What the...?

I just found out that I am Sun in Aries with Ascendent in Scopio and Rising in Scorpio.. Ooo maybe that explains my high (you know what) energy.. And I am always on the go (moody too)

So why the **** am I attracting Virgos??

Interesting - so am I (aries sun too) Must be a virgo thing, maybe they?re becoming wild and drawn to danger...
Let?s ask Freebird if she?s been crowded by any virgos lately—

Oh yes, welcome Sharma;
jump right in and join us weirdos.

Parallax, you predicting that when virgos come to their senses cancerians will lose theirs?

Have already tried (in vain obviously) to explain that one to Allen;
I?m a TURTLE - it was a hedgehog that conned the hare (for CHR.... sake!)

Lucky me - missed that one - must?ve been out swimming or at home polishing my valuable shell
Bugs Bunny, she still alive after all these years—

My, do they blabble - that rocket was meant to be a secret!

Ehemm, did I just see Sharma running that?a?way?

Welcome Sharma to the DXP forum as well as to the world of an Aries....yep, girl you gots lots of ENERGY, spunk, fire and oh...passion! Those are just a few of what you gots inside that beautiful body of yours...You are gonna like the folks that hang here - as they ALL are so wise in their own special way.

Virgo's...—?? Let's take a moment and look at the FIRE sign...always on the "GO" - moving so very fast...get my drift? Virgo= Earth...he may have entered your life to teach you to slow down a bit - ground yourself. Earth humans really rock my world I must say....there is a very deep center that is so passionate about them and being in their presence when that erruption occurs is pure delight and oh so fascinating....ohhhhh - shiver me timbers just thinking about it.

I have more Cappies that are in my life and that may be due to my moon being in Cap. I have lovely Virgo friends...they are much *slower* than me and everything they do...this is good, teaches the Ram patience.

Lately mostly AIR signs have entered my air space (I'm a flying bird ya know - flittering and fluttering every which way)

Important Info. while out shopping today I bought a RED shirt that says, "Oh NO...not another learning experience!" I can just imagine who I will meet while wearing that.

Hi to my buddies - Parasexlax, ChocolatecoveredTurtle and Sweetiepumkinpie 😉

Oh yes Parallax that and so much more 😉

Sweetiepumkinpie~ the skies are open, free, limitless and full of balloons!!!! I flew into a green one a few moments ago...beak first - scared the living "crap" outta me! Fine now. Earlier today I baked two pumkin pies...thought of you...yep, I have eaten a piece or two in your honor of coarse and it was yummy in my tummy!

ParafunnyMOONman, I am so glad to hear that your seister is doing well and might be coming up for Christmas..please invite her to our DXP holiday party won't you? I am sure that she will have some very interesting stories to share with us...especially if she is anything like her brother.

Shama said,

"I just found out that I am Sun in Aries with Ascendent in Scopio and Rising in Scorpio.. Ooo maybe that explains my high (you know what) energy.. And I am always on the go (moody too)

So why the **** am I attracting Virgos??"

Rising and ascendant means the same thing, also Scorpio . . . oh God, I didn't just do that. Sorry about the correction. I don't criticize, but I do then to correct. Anyway, to answer your question, Virgos are typically good at reading people. Well, I am anyway. They probably sense emotional depth attached to that "high (you know what)." Let me explain that. I'm a double Virgo, Virgo sun and Virgo ascendant, and as I wrote in another post, I express happiness easily, but intense emotion from me, or directed at me is somewhat unsettling. At the same time, it's a huge turn on. An ethereal aphrodisiac. I'm not talking about angry dramatics at a full Waffle House, but emotional intensity focused at an object of affection, as it is in let's say, more, primal, illicit activities.

Opposites do tend to attract. People often search for qualities in others that aren't particularly developed or expressed in themselves. Virgo males are outwardly (EMPHASIS ON OUTWARDLY) tin men. The pinnacle of self containment. Aries are the emotional rabid pit bulls of the zodiac (no offense), Scorpios are intensity incarnate. From this Virgos perspective, the mere thought of the combination, is for lack of a better word, stimulating. I think the attraction has to do with someone being emotionally free and intense enough to break through the exterior. To get pass the shell and expose the real person. To draw an archetype Virgo out to a point beyond apathy where their heart is actually on the line. Vulnerability. I'm sure something in you manner implies this potential. I don't know, just thoughts.

