Posted by mnemini
not very long. i've known him for a bit, but as i said was only best friends with his best friend. then he started messaging me on fb saying he'd been wanting to really get to know me for quite a while. we hung out a few times, and i've spent the night with him a handful of times. it's all been very new though. just kissing, talking, getting to know each other and enjoying each other.
the last i saw him intentionally (not cause i was seeing my best friend) was last week, and it was great we spent the day/night together. we had a lot of fun and he was happy and chatty all day. since then, he doesnt ignore my texts, but as a gemini i have no problem saying what i want. (him). i have asked to hang out and he just told me he's busy. i fully believe him, but i do feel like he could maybe make time if he wanted.
however i do get the sense (as you said) that he needs someone who has their own life. and i do! ha so i'm trying not to over think. but was hoping to get some insight!