Taking my own advice...

I have a lot of friends who confide in me to ask me for help with their relationships, which is lovely, however although I am good at giving sound, rational and calming advice to my friends about whatever guy or girl is doing their nut in at any particular time, I just can't seem to take my own advice and sort my own mess out! If I was listening to someone else relaying "my story" I'd be giving them a slap.. so what gives??
Have any other Aries suffered with this??

Aries cannot relate to someone else's perspective. The only thing they can relate with is how they experience and feel life.

Everything else and anyone else doesn't exist in their universe, unless the Aries is interested in that person/that thing..in which case it comes alive.

Extreme subjectivity..and you folks cannot apply it with yourself. Rather than giving yourself advice, you're better off trying ALL the scenarios your mind comes up with and seeing how you feel about each one of them => this will make you pick the right choice in the end.

Keeping it purely intelectual with Aries does NOT work.

Oh I don't know Damnata, I find that I can be quite objective about my situation, and the related "solutions." I just never like those solutions, so I do something entirely different. Makes perfect sense to me....

Maybe you are just now realizing you don't give good advice.

i give such good advise. my friends come from near and far to hear my wisdom..lol... jk.. but really, i am always the voice of reason, why the boyfriend is a dog and should be left. blah blah, then occasionally, i tell my friends, go for it, be in love and love and dont let anything get in your way. i generally do or say that becasue that is usually waht i do... even with the assholes that should be left!! so, logiacally, i dont heed my own advise, i am not casusious. i get my heart hurt and broke in to a million pieces. but, why is it that i am such a know it all, and i try so hard to help my friends from being shit on, but cant for myself. Well i am getting older and have a lot harder time putting my self out there. wiser, yes, stronger, no..

Posted by araeis2014
wiser, yes, stronger, no..

Yes.. this exactly!

I don't want to be wiser..lol.. i wish i had all that hope and belief in love I use to, something in me is changing. I am glad that I am wiser. I just wish i had the strength to put myself out there like I use to. The glorious days of love and falling in love and heartbreak.. i felt and in feeling, whether hurt or happiness, you feel a live. just my lil tought. sooo wise..lol

I'm pretty good at taking my own advice I falter here and there but nobody is perfect 🙂

Posted by araeis2014
I don't want to be wiser..lol.. i wish i had all that hope and belief in love I use to, something in me is changing. I am glad that I am wiser. I just wish i had the strength to put myself out there like I use to. The glorious days of love and falling in love and heartbreak.. i felt and in feeling, whether hurt or happiness, you feel a live. just my lil tought. sooo wise..lol

My problem is that I still have that hope, and still put myself out there continuously even when really everything points to the fact that I shouldn't but I'm perfectly objective when I read into situations with my friends relationships...but for me it's a frigging Leo who is getting under my skin; uugghhh!!! 😢

Posted by AriesGirl74
I have a lot of friends who confide in me to ask me for help with their relationships, which is lovely, however although I am good at giving sound, rational and calming advice to my friends about whatever guy or girl is doing their nut in at any particular time, I just can't seem to take my own advice and sort my own mess out! If I was listening to someone else relaying "my story" I'd be giving them a slap.. so what gives??
Have any other Aries suffered with this??

Hey girl, you give good advice, I know you can apply advice given also! Your being to hard on yourself, YOUR AN ARIES!!!!! 😉

Posted by AriesGirl74

Posted by araeis2014
I don't want to be wiser..lol.. i wish i had all that hope and belief in love I use to, something in me is changing. I am glad that I am wiser. I just wish i had the strength to put myself out there like I use to. The glorious days of love and falling in love and heartbreak.. i felt and in feeling, whether hurt or happiness, you feel a live. just my lil tought. sooo wise..lol

My problem is that I still have that hope, and still put myself out there continuously even when really everything points to the fact that I shouldn't but I'm perfectly objective when I read into situations with my friends relationships...but for me it's a frigging Leo who is getting under my skin; uugghhh!!! 😢

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Girl, they trap us in..... Hard to let them go once under their spell.... But there are a ton of Sexy Leo's out there...

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Posted by AriesGirl74
I have a lot of friends who confide in me to ask me for help with their relationships, which is lovely, however although I am good at giving sound, rational and calming advice to my friends about whatever guy or girl is doing their nut in at any particular time, I just can't seem to take my own advice and sort my own mess out! If I was listening to someone else relaying "my story" I'd be giving them a slap.. so what gives??
Have any other Aries suffered with this??

Hey girl, you give good advice, I know you can apply advice given also! Your being to hard on yourself, YOUR AN ARIES!!!!! 😉

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Love u EA!!!!!
Yeah I feel like I'm in a dark place and I can't see the wood for the trees but I'm coming out the other side 🙂