The ULTIMATE aries love advice CHALLANGE!!!

Ok, is obvious why I put there that title, I'm an aries and if I saw that kind of thing in a forum list I will clik it ASAP.
Let's get on point. Altough I'm an aries boy and I am pretty sure that I understand how this sign works, but I am not an expert and I need an good opinion (also I want to have some fun starting a thread here) about an aries girl.

I see her on highschool every day for almost 3 years and even that I liked other girls in certain periods I always had a crush on her. She is hot, she is confident, she is so damn mysterious, she is intelgent and the most strange thing is that she don't have a lot of popolar friends, on short terms she is not like the other "pretty popular girls" on my school. Damn she is a real aries >:3

The thing is that our personalities resemble each other... I mean, along the boys on my highschool I have almost the same status. I could've been on the popular side because I hit gym and I look very good and also I am very sociable and well known in my highschool because I won a highschool contest for freshmens when I was in my 9th grade *a pretty big thing back then*. Despite all this stuff I always prefered to have just a small circle of good friends and just that.

I am an Aries Sun, Aries Moon, Cancer Ascendant with the Venus in Aquarius. She is 4 days older than me with exactly the same placements without her moon that is in Aquarius. From what I have read that meke me an unconventional, inmaginative, bold, strange in love and with a caring hearth person. The description fits me pretty well. I think that the charts we have are the reason for the strange attraction between us.

I have this questions:

1. Does an Aries - Arie couple work? I heard a lot of opinions about here and I want to hear yours, based on the ascendants and venuses too.

2. How to start to talk to her? Well, I used the inverse psichology thing and I put myself in her place and I acted how I thinked someone will attract me. It seemed to work because I chatched her staring at me and she avoids eye contact, but I don't get to see her often and when I do she mostly ignores me like I do.

3. What I SHOULDN'T do with this type of girl? (I mean girls are strange, need advices, pls help)

We have some common friends. All told me in separate ocasions, for a long time, that I should talk to her because they think we are a perfect match but I didn't find a good ocasion to talk to her beside some small talks that were very rare (when everything was going extremley good btw) and to be honest... She looks a little bit scarry and distant... Or just scarry... Pherphaps she think about me the same way... I need your help fellows aries! Peace 😄

2. How to start to talk to her? Well, I used the inverse psichology thing and I put myself in her place and I acted how I thinked someone will attract me. It seemed to work because I chatched her staring at me and she avoids eye contact, but I don't get to see her often and when I do she mostly ignores me like I do.

You start talking to her by talking to her? Aries are said to be straightforward, and typically appreciate that approach. Any man who's straightforward with me is attractive and psychological games are a turn-off. If you want to be a "challenge" then the best way is to be yourself, do your own thing, and show her that, despite your attraction to her, you have other interests/hobbies in your life. Also, try to get to know her more, ask her questions about her interests, beliefs, etc.



Thank you very much for your response 😄

I have to say that you told me some things that I didn't found on other forums out there. So I think I could give you a closer look to why I acted like that and I didn't went "straight forward" as I usually shuld do. The thing is that I almost repressed that feeling because I knowed that it wont work.

"Why, she is an aries, right?" Well, she is, but she had a lot of guys chasing her... I mean a lot, almost all the guys around her showed her attention. If I am another dumb boy who told her "Hey, I like you" this wont work well for me. The thing, for me at least, is that the Aquarius Venus makes me idealistic in love and VERY picky... Thats why I choose to be single all the highschool and she did the same. All the guys are complaining she has too much expectations for a boyfriend.

She reads "Fifthy Shades of Grey" and a lot of other love novel and watch a lot of movies waiting fore someone like that. She is super smart and she know what she wants without compromises, but I'm very intelligent too... I have a ton of hobbyes... I learn for going to an architecture collage, I write a fantasy book, I maintain a Youtube music channel talking whith artist all around the globe, I hit gym everyday, 5 times per week, I also like psichology and I created some concepts of video games... In short terms, I am a hard working and good looking 17 years nerd, and she is something like that too. I also seen that she admires hard working guys with a lot of hobbies.

So, I wanted to make it look like story in her books so for almost an year I was hot'n'cold giving her clues using my psichology skills, that I really liked her, our common friends played an important role as well in that telling her stuff about me. She like this kind of mind game, I assure you.

All this approaching worked but I just want to find a way to talk to her in a non-creepy manner (I mean to straight fowrard as I used to do) and ruin all this image I have created around me.

I have to mention that I really like this game too. Cancer ascendant must have some influence here I guess. Thank you again

I'm Aries and went out with an Aries woman for 7 years. The answer is yes it works, and it will work very very fast once things get going, like with all women it has to be her decision to go out with you. But typically Aries women will make it really obvious they like you, don't give in too easily because Aries like a challenge, so say something like you're not sure you'll looking for anyone right now but obviously if the right person came along you'd be interested, and let her keep the challenge going. But be flirty and direct with her too, she will see in you the same energy which she has in herself. Once things get going, I would say send her lots of texts saying how sexy she is. Direct, force, power, war, the energy of an Aries, which most women will be scared of, it's the same in Aries women and they will not be scared.

Long term, argument are massive, huge, destroy the whole world type arguments, where everything will get smashed. This can last 10 minutes or so, and then what happens is you'll both calm down and immediately be completely fine with each other, which either results in sex or going out, and being passionate with each other as usual (two Aries are passionate). No argument will ever break you, they may be immature arguments, to create war for the sake of it, energy outbursts, but you will both forget about them instantly once it's ended. No argument will be too much.

I think if there is going to be a problem- you need to be very clear what each other wants out of life, things will move quick, and you may overpower and bully each other and stop each other from going after what they want if it's something different. So you need to find out early doors what she wants out of life in general, if you like her, you will do this, once you enter the relationship then you may bully her, and she may bully you.

Why did we break up? Well a couple of things got to me, she definitely wanted a baby and I don't mind about having a baby, but I felt like I could have been any guy at times, ie would be nice to think she wanted a baby with me, not just that she wanted a baby. But that's specific to me, hence why I say find her long term goals in life and encourage her, make sure it agrees with your goal. Also arguments can happen when you're just about to go out with friends, meaning it looks like to friends you aren't right for each other. Aries can be very vocal with discussing problems with relationships, so be careful and make sure you only discuss with really good friends (not everyone), this is good advice for Aries men in general.

Well I feel like is the best advice I could get. Thank you buddy, you really cleared my mind. I wont let this one go away.

I declare this thread closed. To other members out there, try your luck to see if you can beat this advice 😄