Need Aries Advice........

Probably since nobody got seriously hurt he just thinks it isn't such a big deal.

Posted by amethyst2002
Are you a female?

leoscorpiscesMAN

Hi Mr.Nice,

It was good to look at your side of perspective.I and my aries dude were best friends for more than 10 years.I would like for him to show some concern for his best friend.I did a lot of good things to him but he never appreciate it.This is some of his attitude towards me.

1-If I ask him for help,he always ask me what will he get for helping me?But its okay for him to ask me to help him?Is that selfish?

2-If I ask for help,he never help me.But if other people ask for help he would help them.I didnt feel im his best friend at all.

3-He is very stingy,he got virgo moon,i guess it comes from there,lol.

So all the aries please explain to me how should i act if I still want to friend with him?Sometimes I didnt feel as his friends.......

Posted by leoscorpiscesman
Hi Mr.Nice,

It was good to look at your side of perspective.I and my aries dude were best friends for more than 10 years.I would like for him to show some concern for his best friend.I did a lot of good things to him but he never appreciate it.This is some of his attitude towards me.

1-If I ask him for help,he always ask me what will he get for helping me?But its okay for him to ask me to help him?Is that selfish?

2-If I ask for help,he never help me.But if other people ask for help he would help them.I didnt feel im his best friend at all.

3-He is very stingy,he got virgo moon,i guess it comes from there,lol.

So all the aries please explain to me how should i act if I still want to friend with him?Sometimes I didnt feel as his friends.......

If you don't mind being treated the way he is treating you, sure go for it.

@ariesvita I don't know.Part of me dont want to friend him anymore.His ego is so strong.He wont change for other people.His word are too direct and sharp.His virgo moon always find anything wrong with people around him.He always comment people dont know this,dont know that.He think he perfect.He think he knows everything.His weakness is too many from his good side.But without him I am so damn bored with my life.I just want to know how aries operate.Should I act as an aries so I could friend with him?Does aries like to debate so much?aggresive?tell me aries,tell me.......


@amethyst2002 you bet.Everyone I know keep asking me how could I become his "bestfriend".I also feel he didnt even treated me as his "bestfriend".Everyone ask me that because his attitude are so annoying at times.But we have be friends more than 10 years.Everytime I feel annoyed by his action,10 years always pop out in my mind.Its a waste to break 10 years friendship.That was I thinking.........

Well, as an aries I can tell you that I have never kept a "best friend" for more than 5 years.

If he's telling you that YOU are his best friend, then you are good, just let him be. Otherwise, I think you are trying too hard, maybe he's bored with you already and you just don't want to see it.

"light injurys" when occurring to ourselves are usually not enough to put us off our stride.

Not making any excuses for your friend here though - is it possible he is an uncaring thoughtless GEMINI masquerading as an Aries?

Posted by ariesvita
Well, as an aries I can tell you that I have never kept a "best friend" for more than 5 years.

If he's telling you that YOU are his best friend, then you are good, just let him be. Otherwise, I think you are trying too hard, maybe he's bored with you already and you just don't want to see it.

This is new from me.He did say he was close to me.The reason I stay close to him until now is I always give something new to our friendship.Aries like something new right?I guess thats why I can be friend with him until now.........

Posted by ReallyNiceAriesPerson
"light injurys" when occurring to ourselves are usually not enough to put us off our stride.

Not making any excuses for your friend here though - is it possible he is an uncaring thoughtless GEMINI masquerading as an Aries?

hes not gemini,he is aquarius.But still,he is the one who rode the motorcyle and make me hurt.At least he can ask whether im okay or not.here is his birthchart

Zodiac in degrees 0.00
Sun Aries 13.58 Ascendant Aquarius 1.36
Moon Virgo 19.54 II Pisces 2.38
Mercury Aries 13.36 R III Aries 5.28
Venus Aries 14.11 R IV Taurus 7.19
Mars Taurus 14.06 V Gemini 6.26
Jupiter Aquarius 11.25 VI Cancer 3.45
Saturn Scorpio 27.31 R VII Leo 1.36
Uranus Sagittarius 17.56 R VIII Virgo 2.38
Neptune Capricorn 3.38 IX Libra 5.28
Pluto Scorpio 3.54 R Midheaven Scorpio 7.19
Lilith Aries 23.22 XI Sagittarius 6.26
Asc node Taurus 18.46 XII Capricorn 3.45

can you tell me his characteristic?

