First House influence

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most of my placements are in the first house. major ones too. my Sun, Venus, Jupiter, Pluto and Mercury. does anyone else have a majority of first house planets?

my Mars is 2nd, Uranus/Neptune 3rd, Saturn 4th, moon 11th. true Lilith is in the 7th.. kind of unfortunate. but my mean Lilith is in the 6th. MC Leo. Chiron in 11th

some of my asteroids form a stellium in Aquarius in the 4th. then of course Scorpio stellium.

I think my first house placements always have me searching for ways to better myself (sun). I am in constant search of who I am, who I want to be and how to refocus negative energies. being a Scorpio I feel like negative energies can be easy to harness onto, and when I was younger I delved into negativity and held onto self-pity and pessimism. it also didn't help that those who I was friends with also viewed life in a negative manner. I feel I have grown and matured quite a lot since then. I am very grateful for these placements overall! minus my Chiron and Lilith. I hope to keep developing in a positive manner. I have a wide variety of interests. Sometimes I feel like school isn't much for me. though it's my last year...I'm not one for deadlines or being told what to do. I love artistry and the arts. I feel happiest when I am creating something of my own or just singing, playing instruments. I'm also the type who wants to press the button when they tell you not to press the button just so I can see what it will do and why it is forbidden. I have an ample amount of curiosity that only grows which is both good and bad. somehow luck always stays by my side even when I do risky things out of curiosity.
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i was noticing something...

when i was reading Alada's comments in her YouTube videos.

I'm a 1st house venus, obviously. lol heehee.

anyway, she mentions here, in the comments that there are THREE SLEEPING venuses!!! O__O

and even if they are in the 1st house, that venus is ASLEEP.

this made me think about the topic awhile back about Halle berry, and her problems with relationships. She's got everything, fame, fortune, gorgeusness, venusian beauty! all of it.

cancer venus is a sleeping venus, so is leo and virgo.

I remember that KRSCHANNEL or was it the other guy Ernst Wilhelm who said that there are venuses that are just not Lucky at all, or just what they call, SLEEPING.

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but I thought Leo venus was on the receiving end of romance?
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check out her comments here, maybe you can ask her and log on to YouTube:


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hanabi48810 10 months ago
I'm a Libra with Leo Rising and I have Venus in the 1st House. Unfortunately, I don't have any luck in relationship. 😢

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Lada Duncheva 10 months ago
Venus is very weak in Leo--it is "asleep" there--Venus does not like being in 3 signs-Leo, Cancer and Virgo….In Leo there are a lot of sacrifices which need to be done in relationships





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omg.

the SLEEPING venuses ...

Cancer, Virgo, and Leo.



even IF it's in the first house.



@Sierra!!!



what do u think gurrllll?? your cancer venus is sleeping ??

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well i just woke up from a long azz nap so..
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those sleeping venuses LOL



;p

Alada just says it straight

so what if it's in the 6th house virgo venus 4th house cancer venus, 5th house Leo venus, double sleep??



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if you have a bad venus, she is not producing anything for you, even if she is world famous and beautiful and have money.



O_O!



some interesting tidbits.






Can you explain this please
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from my limited understanding...

sleeping venuses mean that they aren't "active" ....like they are in the fall, cannot have any energy. or have very little energy (sleeping) to get what they want, desire,

but i dont believe that to be true always,



i just noticed that halle berry's venus is Leo and in 4th house so it's DOUBLE sleeping..

she is beautiful and powerfully wealthy and talented...but she has trouble,

but i think alot of that is upbringing maybe. Alada explained it in her venus series.

also watch the videos i posted.

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jennifer lawrence has leo venus as well...

and while she is successful at a young age and many are like her,

love is not something she is interested in right now..

i dont get the feeling she is interested for awhile

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her focus is career in the movies, and she is one of the highest paid.

i saw this too with Madonna, who is Leo sun, with Leo venus, just like Jennifer Lawrence..hmmmm

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jennifer lawrence has leo venus as well...

and while she is successful at a young age and many are like her,

love is not something she is interested in right now..

i dont get the feeling she is interested for awhile

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her focus is career in the movies, and she is one of the highest paid.

