So it didn't last

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LibraJackson
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All for nothing I supposed.

A couple months I was posting on this regularly asking for advice and feedback for the relationship I had with an Aries man.

To keep this simple short, we started dating both wanted nothing serious. As I just got out of a relationship and in September, he's moving away to New York. Things got a little complicated, we both liked each other and spent more time with each other. Things got emotional when he left and yet he kept in touch. It was like a long distance relationship but without the title.

Anyway, it all went down from when he forgot my birthday in October. I got upset because I went overboard on his birthday. The least he could say is Happy Birthday and it was just little small awkward fights after that.

I went on a holiday a month ago and had too many glasses of red wine, confessed my love to him.

he response was 'I like you but I'm not in love with you', I laughed it off knowing that he was simply so blunt about it but it broke me. Anyway, I went back on my words and said I love him as a person not in love with him and gave him the option to stop talking to me because I felt like things were too overwhelming.

Few days passed by. He texted me during my holidays and ended things with us. Nevermind that but months ago I booked a flight to visit him in December. Oh boy, he didn't seem to care and ready to toss that away. He felt bad that I had to look for accommodation and that my friend will join me for the holidays instead of me spending time with him.

Throughout all of this, I didn't blame him for the way my trip has changed. He still wants to see me and offered my friend and I help if we needed when we are in NY.

I just want to punch him in the tit!

I find him so attractive but I feel like it's a one-way street.

I've been talking to him for almost a month and he still sends me snaps and messages.

He said I deserve the best and that this is not the time for us. I'm heartbroken but I know it's not because he's over there and I'm here. But part of me wished he cared.

We spent almost a year together it's just a bit cruel.

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ariesdames
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The difference between women and men is men use their logic, and women use their feeling. When something got emotional then the women will be the one who over-analyse anything, and like to owned the men. So now you have a feeling for him, and you have confessed it, and he said he only likes you.

Now what you do to him is back off, stop contact him, if he chats you, you can answer but don’t read it within an hour, don’t beg him, because we do not like clingy person, we like someone who has a strong character. Let him find out what he really wants, does he wants you or not.

He needs time and space, if he returns to you then it means you are meant to be, if not then let it go.
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ariesdames
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Posted by AquaNextDoor
Once u agree on "nothing serious/ no labels blabla" this is all u ever get

You will find better 🌷
Agree to AquaNextDoor!

Because the guy will assume it always. For Arian, better to speak up what you want because we aren’t good in guessing. If you say nothing is serious it means you only want a friendship, then that’s position we will put you as you wanted it.
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LibraJackson
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8 Years

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Posted by aquarius_man
Posted by LibraJackson
All for nothing I supposed.

A couple months I was posting on this regularly asking for advice and feedback for the relationship I had with an Aries man.



We spent almost a year together it's just a bit cruel.


What did I tell you? When I told you forget about him, people called me heartless and ill-informed. Turns out I was right.

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I was just looking back at some of my posts and had a laugh at myself seeing your comment months ago.Speaking of the devil, he still messages me non stop but I had to leave it now. I like him too much. He hurt me once he can hurt me again you know. Just wish it didn't turn out like this.
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LibraJackson
@LibraJackson
8 Years

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Posted by ariesdames
The difference between women and men is men use their logic, and women use their feeling. When something got emotional then the women will be the one who over-analyse anything, and like to owned the men. So now you have a feeling for him, and you have confessed it, and he said he only likes you.

Now what you do to him is back off, stop contact him, if he chats you, you can answer but don’t read it within an hour, don’t beg him, because we do not like clingy person, we like someone who has a strong character. Let him find out what he really wants, does he wants you or not.

He needs time and space, if he returns to you then it means you are meant to be, if not then let it go.



Yeah I never said I love you to anyone really so I'm heart broken from it but I did what you said there. I just left him be and let him go. So weird, after I posted this he messages me.
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ariesdames
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Posted by LibraJackson
Posted by ariesdames
The difference between women and men is men use their logic, and women use their feeling. When something got emotional then the women will be the one who over-analyse anything, and like to owned the men. So now you have a feeling for him, and you have confessed it, and he said he only likes you.

Now what you do to him is back off, stop contact him, if he chats you, you can answer but don’t read it within an hour, don’t beg him, because we do not like clingy person, we like someone who has a strong character. Let him find out what he really wants, does he wants you or not.

He needs time and space, if he returns to you then it means you are meant to be, if not then let it go.



Yeah I never said I love you to anyone really so I'm heart broken from it but I did what you said there. I just left him be and let him go. So weird, after I posted this he messages me.

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You deserve someone who loves you as you do, so back off. Don’t answer his message too fast, and too long. We are hardly move on from someone who is meant to us. But we never know what will happen, now focus on healing your heart, and keep moving forward. Let time answers it. 🙂