Posted by Mr Nice
you'll keep getting used by your friend lol mean so be wise in future. Peace

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what should i do?abandoned him?downgraded my relationship with him to best friends to only normal friend?or should i be like him?rough and aggresive?how i can be his best friend without him using me and he show some respect?or find new best friend?

sorry Leoscorpiscesman, I was poking a little fun at our thoughtless Gemini brethren.

Aquarius are noted for their nastiness.
I think Mr Nice has summed up the situation very well. If you must proceed, do so with caution.
Take care friend

Posted by ReallyNiceAriesPerson
sorry Leoscorpiscesman, I was poking a little fun at our thoughtless Gemini brethren.

Aquarius are noted for their nastiness.
I think Mr Nice has summed up the situation very well. If you must proceed, do so with caution.
Take care friend

nvm,but aries and gemini are a great match.Their chemistry are awesome.I have seen a lot of that match.
hey so what should i do?im still confused right here.............

Posted by Mr Nice
I am a bit confused whats your sign? and is your friend the aries? because you mentioned gemini and auqqie who are they?

my friend is aries sun
aquarius ascendant
virgo moon
mars in taurus.

my sign is leo sun
scorpio ascendant with pisces decans
scorpio moon
mars in leo

i was talking about gemini because ReallyNiceAriesPerson post like this:

Not making any excuses for your friend here though - is it possible he is an uncaring thoughtless GEMINI masquerading as an Aries?

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then i tell ReallyNiceAriesPerson that my friend is aquarius

Posted by leoscorpiscesman
I have a light injured because fallingout from motorcycle.The motorcyle rider,my aries friend dont have any injury.When we went to clinic with some friends,he just checking out his motorcyle for any damage.He didnt accompany me in the clinic.He also did't try to appologize to me about the accident.A week after that accident he did't call me,(usually he call because we are best friend) and when he bumped me at workplace(we work at same workplace) he will talk to me like usual,like nothing has happened.But he didnt call me and we didnt go out as usual.This makes me confused.Didnt he feel guilty at all?If he did why didnt he tell me?is because of his ego?Please help me out fellow aries....

Why is everyone tip-toeing around the fact that you don't even know this dude, talk-less of calling him your friend, then you go to the best friend realm? How?
Everything you type is saying you want him as your friend? why? how is he beneficial to you?

Seriously, 10 years? *rolls eyes* Not everything is astrological you know... common sense 1st before astrology please people 😛

PS: Aries don't have enemies for long, no patience or attention span to seek long term revenge so just walk away is the best advice, keep you distance, he'll move on to the next sucker that puts up with his shit, don't let that be you.

@zenalchemy The beneficial for having him as a friend?Its so hard to find one because all I can find is his weakness :p
I guess without him my life is very boring.Being a leo,its hard for me to break a friendship,especially with an aries,a fire sign.But I am a scorpio rising with a pisces decans so sometimes I can be very emotional and every aries words can be like knife stabbing my heart.Luckily leo and scorpio are there to back me up........:p

Hahaha, yea, I have seen 1st hand, the Leo-hard-to-break ties, despite how bad the situation is for them. Just make sure it is not your pride telling you to hang on as the Leo pride is quite fixed/stubborn and hard for you to leave anything you started.
Unfortunately, your friend is not a project, human beings have to be left alone to have any break throughs that they need to.
Aries are very quick thinking and learn lessons quickly but the one thing I have seen that is very damaging to aries development is when people don't act fast when they misbehave.
The key for dealing with aries is calling them out on BS quick in a logical manner, even if they show you temper when you do it, if you make sense, it will sink in. They will come back as you showed them something new, and try to prove to you that they can be better, however, most people tend not to stand up to them enough as they are too nervous about shaking up aries legendary temper.

Sign or no sign, you are not doing you or your friend any favours by doing what you have been doing for 10yrs.