Hey, think about giving one a chance.

VirgoSquared

VirgoSquared

"Absolutley" would love to give this virgo a chance - you are right about a lot of things - although - not sure if the "emotional pit bull" is correct on my part (no offence taken) - I do suffer "emotional constipation" - If anything this virgo has been nothing but emotionally free, which causes slight discomfort for me

Curious as to what you meant by " Scorpios are intensity incarnate" The metaphor mislead me -

One quandry though that has stopped me giving This Virgo a chance is that This virgo has a partner (Libran) - yet makes no apologies for his attraction to me..

Why is that?

Sometimes I think he is really attracted to my hygiene fetishes

Sharma, thanks for the response.

The emotional pit bull things has to do with the few Aries I personally know. Just absurdly emotionally impulsive. Essentially, when they have a grievance, you never have to guess. Whether it makes good sense or not, they'll let you know quite readily.

As for the "intensity incarnate" thing. Scorpios have a label of being quite intense. I think that's part of people's attraction to the sign. Also conversely, the fear. For a typical Scorpio, as lore goes, there's no half and half or "somewhat." It's all or nothing. They love you to death or they hate your guts. This intensity is supposed to carry into numerous areas of their lives, be it business, politics, or, where it's most known. The bedroom. Matters of the heart and the great below. You've had to hear the labels. Trustworthy, fiercely loyal, devoted, jealous, leading to being vengeful and homicidal 🙂 LOL

As for him being emotionally free for a Virgo. People are much more complex than just their sun signs. They're total individuals that have had numerous experiences, positive and negative, born a particular race, in a particular country, etc., etc. You can't always put them in a box based on their sun sign. True, it'd be easier, but, that's not how it works. Now, embracing a thought. Your friend may just come across as being emotionally free. Ask yourself, what do you really know about his core being? His life? Has he ever sincerely opened up to you about something that was moving or, I don't know? Unsuperficial? In the right situations, I can be somewhat of a chatterbox, but even then I always end up learning more about another than they ever learn about me. It's not intentional, it's just the way it seems to work. I'm fiercely curious, (that's a weird word combination, but it fits) and tend to remember every conversation of substance I have with people (yet I'm bad with names, go figure). Regardless how drastic my life has been at times, an it has been, I guarantee you they've never seem me emotionally unstable or erratic. Outwardly, they've always seen the same even keel. I have a nagging tendency to compartmentalize people in areas of life. Family, chess buddies, people at work, people at . . . you get the point. There's no bleed through, a bad thing in one compartment doesn't usually translate to the other compartments. The trust thing with me is a huge chasm to get over. What you say has to vibe with what you do. The analysis thing. If this guy is similar, you may not know as much about him as you think you do. But again, I don't know, I'm just trying to spur thought here.

"One quandary though that has stopped me giving this Virgo a chance is that this Virgo has a partner (Libran) - yet makes no apologies for his attraction to me.

Why is that?"

Beauty is beauty. You can't control who you're attracted to. It'll be cool if you could. Your hotness is not his fault. 🙂 I'm guessing the burn marks you leave in your wake can be tough to deal with. This poor Virgo is probably at home suffering as I write. His mind stuck in some hellish scenario loop of how to endear himself to you and get past the crisis of conscience in dealing with his Libran. Why should he apologize for being attracted to you? You should be flattered 🙂 Irrespective of who he's with. A willingness to act on that attraction should be what concerns you.
I think this has to do with this Virgo male androgynous image; this is waaaaay off. A guy, is a guy. The typical Virgo may not be as open or flamboyant about sexuality as another sign, but come on. The propensity for greatness is there. :0
Thinking about it. If he revealed he was attracted to you, he probably was gauging your reaction. Trying to see where your head is at. The potential for more if any exist. Your response to this is obviously on you.

Oh. Also. Hygiene fetishes? What is that a

Hi Sharma!
It must be your scorpio ascendent which must be drawing the Virgos to you.

