ARE ALL GOD DAMN CANCER MEN UNDATEABLE—?

Omfg. I SWEAR. Once you uncover them they turn into the BIGGEST ASSHOLES. I try my hardest to be sweet and I know he gets depressed and sad but guess what, my life has always been and will always be harder than his and he just throws my feelings under the bus. I try to comfort him, he ignores how I feel. How I feel doesn't matter. It never does. It's always about his dn molds that fucking change every twenty seconds. "HE wants space" "HE wants to talk" "HE feels depressed" and since HE got too scared of an actual relationship HE decided we'd be just friends until HE feels like he's more secure. Well you know what...how about me? How does he think I feel when he's in a bad mood and I'm over here feeling like shit because the only person who makes me happy besides myself is giving me a short reply. I say goodnight Dominick, he says night. Okay, alright, I won't say shit next time. Every day I battle within myself. I know that there's the amazing and sweet side of him, but I see more of him than anyone else on the planet besides himself, and he's a FUCKING ASSHOLE. I hate his God damn guts. Please help me. He's a good guy with good morals so I know he's good deep down but -_- I don't even know.

Btw his chart is:
Sun- Cancer
Moon- Pisces
Mercury- Cancer
Venus- Cancer
Mars- Libra


Mine is:
Sun- Pisces
Moon- Aquarius
Mercury- Aries
Venus- Aries
Mars- Scorpio

And either my Venus or Mars feels like murdering him.

Seriously please help me

Obviously, you aren't looking for help ... you're looking for validation so you can't keep on being an idiot.


to give to a person who doesn't want you to give to them, doesn't make you an angel, it makes you a fool ..... but, certainly, you don't have enough brain cells to grasp that because if you did then this thread wouldn't exist.


so, since you aren't capable of comprehending the reality, why should anyone bother with you?

Posted by P-Angel

Obviously, you aren't looking for help ... you're looking for validation so you can't keep on being an idiot.


to give to a person who doesn't want you to give to them, doesn't make you an angel, it makes you a fool ..... but, certainly, you don't have enough brain cells to grasp that because if you did then this thread wouldn't exist.


so, since you aren't capable of comprehending the reality, why should anyone bother with you?

HE DOES WANT ME TO!!!! -_- I told him I'm finished and im not going to try and cheer him up and talk about his problems and all that shit anymore, and he told me very clearly 'but I want you to, I don't want you to stop and I don't want you to go' so tell me...what the hell does that ducking sound like? It's me who doesn't fucking want to anymore, Im sick of him. He makes me SICK.

You're right. I don't want help, ok ow EXACTLY what to do. His biggest fear is gonna happen and it's his own fault. He was so scared of losing me that he ruined our relationship and now ruined our friendship. Without our friendship I'm not staying, he lost me. I'm done.

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Posted by SuperMissMan
Btw his chart is:
Sun- Cancer
Moon- Pisces
Mercury- Cancer
Venus- Cancer
Mars- Libra


Mine is:
Sun- Pisces
Moon- Aquarius
Mercury- Aries
Venus- Aries
Mars- Scorpio

And either my Venus or Mars feels like murdering him.

perhaps it is the Pisces moon that cause him to be like that

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I've actually never considered it. I always think should be men and I shouldnt, whereas here I am, but it makes sense...maybe I shouldn't be so tough on him 😢

Posted by CluelessCancer
Pisces moon is tough on men.

Why?

after reading your first post, the only interpretation I got out of that is:

me,me,me,me,me,me, oh and what about me

and maybe that's what he is picking up on. that you are aren't genuine in your feelings towards him.

maybe the way you show it is completely different then how he interprets it, and that is why he is so distant

I dated a triple Cancer (Sun, Moon, and Ascendant). Same experience as you but, I was intrigued because I have an "opposite" temperament. Loved the pillow talk OMG. Loved being trusted for long stays in the cocoon.

But, he was bipolar...manic depressive.

