Best sign to take initiative

Of all the girls/women I have been with, I noticed not that many have been good at taking the initiative to kiss etc. Was just curious as if there are some of u girls/women of different signs are hesitant to take initiative? I'm a cap and it is probably not a secret that I am not too good at starting it, but I really liked the ones who took the initiative.
So my question is, are there signs who are more into taking initiative than others? or is it a matter of just being shy??

I love taking the initative myself, not going to deny it..

But these are the girls I usually see doing it most as well:

-Sags
-Aries
-Cancer (surprisngly enough lol)
-Leo


The absolutely worst at taking any initiative in romantic sense:

-TAURUS
far behind...Capricorn.

@chopstickcharmer- interesting, have been in a relationship with a leo along time ago, and as far as I remember I have never had anything with an Aries or Virgo of the signs u mention. Maybe virgo would be the way for me to go next. I seem to read alot that virgos and caps should be very compatible and if they don't have a problem going after what they want and take the initiative, then maybe that's the way for me to go🙂

I have to sleep with a girl first before really FEELING her.

Langvad, you look scarily similar to Billy Corgan of the Smashing Pumpkins! :O

Okay thanks guys🙂 Yeah I have been in love with a Taurus for some time but never again I hope! On paper we are compatible but now I see very different and friendship is all we should have not more!
I did have a date once with a scorp, and it is like 8 out of 10 scorps have something about their face that I find attractive. I was very attracted to this scorp, but it wasn't just meant to be, but I remember I found her very beautiful, and I have been talking to some scorps, where I just have a strange connection.
But I will see what are the most signs people in here think are the best at taking the initiative 🙂

Posted by BoomShakalakaBoom
Langvad, you look scarily similar to Billy Corgan of the Smashing Pumpkins! :O

haha no one has ever said that to me before🙂 Don't think I look that much like him if people saw me in real life though, but if it's a good thing then it's perfectly okay haha

@ninjutsu thanks🙂

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Posted by Langvad
@chopstickcharmer- interesting, have been in a relationship with a leo along time ago, and as far as I remember I have never had anything with an Aries or Virgo of the signs u mention. Maybe virgo would be the way for me to go next. I seem to read alot that virgos and caps should be very compatible and if they don't have a problem going after what they want and take the initiative, then maybe that's the way for me to go🙂

they're known to be shy though. maybe my sign is just a lot worse than virgo that they had to take the lead.

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Okay I need someone who is not that shy as I am abit shy at first until I get to know someone

@ninjutsu, thanks again hehe

Posted by ninjutsu
langvad, I take it this is just initially? Or do they need to initiate EVERY time even when you've been together for six months or something

No just in the beginning, and if it is in a relationship it has to be the both of us 🙂

Genereally speaking, just as someone else mentioned Venus in Aries, also Moon in Aries girls tend to be great at taking initiative, unless their Mars (ruler of Aries) is in Taurus (like my Cap ex lol) 😛

Don't know if this will help as I am a noob in alot of this, but I made my birth chart, if that could help? Here's the link for it:

http://astro.cafeastrology.com/cgi-bin/astro/natal?member=&recalc=&name=Andy+Langvad&sex=t&d1day=24&d1month=12&d1year=1975&d1hour=12&d1min=55&citylist=Silkeborg% 2C+Denmark&lang=en

To be honest, I feel much more comfortable taking the initiative myself than letting the girl do it, just feels a bit awkward..dunno why. Mars in Leo FTW! 😛

Billy Corgan is a bit of a narcissist indeed, but hey! Who isnt these days? lol I like lots of his music but the way he comes across..bleh.

On the other hand, Gaz..the lead singer of Supergrass is also a Pisces with moon in Gem, he's an amazing guy through and through.

Posted by BoomShakalakaBoom
Billy Corgan is a bit of a narcissist indeed, but hey! Who isnt these days? lol I like lots of his music but the way he comes across..bleh.

On the other hand, Gaz..the lead singer of Supergrass is also a Pisces with moon in Gem, he's an amazing guy through and through.

Despite all my rage I am still just a rat in a cage 😉 First ever song I heard by the smashing pumpkins hehe but a good one though

Posted by ninjutsu
cap sun/bull rising/virgo moon.. You have the whole earth set and a retrograde mars in gem opposing neptune so yeah it's not too surprising you're reluctant to initiate.

Okay, crazy u can tell from that 🙂

Posted by ninjutsu
I wouldn't have just looked at your chart and immediately been all "oh this guy would struggle to initiate kissing at first" or anything lol, but I had a head start since you told me, and it's easier to see that way obvs 😛

I'm too weird in the head to deduce much of value out of anything atm tbh

hehe ok, no problem

Thanks for all the replies guys and gals, cool to hear all ur experiences, definitely things to think about 🙂 For the Taurus part I don't think it is in my cards to land one of those. Would never say never but not on top of my list right now.

Leos hands down. Once in a while we'll pretend to be conservative. But we love affection and if by third date you haven't kissed us, we will kiss you. I suggest leo lovers let her seduce you. It drives her crazy there's all this chemistry and your shy about it.

I can say I, as a leo, hate the lewd pushy type. Total seduction killer.

Posted by BoomShakalakaBoom
I love taking the initative myself, not going to deny it..

But these are the girls I usually see doing it most as well:

-Sags
-Aries
-Cancer (surprisngly enough lol)
-Leo


The absolutely worst at taking any initiative in romantic sense:

-TAURUS
far behind...Capricorn.

This may be true. 😢 Ill complain about things but initiaite nothing. Being the first to send a text message is hard smh.

I think fixed sign females, amd Aries are the best atbtaking intiative.

Well, what I notice with fixed is that they'll get the ball rolling....like flirt etc, but then its your turn to take action. Basically they'll show that you have the green light.

Aries are aggressive. Love how the women take charge.

Lucky if you'll find a Virgo with good fire or air placement not much of water as they would always play dead and would never do the initiative. Dated few Caps luckily with air or fire moons and its a sure hit! IMO

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Posted by Langvad
Thanks for all the replies guys and gals, cool to hear all ur experiences, definitely things to think about 🙂 For the Taurus part I don't think it is in my cards to land one of those. Would never say never but not on top of my list right now.

Its cool, I wasn't hittin' on you.

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Didn't think u were 🙂