No more relationships for me...

After I stopped talking to the Aries guy a year ago I started dating a sagittarius man, he sweet talked me told me he would treat me better than the last guy and do all of these things for me so we dated 3 months before making it official anywho to make a long story short he cheated on me with someone we worked with and he is a compulsive liar! He could not tell the truth if it would save his LIFE!! And I always can tell when he's lying. We lasted a year. He said he doesn't want me out of his life and that I'm a nice girl and he needs me in his life blah blah blah! But he still continues to lie about him and this girl I know what's going on all the signs are there anywho I still text him but don't hang around him or anything else he just wants to take things slower but I'm not sure if I still want him anymore after he cheated to be honest I don't all the lying and cheating has made me lose interest. Anyway were officially not together then along comes the Aries guy again, he told me he were upset I had up and stopped talking to him and he complained about not finding me on Facebook and not being able to contact me. He apologized to me for not being up front with me about his intentions and I accepted it. He said he was upset I stopped talking to him because he needed me and I asked him why he needs me and he said that i were the only girl that cared about him and its true I did. He said he wasn't ready for a relationship then because he's in his 20's and wasn't sure if he was ready for that and not that he's ready now he said I would have been worth it. I was so surprised when he found me on fb I swear I would think about him all the time. He is a really good guy he just wasn't ready for commitment and part of it was my fault because we never discussed commitment and I assumed we were together. So now we both made it clear we don't want to commit were just going to take it slow. I told him i still care for him and be a friend to him.

Sword yea no more relationships for me for a while I need to learn to take things slow... Maybe it's my Aries moon (cancer sun, Aries moon, mercury Venus Mars and Jupiter all Leo, ascendent cancer, idk the rest)

I'm sorry this happened to you, but you're not alone, it happens to almost everyone who has been in more than one relationship. I think it's good that your taking a break. Know your limit.

Yeah just take a break

However, don't let 1 bad seed ruin it for you. You win some battles in love; you lose others. Some guys will hurt the hell out of you for no reason while others will love the hell out of you for no reason. That's the way the cookie crumbles for 99% of the rest of the world too lol

Understand though that moving slow doesn't always guarantee that the guy will be a good guy or that the relationship will last. But if moving slow will give you enough incentive to fully get to know a guy before your mind even starts drifting towards thoughts of commitment, then do what you've gotta do to discipline yourself for the next go round