Posted by P-Angel

Obviously, you aren't looking for help ... you're looking for validation so you can't keep on being an idiot.


to give to a person who doesn't want you to give to them, doesn't make you an angel, it makes you a fool ..... but, certainly, you don't have enough brain cells to grasp that because if you did then this thread wouldn't exist.


so, since you aren't capable of comprehending the reality, why should anyone bother with you?

You aren't even bothering to read the posts first,

anymore, are you... lol

You're going to have to speak up--

the more you give, the more he'll want.

But if you don't stand behind it, it's

not going to change.

Patterns are hard to break... but don't

wait until you're ready to explode (unless

that ship has sailed? lol).

I had meaningful relationships in my teens.

One relationship in my teens was the second most epic in my life.

I have often considered rewinding the transits back to see WTF was going on in the stars.

Posted by VenusAquarius
I had meaningful relationships in my teens.

One relationship in my teens was the second most epic in my life.

I have often considered rewinding the transits back to see WTF was going on in the stars.

I can identify a bit-- the person I dated for a few years (beginning @ 18)...

we were incredibly compatible.

Possibly moreso than anyone else I've dated, save the Virgo/LEO moon.



Interesting about turning back the transits-- you can do that on Astro, I think.

Fairly certain, anyway.... I'm going to have to try it now.


lol

🙂

Too much water in his chart. Must be hard dealing with him.

And you venus in aries. Impatient as fuck.

FUCK cancers. they are nothing but overemotional, weak, pathetic losers. they come off as trying to be nice, but that's only because they want someone to sympathize with their aims. they want to be able to control others, but they are weak, so they try to emotionally blackmail others. no one has time for that shit. the women are more in control with themselves than the bitch ass men are. cancer men should all chop off their penises and testicles and retire from 'manhood'. they are so easily see through and easy to walk on. tell me why when they cant have the chick they want, they want to either stalk her, harass her, or tear her down like she was nothing to begin with? sour grapes bitches! my brother is a cancer and he's still mad at me because his ex woman ended up with me. i saw how he treated her, and that's why it ended up how it did. but anyway, FUCK cancer wannabe men! the chicks is cool though.

If he were into you, he'd be dating you. Stop being a drama queen. We've all been disappointed in the game of love. Just move one and stop feeling like the victim.

idk if cancer agree with me here, but I think a lot of them, men and women, want and need a partner who is strong and independent. They find it incredibly sexy and maybe even get struck and dumbfounded when someone stands up to them and doesn't take their butter when they are acting up. (Which I think is cute sometimes.) if you aren't naturally like that, then lace up your shoes and walk away. You have needs and wants too and someone else will definitely be a better match.

Posted by starlover
Water sun and moon isn't easy for a man.....too emotional and more feminine than masculine

And a big FUCK YOU too. Pisces sun are NOT that difficult to deal with. If men took half the time they useD ignoring us and used it to listen I'm to us there wouldnt be nearly as many issues between the sexes.

Once again. FUCK YOU AND YOUR PISS POOR COMMENT, ASSWIPE.

When in reality, if he wanted you and these things (provisions) you think you do for him ... then he would act like it.

There's a difference between being a victim and being ignorant.

If a person (all people) don't act like they regard you as highly as you think you deserve ... then they don't want you, have some fucking dignity and step the fuck away.


Or ... you could ignorant, and stay in a place where he doesn't want, nor appreciate you ... then you can make threads in forums to wa wa wa wa about how you're too weak to make a sound life choice for yourself.


You're not a victim. You're just ignorant.

Posted by YesISaidIt
FUCK cancers. they are nothing but overemotional, weak, pathetic losers. they come off as trying to be nice, but that's only because they want someone to sympathize with their aims. they want to be able to control others, but they are weak, so they try to emotionally blackmail others. no one has time for that shit. the women are more in control with themselves than the bitch ass men are. cancer men should all chop off their penises and testicles and retire from 'manhood'. they are so easily see through and easy to walk on. tell me why when they cant have the chick they want, they want to either stalk her, harass her, or tear her down like she was nothing to begin with? sour grapes bitches! my brother is a cancer and he's still mad at me because his ex woman ended up with me. i saw how he treated her, and that's why it ended up how it did. but anyway, FUCK cancer wannabe men! the chicks is cool though.