Take care of yourself yh

Posted by zenalchemy
Hahaha, yea, I have seen 1st hand, the Leo-hard-to-break ties, despite how bad the situation is for them. Just make sure it is not your pride telling you to hang on as the Leo pride is quite fixed/stubborn and hard for you to leave anything you started.
Unfortunately, your friend is not a project, human beings have to be left alone to have any break throughs that they need to.
Aries are very quick thinking and learn lessons quickly but the one thing I have seen that is very damaging to aries development is when people don't act fast when they misbehave.
The key for dealing with aries is calling them out on BS quick in a logical manner, even if they show you temper when you do it, if you make sense, it will sink in. They will come back as you showed them something new, and try to prove to you that they can be better, however, most people tend not to stand up to them enough as they are too nervous about shaking up aries legendary temper.

Sign or no sign, you are not doing you or your friend any favours by doing what you have been doing for 10yrs.

Take care of yourself yh

excuse me what is BS?sorry i dont understand
yeah you right.Im not doing any favors for him.I also even feel that I am his friend.Whatever he did wrong my pisces have forgive him.But my scorpios never forget all his destructive action towards me.My scorpio want to let him go,but my leo dont want to break the tie.It all blended in my mind and feeling.Making me so confused. =-=

You have out grown the shoes.

I'd say any relationship whether it's friends, lovers, S/O, whatever.. if you give and give and give and get little to nothing in return it is time for it to end. What's the point tossing your emotions, time and so on into a black hole? If you get ill treatment in return, hurt feelings, it's time to call a halt to it.

You know,
Sometimes when an Aries is extremely scared or sad we have a hard time expressing it. I can assure you he feels bad. If fact he will probably never forget. All I can say is don't ask him why he doesn't care. It could upset him and he might not ever talk to you again.

@xfactor sometimes I always think why I am the only one who has to take care of the relationship.Why I'm the only one who has to take care of his feeling.Why I am the only one should prevent him getting mad/upset but he really done nothing for me.Why?should i communicate how I feel about our friendship?should i lay the rules?I already discuss about laying rules but he object the idea.I still want to friend with him because he is a fun friend to be with.But I guess fun alone is not enough................


@Mr Nice and @venusianbull, thanks for your opinion,I guess I should downgraded his place and treat him as my normal friend.That is the only choice I can think off.I can still see him if i want,be we wont be so close anymore.Thats better I guess before I hurt myself again and again in this friendship.

Are you friends or lovers?

Best friend

"laying rules"
"take care of the relationship"
"prevent him from getting mad/upset"
"communicate how I feel"

I think you are overbearing or just messing around with this guys head.

Sorry 😢

Think he feels bad and since you weren't seriously injured, didn't want to bring it up himself. Still, he should have been there for you as a friend. Apologized & cared for you while you were being treated. I'm an Aries female but my brother is an Aries & he would've done that same thing. To care for you as a friend who was hurt was the right thing to do regardless of your status of friend or even stranger. Hope you are healing well 🙂 And yes, he isn't much of a friend so confront him if you want to (he might own up to it) or just know he's not a good friend.

Posted by Mistery
Think he feels bad and since you weren't seriously injured, didn't want to bring it up himself. Still, he should have been there for you as a friend. Apologized & cared for you while you were being treated. I'm an Aries female but my brother is an Aries & he would've done that same thing. To care for you as a friend who was hurt was the right thing to do regardless of your status of friend or even stranger. Hope you are healing well 🙂 And yes, he isn't much of a friend so confront him if you want to (he might own up to it) or just know he's not a good friend.

Im sure he feel bad,but it is important if he communicate it.Arent aries should be direct in these things?Aries style of care is sure unique.It can make people think they have no heart at all.Yes i am healing very well and Im started to think positive again.But I guess not aries like that.Some aries are nice..........

Well,I am a scorpio rising influence by pisces.What do you expect?I am full with emotions.My sun leo is the only one enjoying the friendship ahaha

Yep. I probably was.

Agreed with the others. If the injuries weren't serious, he probably thinks you're okay and was thinking to the next thing - his bike.

I didn't realize guys escorted eachother places. I thought that was a chick thing, like with bathrooms...?
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