i saw this too with Madonna, who is Leo sun, with Leo venus, just like Jennifer Lawrence..hmmmm




okay so does that mean that these venuses already feel fulfilled and so it's just gonna be unnecessary for them to seek out romantic partners or whatever?
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i dont really understand it either...but what i get from it, is that it's too weak in terms of love, because they dont want to make the sacrifices ...

and making sacrifices for love, means compromising ALOT because you want them and want them in your life, and you make room for them. From what i get ...from Leo venus just from the two examples, they would rather only revolve around themselves. Someone has to SERVE them...

while virgo and cancer venus are different, they seem like the types that would serve others,

so the energy is still weak, there. They serve but they dont want to make sacrifices for love?

maybe it's just like my example of the ex i had who sacririced love for money. Money is more important to them than love. which is also weird for Cancer venus...

Donald Trump is cancer venus, so is Angelina Jolie.

i notice that it's not the same with aries and sagittarius if it's in the 1st house, maybe because mars there and jupiter energy in the venus is not so bad.

why the moon energy, and the sun energy and mercury earth not so good??





donald trump finally found someone at the end of his life, in his 60s and 70s, he married a taurus venus woman...

which venus is GOOD there.



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maybe Melania Trump does alot of GOOD for his personal life...

while she benefits ALOT from his wealth and power..

he benefits ALOT from her love. which is mroe powerful than money and material things.
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jennifer lawrence has leo venus as well...

and while she is successful at a young age and many are like her,

love is not something she is interested in right now..

i dont get the feeling she is interested for awhile

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her focus is career in the movies, and she is one of the highest paid.

i saw this too with Madonna, who is Leo sun, with Leo venus, just like Jennifer Lawrence..hmmmm




okay so does that mean that these venuses already feel fulfilled and so it's just gonna be unnecessary for them to seek out romantic partners or whatever?


i dont really understand it either...but what i get from it, is that it's too weak in terms of love, because they dont want to make the sacrifices ...

and making sacrifices for love, means compromising ALOT because you want them and want them in your life, and you make room for them. From what i get ...from Leo venus just from the two examples, they would rather only revolve around themselves. Someone has to SERVE them...

while virgo and cancer venus are different, they seem like the types that would serve others,

so the energy is still weak, there. They serve but they dont want to make sacrifices for love?

maybe it's just like my example of the ex i had who sacririced love for money. Money is more important to them than love. which is also weird for Cancer venus...

Donald Trump is cancer venus, so is Angelina Jolie.

i notice that it's not the same with aries and sagittarius if it's in the 1st house, maybe because mars there and jupiter energy in the venus is not so bad.

why the moon energy, and the sun energy and mercury earth not so good??





donald trump finally found someone at the end of his life, in his 60s and 70s, he married a taurus venus woman...

which venus is GOOD there.



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maybe Melania Trump does alot of GOOD for his personal life...

while she benefits ALOT from his wealth and power..

he benefits ALOT from her love. which is mroe powerful than money and material things.




so venuses virgo and cancer will sacrifice everything for love except money? coz they wanna have both love and money?
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your Virgo sun, Virgo mercury brethen explained it really well lol ;p







"they have a DEEP fear of intimacy."

what he said. but then he says, IMagine someone has virgo sun, AND venus virgo, mercury virgo..omg.he knows that he's too boring, and he understands the DEEPEST fear of intimacy. so you keep a distance. they are afraid sooo much. --

cause he understands himself LOL



difficult for them to LET GO.

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i also went to read up and listen on venus in cancer..



he mentions even if they have NO partner, they will get PETS to nurture...

that is so very true.







why is it a weak venus—?



the only thing i can think of is that their connection to the mother which he mentions is strong.

so they might (just giving a GUESS) cater to what their mothers want, more than what their partners want..

which is a turn off ... cause you dont want to do that in a relationship that is supposed to be 2 on 2... two people..

3 is a crowd.





also, when he mentions about Venus in virgo...similar to their opposition of Pisces.



what is different of course is that Pisces sees the GOOD...

while Virgo always ALWAYS wants to see the bad... which is like, so annoying all the time because it's being NIT picky and no one is perfect.

and pisces ignores all the bad, which is also not good, but they are willing to sacrifice MORE because of that...that they know people are not perrfect and love them for their imperfections. maybe that's why venus in pisces is EXALTED.