Whats with the scorpio thing.. I have alot of "energy" from scorpio - yes.. but how it draws virgo? Still evaluating

VIRGO Squared: -

Thank you so much for that reply - detailes (as per virgo) - luv it - also you are pretty much "Spot on" as the saying goes. Or as a virgo would prefer - you are right!

He is very very unhappy (with Libran) - but tied with guilt. Poor thing. I guess the only thing I will do here is remain a friend to him.. but boy is he gorgeous..not sure yet how he will resolve that one..

In the mean time our "Hygeine fetish" as you asked - we get along very well with. ie I dont like to share towels, toothbrushes, etc.. if someone touches my glass, I dont like to drink out of it afterward. I like clean, clean kitchens - so important. I will bite someones head off if they have not cleaned up - with "bench wipe" after themselves (and many more)

Another framework we get along on - is that since way young, for analysing things. In fact many atimes I am accused of "Over" analysing.. and Virgo man is the only who, likes to hear my analysis on things which make for great discussion.

I would hate to think what was really going through his head - correct me if I am wrong, the fact that he is still with the Libran has an element of guilt attached?

But Virgo's are absolutely sensual - I can feel him - just wont persue anything. I believe things happen for a reason - the reason I am trying to figure out, is if he is just drawn to me because he is unhappy at home..

confused...

Hello Sharma.

You know, if he's unhappy with the Libran, he's just wasting her time. Whether guilt is keeping him there or not is moot. Remoteness, even if it's spiritual is harsh. If he wants to end it, give her the opportunity to find someone that cares. I'd be hugely pissed if I even got an inkling someone was with me for my own benefit. Out of some obligation. With me I probably would've already considered it, to be shown through actions, I'd hit the roof. Actually, it did happen once with a friend. At least that's how I saw it. I'm finding that how I saw it may not actually be how it was, but, perception is often one's reality and, I took leave. I look at that like, don't do me no favors. Not that kind anyway.

That being said, did he just say, he's unhappy with her, or do you sense he's truly unhappy. Trust, there's a huge difference.

Whether he's staying with the Libran because of guilt, whether he's drawn to you from unhappiness at home, whether he really cares, there's no way to know outside of asking. You can sit back and analyze, but without all the information, that may prove to be fruitless. Whether you can ask him what's going on depends on how close you two are. If it was someone I was interested in, I don't think I'd mind being asked, but everyone is different. Don't interrogate him, but when you two get together again, providing the situation permits. Accidentally on purpose, as inconspicuously as possible, guide the conversation into what's going on with him and the Libran. Preferably providing enough indirect stimulus to make it seem like he brought it up. If you've eaten your Wheaties that morning and feeling particularily frisky, you might even pry into how he feels about you. Risky, I doubt if I'd reveal. I'd probably get evasive as hell, but, you know him better that I do, so take it for what it's worth. Also to note, I'd probably know you were prying, if not then, on the trip home . 🙂 So, again, take it for what it's worth. If you think you can steal the diamond without triggering the alarm. You go right on ahead. Getting home, taking off the mask with a sly smurk, listening. "No sirens. Right on!"

Also, you may want to trigger the alarm on the way out just to subtly hint interest. If he's an analysis buff, he'd figure it out. Of course, if he's staying with the Libran, all of this is moot. Fun with speculation.

🙂

I hope that helped,

VirgoSquared

One more thing Sharma.

You mind if I check out your astrological chart? I'd just need your birth date, time, and place. You can email it to me for privacy if you want. Now a person's chart is personal, so think about first. I'd understand your decline. I love to look over exciting charts, meaning emotionally propelled in the case of Aries or intense in terms of Scorpios. I'm curious by nature forgive me. I'm an amateur at best, but I'd be glad to give an overview of anything that jumps out at me. I seem to be getting pretty good at it.

Oh, also. "Spot on!" "Right on!" "You rock!" "F**king A Man!" All of it works. The sentiment gets across. As the tattoos on my arms imply, I'm not a square. This Virgo has no particular preference. 🙂

VirgoSquared

Welcome Shamo I am a capricorn so I only welcome those who survive the first few weeks.

She is an Aries...and Aries are survivors by golly! Toast to Sharma and Welcome aboard!

Kisses to OJ 😉