LMAO

aww what a pity. All the rants from women who cannot get a cancer guy. They are not so complicated man. Its you who play these games in your own head, and then complain cancer guy did this, did that. They are adorable in my opinion. And they are anything but weak. Kisses!

Posted by Montgomery

Posted by P-Angel

Obviously, you aren't looking for help ... you're looking for validation so you can't keep on being an idiot.


to give to a person who doesn't want you to give to them, doesn't make you an angel, it makes you a fool ..... but, certainly, you don't have enough brain cells to grasp that because if you did then this thread wouldn't exist.


so, since you aren't capable of comprehending the reality, why should anyone bother with you?

You aren't even bothering to read the posts first,

anymore, are you... lol

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I can understand this, but I didn't out the whole story here, I was too upset. I put it in the cancer forum. But all is great, we made up and decided to change and love each other unconditionally. But damn do cancers drive me nuts!

Posted by Montgomery
You're going to have to speak up--

the more you give, the more he'll want.

But if you don't stand behind it, it's

not going to change.

Patterns are hard to break... but don't

wait until you're ready to explode (unless

that ship has sailed? lol).

I did speak up, and I always do. I'm very vocal of my opinions and thoughts, he just finds a way to make himself the victim. Even if I blame myself, he lets it be all my fault even if it's not.

Posted by Arielle83
Aren't you like 15 and this is probably the 10th guy you've asked about astrologically?


Maybe don't move to fast thru them and chill out

I know hahaha but If you've nriced I haven't for about four months, I've been with this loser :3

Posted by joon
Too much water in his chart. Must be hard dealing with him.

And you venus in aries. Impatient as fuck.

Extremely hard. And I blame myself or it. I am impatient, but I'm learning to bite my touge and let him glisten in his moods and be emotional. Oh well, at the end of the he loves me and that's all I need.

Posted by YesISaidIt
FUCK cancers. they are nothing but overemotional, weak, pathetic losers. they come off as trying to be nice, but that's only because they want someone to sympathize with their aims. they want to be able to control others, but they are weak, so they try to emotionally blackmail others. no one has time for that shit. the women are more in control with themselves than the bitch ass men are. cancer men should all chop off their penises and testicles and retire from 'manhood'. they are so easily see through and easy to walk on. tell me why when they cant have the chick they want, they want to either stalk her, harass her, or tear her down like she was nothing to begin with? sour grapes bitches! my brother is a cancer and he's still mad at me because his ex woman ended up with me. i saw how he treated her, and that's why it ended up how it did. but anyway, FUCK cancer wannabe men! the chicks is cool though.

Damn hahaha you sound like me the other day xD what's your sign? I totally agree. It takes a man-strength woman to take on a pussy like cancer men -_- thankfully that's me.

Posted by joon
aww what a pity. All the rants from women who cannot get a cancer guy. They are not so complicated man. Its you who play these games in your own head, and then complain cancer guy did this, did that. They are adorable in my opinion. And they are anything but weak. Kisses!

Hehe, I got him. I got him good. I just kind of want out now :/ he's annoying me

16 "I's" and a few scattered "me's".

Regardless of Sun sign of the fellow in question, I see a pattern.
Based on your following posts, it appears you don't.
Good luck with that.

As to the other poster who characterized Cancer men with such a broad brush (pussies and the like. Note: I don't deny some fit your stereotype, but that can be applied to a man of any sign), it's bullshit.

Both of those should be in the little used validation forum.

Posted by xMoonMan
*reads through thread, then notices*

The dxp profanity/word filter changes the third and fourth words of your thread title to:

"Are all SPARKLE MOTION Cancer Men Undateable—?"

If I truly had sparkle motion, would that mean I get a cameo on the next "Twilight" installment?

LOL