Air signs are clingy too!

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I swear, my Gemini friends are the worst when it comes to giving me space..I can't dissappear not even for a little bit without them thinking I did something to them and asking me..What did I do—??
Motherfuckers even want an explanation for my disappearance lol.
They love attention and are draining.
I end 2 friendship because 1 asked me too many damn questions and it got to me and the other was just ain't loyal and got mad when I withdrew and stop giving them my time.

Wtf is wrong with ya'll?
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No I'm not shiitty, it's the attention and the companionship that they crave so much from me that drive me nuts.My friendship with them feel like an "intimate relationship".My water and earth sign friends knows that I go in my cave sometimes for a little solitude but I'm gonna come back at some point and they always know how to get in contact with me if its important. .They don't question shit either but the Gems...no not them.

Libras are clingy in relationship

Aquas are surprisingly jealous people.
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Posted by WateryGem
Posted by LittleStar
I'm the opposite. If someone is sending mixed signals, I end up fading away.



Littlestar it really depends if I'm emotionally invested with a person and for how long. If it's someone I don't really know or not invested in, I'm uninterested in that crap.

Crabriot, so it was a love interest?
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No just a friend but I have a feeling he wanted to be more than friends based on how he acts.
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Posted by flowingwater
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I'm NOT a clingy friend nor partner, but if someone I'm interested in starts giving me inconsistent behavior.. That jacks me UP!! That's when I think clingy could come into the picture b/c I'm trying to get the stability back. I like stability, I'm very stable if someone is with me. If they are giving me mixed signals I end up mirroring that.



This exactly what I was stating before. That's why I asked if she was a crappy friend lol
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LOL Well, she might have given him mixed signals that he took as romantic interest and started feeling your silence as something he did. Gems really like to know clearly what is going on. If you make them guess, you will get some confusion thrown at you.
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Posted by crabRiot
However much confusion he throws, it will still be met by silence..
You think I don't know its killing him..
Once again I'm not a crappy friend miss flowing water..but the gems need to keep their double personalities in check when dealing with me...That's a turn off.Another thing is I did not give this man any signals, it's all in his head.



I wouldn't be so cold about it, it sounds like he just cares. If you don't want him to contact you, just tell him to back off. If you do, we will immediately back off. Silence leads to confusion...

I won't contact people that don't want me to contact them.
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Posted by crabRiot
However much confusion he throws, it will still be met by silence..
You think I don't know its killing him..
Once again I'm not a crappy friend miss flowing water..but the gems need to keep their double personalities in check when dealing with me...That's a turn off.Another thing is I did not give this man any signals, it's all in his head.



Do you have a flirty nature? The Cancers I know do.. I'm not saying you intentionally gave him that feeling, he could have mistaken your natural nature as something more.
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Meh...I'm not clingy at all. I have a Gemini Sun with a Scorpio Moon, Leo Rising. I think I use to be clingy when I was younger,but over time I developed a IDGAF attitude. I'm not snobby..I just dont put much effort into friendships like I use to. Especially if the person acts like they dont really wanna be around me or we have nothing to talk about.

I noticed that since I am no longer clingy like that..I tend to attract clingy people. Whether I am dating or just friends with someone..they usually become clingy. I think that is just human nature though. Sometimes people tend to get attached to the ones that pay them the LEAST amount of attention. Try being clingy to some of those Air signs and see how quickly they either disappear or becoming detached from you....lol
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Lol at all these airy fairies...every Gem I know drain me emotionally and the ones that don't are trying hard to..

The Leebs are actually ok...in relationships I see them act clingy with their S.O

The Aquas are crazy jealous lover....Watch your back if they ever suspect their man might like you or if they see you as an ecen slightly possible threat(they stay trying to ruin my life lolssss)but what they don't know is I enjoy a good catfight!