Are you loyal? Can you be trusted?

I'm newly in a relationship with an aries man. He's sweet talker, romantic, funny, smart ect. and our chemestry is so great.

I'm a gemini with virgo moon, I think alot, analyze things much ect. Since I've been with him, I've always had a thought in my mind. Can he be trusted/loyal?

I asked him once, 'are you loyal?' And he said 'yes'. He tells me so much sweet thing, but I always say 'You're words makes me happy, but I dont trust in words, but in prove' and he says 'I will prove you'.

He is Aries with scorpio moon and aries venus.

What do you guys think? Are you in general loyal to your lover? Do you really mean what you say? Can my man be loyal to me?

I am loyal to my lover and I really mean what I say. I do think your man can be loyal to you.. Not because he is an aries, but because everyone has the potential to be loyal. You know better than we do.

Good to hear. I'll just wait and see what it turns into. When my man says/promises me things, I always say 'let's see then'.

I give all of myself to him, and I want the same in return.

Thats sad, and I know long distance relationship kills, I've been there :/

If I decide that you are "The One," then you are indeed who I want to be with. When I was married, my female friends would tell new comer females something like, "No, he's not married, he's MARRIED!!!

I was always amused by that one....

I don't know why it's said that Aries aren't faithful. I don't think that can be pinned on a sign. Every Aries (man and woman) that I have known in life were very loving, and very loyal once they had their heart set on someone.

i'm a gemini too, i had that , and i believe what he was saying was true.. but then one day out of nowhere he came and broke up

the way i see it .. we gemini sometimes put a bit too much emphasis on words.. like it means sooooo much..when to aries actually it just means exactly what the words say, in the moment they are said .. if that makes any sense

But you gotta admit that aries are flirty, I know, it's irritating me, but what can I do I myself am flirty 😛

I'm just worried that this flirting turn into cheating. If he cheats on me I'm so done, cuz I dont cheat and I wont cheat.

Relax.

Ok! I really need to relax, oh gosh I hate myself thinking too much.

If we are with you, is because we really want to. If not, we could be anywhere else in this big planet... No point in wasting precious little time.

Quit trying to fuck everything up with your OCD estrogen tendencies.

Most Aries men I know have cheated on their doormat gf's, it bothers me a lot. And Aries men are def flirty, probably why they get a rep for cheating bc women want them and temptation is an evil thing! But I think Aries are great and very loyal if they've picked the right partner. I think it's easier for them to stay faithful when the chemistry flows and you're on the same level when it comes to power and what they want out of life. I'm dating one now and he wants to see me everyday, he kisses me all the time, would really do anything to be around me so I assume he isn't cheating lol. We work though, be your own woman, don't be skeptical of him and have fun. That's really all they expect out of you, trust and optimism. My brother, best friend and most of my guy friends are Aries and I know they date all types even destructive people so make sure you both fulfill each other's needs!

Omg. That sounds really bad. Especially when you said that he said 'you're the best thing that happened to me' blablablah,, it scared me even more, cuz my man uses to say it to me.As for me, I have really bad trusting people when it comes to relationships. I dont think my aries man will lie to me, but if he does I'm so over him.

We've been together in about 2 weeks now, but I've already checked his mobile (facebook,messages,photos), and I found him chatting with lots of girls flirting ect. But these msg was before I was with him, so I can forgive him. Then he told/explained me that he hasnt flirt/met with any girl after me, and that I can check his mobile about a month again. So I can say that I trust him more than before, but it doesnt mean I will stop checking his mobile. I will give him space and that stuff, but I will also make sure he is what he says he is. So if he finds me too cookiemonster or too annoying, I cant help it. Live with it, or leave me. That's it!

@tiziani

You're mean 😢

I would be pretty pissed if someone searched my facebook and phone without even asking first. Especially only after 2 weeks? Be careful. And don't be too anxious. Too many negative vibes bring negative results.

Hi im an aries woman and in my opinion because we are impulsive and selfcentred there is a definate possibility that an aries might cheat. But this is not true for all aries

@tiziani

You're mean, but you're smart 😄
I do agree about your comment. I wont be sastified untill I find what I am looking for. It means I need to chill, right?

Ok then, I will try to stop overthinking things, and let the time talk. 🙂

Ok. I know it sounds very bad, that I checked his mobile, facebook ect. when I've only been with him in 2 weeks.

But I had my reasons. This is the story how it happened:

We were laying on bed, just chilling. Then I found his mobile beside me, and I was about to give it to him, but he suddenly took it from my hand. Hmm is he hiding something? Is he afraid of something? Cuz as for me I dont even mind if he checked all my personal stuff. So I was really curious.

Then I said, let me strip you, I played with him (kiss,touch) and dang! I grabed his mobile from his pocket, and ran away. He started to stress, worried. I made him tell his password to unlock his phone, cuz he had no choice. He said he had no problem if I check his mobile ect. I checked and found stuff. He was flirting with girls, but luckily the flirtings were before we were together. So I accepted it.

I felt better after all. He also promised me that he wont flirt with girls ect. But I will have to wait and see. Let the time talk.

You can say whatever you want. Judge or compliment. But I will do my way, good or bad. Especially with this aries man, I've heard aries men flirt a lot, and cheat too. This is my first time being with an aries. So I will do anything to make it sure, like it or not. Love me or leave me.

@feby16aqua

Wow the aries man that lied/cheated on you has so similar signs with the one I'm dating now.

Sun,venus in aries +scorpio moon. Wish me luck 😢

Gemini here and I'm getting to know an Aries man again; we dated quite a few years ago. He hasn't changed from the sweet person I knew back then. I can't wait to go away with him next weekend.

I feel bad now, just relax.. Sheesh.

Btw, how old are you? You sound a little younger.

Sorry I'm weird 😄

I'm 20 🙂

girl gemini's are more known for their cheating than aries...so y are you worried?


sounds like your looking for bs instead of just enjoying what you have...you gotsta chill

Ok. I try to chill, I have no choice 😛

Posted by Maybelle
Ok. I try to chill, I have no choice 😛

just have fun. enjoy it.

That and you're still young. If it all spoils, move on. Plenty of good men in the world. It is never worth the extensive worry of "what might be" or "what could have been". It's difficult to do, but you'll regret a lot of wasted time and anxiety when you look back on it.

And ask him next time! I was only saying, if someone decided to steal my phone and hold it hostage, that would send up some red flags and I'd back away. If you start to worry so badly, ask him to be up front with you. It won't (and shouldn't) be a challenge for him to do. Just don't demand it. Be polite about it, and don't question every intention he has.