Aries man Apology~aries male advice needed

This topic was created in the Aries forum by Nicety03 on Thursday, October 24, 2013 and has 7 replies.

Understanding an Aries Man's Apology and Reconciliation

An Aries man's apology indicates he is aware of his behavior and may be open to reconnecting. His stress and withdrawal are typical of Aries under pressure. Showing patience, understanding, and consistent support can help rebuild trust. Pay attention to his actions and communication to gauge his feelings about reconciliation and whether he is ready to re-engage emotionally.

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@Nicety03
12 Years

My Aries man who has been treating me really icky for the past month or so, and finally broke it off with me sent me an apology the other day out of nowhere. Telling me that he is sorry for being an A-hole and he is just really stressed right now. Has never been this stressed before and he doesn't like talking about his problems, nor does he know how to handle it, so instead he pushed me away.
What am I supposed to think or do? I love this man with all of my heart, and at one time he loved me. He has taken me to a place that I have never been before. I literally feel him in my heart. It's hard to explain, bc I don't understand it myself.
I sent him a message telling him it was ok, and that i loved him, he is a special person to me. That I wished i was able to hug him and take the pain away like he is somehow able to do for me. If he ever needed to talk, that i am around. I didn't hear anything else from him.
The butterflies are real still after a year. I still get them.
Today I was thinking about him and decided to send him a text asking if he had heard anything about what was stressing him so bad. He responded with a "no, not yet." So, I told him to keep his head strong, that every storm runs out of rain. I have faith in him and I love him again. He responded, Thanx. I left it at that.
What does this all mean, what do I do? Is he thinking about me, the possibility of reuniting, or this really means nothing.
Male Aries advice needed.....

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@MissLibra
13 Years

Read up on the full moon lunar eclipse in Aries that occurred on October 18th.
My Aries ex-husband contacted me after the eclipse. He was very emotional, which is not normal. After talking, he has gone back to being his usual selfish self.

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@Este8
13 Years1,000+ Posts

I'm sorry but I think this man is feeding you a line of bull. When a man's really interested in a woman he doesn't freeze her out like this. He wouldn't dream of losing her by doing something like this. You think he doesn't already know how much you dig him and how his absence is hurting you? Plus he didn't have the decency to respond to your texts back to him. I realize you really really dig this man. I'm not sure you realize how much of you digging him is based on your doubts over his level of commitment. I'll say this. If this relationship is 6 months or younger, it's worth sticking it out awhile. If this has been going on for more than that, run for the hills. It's not enough to love someone with all your heart if they aren't invested in making it work. I know this isn't what you want to hear but your feelings for him are not shared in equal measure, which makes this unhealthy for you.

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@AriesIntrovert16
13 Years1,000+ Posts

He just wanted to apologize. That's all. Don't over think things, it will only create problems in the end.

He doesn't sound abnormally cold, men in general don't like sharing their feelings. And I feel like we are not getting the whole story.

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@FireyKitty
12 YearsLeo

I don't think he's interested. Aries men are explainers even if people think they're cold they're honest, like attention and like to talk. So if he's not responding much than he probably just wanted to say sorry or to test how you react. I'm a Leo girl and I like people to care but not too much or I feel less of that chase, I know Aries men like a chase, so you folding right away and to be so understanding maybe turned him off, he's dumb.