his reason sounds lame as shit. There was someone else. Two months is too long. Especially if he's armed forces. Those guys sleep around more than prostitutes.
Three, he's making you do the travelling. I'm sure where he's stationed is a likely reason why, but it's never a really good thing when the dude makes the chick do all the work/moving for him.
Where is he stationed?
One, online dating.
Two, he disappeared and his reason sounds lame as shit. There was someone else. Two months is too long. Especially if he's armed forces. Those guys sleep around more than prostitutes.
Three, he's making you do the travelling. I'm sure where he's stationed is a likely reason why, but it's never a really good thing when the dude makes the chick do all the work/moving for him.
Where is he stationed?
I just read the other tidbits you posted.
I wouldn't be surprised if the guy was catfishing you, tbh. You need to slow your roll.
If you want to meet the dude, go for it. It could either go well or go wrong, which the latter would help you determine if this is worth your time or not. If it goes well, then hooray, work from there.
But it's concerning that you're letting some flaky online presence woo you over so much. Leo women are stupidly desperate to find a guy and they'll ignore all the obvious signs until they get kicked in the ass.
I wouldn't be surprised if the guy was catfishing you, tbh. You need to slow your roll.
If you want to meet the dude, go for it. It could either go well or go wrong, which the latter would help you determine if this is worth your time or not. If it goes well, then hooray, work from there.
But it's concerning that you're letting some flaky online presence woo you over so much. Leo women are stupidly desperate to find a guy and they'll ignore all the obvious signs until they get kicked in the ass.
Why put yourself through this. Find someone closer. There's already red flags.
Don't hold out too much hope, you could get hurt
I know. And I appreciate your answers. I just feel like I can't give up on it before actually giving it a chance.
Seriously? People really put up with this type of behavior from someone?
People need to start having standards for themselves that don't amount to "I'll take whatever I can get".
People need to start having standards for themselves that don't amount to "I'll take whatever I can get".
Posted by Amethyst27If you feel the need to meet him, do so with an open mind.....And also it will give you the opportunity to say to him that his behaviour was out of order
I know. And I appreciate your answers. I just feel like I can't give up on it before actually giving it a chance.
.....don't have sex with him
Lol
Lol
Posted by nikkistarI see your point and you are right. It's just he seemed honest when he apologized for his behavior. Before all this it all was amazing so I decided to give him a second chance.
Seriously? People really put up with this type of behavior from someone?
People need to start having standards for themselves that don't amount to "I'll take whatever I can get".
We agreed if we wanted to date someone else we would let the other one know.
Posted by Amethyst27You're being naive and stupid about it. Getting a dude isn't that serious where you have to compromise your standards and overall safety.Posted by nikkistarI see your point and you are right. It's just he seemed honest when he apologized for his behavior. Before all this it all was amazing so I decided to give him a second chance.
Seriously? People really put up with this type of behavior from someone?
People need to start having standards for themselves that don't amount to "I'll take whatever I can get".
We agreed if we wanted to date someone else we would let the other one know.click to expand
You know it's fucked because you didn't even bother answering any of the questions asked of you and instead decided you needed to explain your dumb behavior away.
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