Virgo girl being stalked by Aries

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Jesse91
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what the fuck how old is this guy?
you did ALL those things for him and this is how he decides to repay you? what an ungrateful, immature bastard.
first of all, you shouldn't have given him any money. was it a loan? he needs to pay you back. it's just inappropriate to accept money from a girl (or anyone) like that and not give it back. you guys are practically strangers (not even dating or married). it definitely wasn't a smart move but i guess you knew that and did it anyway.

honestly, he sounds no different than a kindergartener whining and stomping his foot in the candy aisle cuz his mom won't buy him any treats. he also wants what he can't have. just tell him straight up that the way he's acting is unacceptable and that you won't stand for it. tell him that all he's doing is taking advantage of your kindness and that he WILL NOT get what he wants this time around. don't give him any hope that you'll help him again.

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heroic_guy
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15 Years500+ PostsAries

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To get an Aries to stop stalking you, stop contacting them back. If he writes a letter throw it away. If he sends you a message on your phone don't read or reply. Every way he can contact you, even through friends, make it clear you are done.

I don't remember what I said when the original topic was 'an Aries on a deathbed is now in love with me'.

Stick to your guns, and don't go back on your decision to cut him out of your life.
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amrutha92
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Posted by Jesse91
what the fuck how old is this guy?
you did ALL those things for him and this is how he decides to repay you? what an ungrateful, immature bastard.
first of all, you shouldn't have given him any money. was it a loan? he needs to pay you back. it's just inappropriate to accept money from a girl (or anyone) like that and not give it back. you guys are practically strangers (not even dating or married). it definitely wasn't a smart move but i guess you knew that and did it anyway.

honestly, he sounds no different than a kindergartener whining and stomping his foot in the candy aisle cuz his mom won't buy him any treats. he also wants what he can't have. just tell him straight up that the way he's acting is unacceptable and that you won't stand for it. tell him that all he's doing is taking advantage of your kindness and that he WILL NOT get what he wants this time around. don't give him any hope that you'll help him again.




He's 22, i'm 19 but i feel like i was baby sitting him throughout the whole thing! Only reason i helped him with the cash was he was going through a tough time at home and i didn't want our strained relationship to come in between us being friends and i wanted to be there for him, cause i know his other friends (also arians) and they don't really bother to help him. I tried over and over..but he was beyond unreasonable.
You're right.. he's a spoilt brat who wants what he can't have and i'm not interested in handling him anymore! So i told him on his face that i've had it and that i'm not gonna keep in touch or ever meet up. He's trying hard to get in touch, tells my friends to convince me to talk to him, sends me stuff through mail (so weird) But i've declined everything. NOW i ask myself.. how the hell could i have wanted to date someone so insensible!!
Thanks a ton jesse, im gonna do exactly that. Cut him out for good! I just hope he stops bothering me
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He started treating me very badly and was pretty mean towards me. But i still stayed friends with him, payed a truckload for all his internship expenses and took care of him when he was ill, but he kept avoiding me and coming back to me only when he needed favors. I was really hurt and tried hard to patch up, but he told me he's not "really interested in my affairs" anymore. And he said that right after i had brought him from the hosp and fed him.

really? and you really don't want him to get hurt either?

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Posted by zenalchemy
He started treating me very badly and was pretty mean towards me. But i still stayed friends with him, payed a truckload for all his internship expenses and took care of him when he was ill, but he kept avoiding me and coming back to me only when he needed favors. I was really hurt and tried hard to patch up, but he told me he's not "really interested in my affairs" anymore. And he said that right after i had brought him from the hosp and fed him.

really? and you really don't want him to get hurt either?

http://media.photobucket.com/image/im not buying/chickpeaax/gifs/imafillyandwhatisthis.jpg?o=26" target="_blank">




Yeah, i was foolish to like a bastard like him in the first place. he doesn't deserve an ounce of it is what ive come to realize. So ive cut him off for good...and if he's upset, then to hell with him!
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Posted by zenalchemy
He started treating me very badly and was pretty mean towards me. But i still stayed friends with him, payed a truckload for all his internship expenses and took care of him when he was ill, but he kept avoiding me and coming back to me only when he needed favors. I was really hurt and tried hard to patch up, but he told me he's not "really interested in my affairs" anymore. And he said that right after i had brought him from the hosp and fed him.

really? and you really don't want him to get hurt either?

http://media.photobucket.com/image/im not buying/chickpeaax/gifs/imafillyandwhatisthis.jpg?o=26" target="_blank">




lol
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Virgo & Aries? Bad match all the way around and I am sure if
the aries guy understood what Virgo was like he'd run for the
hills because they are such a bad match and Virgo like to plan
and be very cautious and aries don't like to always plan though
they are great with coming up with great stategies and plans
they don't like to be pinned or feel they have to do something
according to plan if they don't want to.they hate to be hemmed
in but Virgo likes to know where your at and phone calls ect...
and like their partners very close to them,and to know what they
are doing,aries doesn't always like to feel obligated and feel
they must always check in.Many bad things between aries and virgos
though any relationship can survive with understanding and infor-
mation about one another,these two should run and hide from each
other because not often a good match! someone should send this aries
guy information on Virgo's pronto! this aries guys sounds like a
user but it's all coming from a virgo so it may very well be one
sided? not calling this virgo gal a liar but I know plenty of
virgo's and often times they allow themselves to be used with alot
of strings attached and assumptions so in her mind he was using her
yet she did allow it to happen.