I met this cap and have been seeing him for about 3 months. We have slept with each other it took me about 4 dates but it took me almost a month before I agreed to go on our first date. So i wouldnt say I rushed it and he said it just felt natural and its different because we talked for so long prior blah blah blah I'm not sure if he is being honest. Im a Sag but a pretty well organized, career driven and pretty successful Sag. I don't think I am a carefree as most Sags. plus my rising sun and mars are in Cap. Anyway he is very distant, i dont get him what so ever, I mean I get we are both busy but he make less effort than me, Im so used to being pursued and its vice versa here. I recently told him I liked him and didnt want to see anyone else and he said we were on the same page. I am pretty non-emotional but one us had to give in he then opened up about his ex and said he liked me and was excited to see where we go blah blah and then back into his shell he went, I'm so confused, I mean even while we sleep no hugs nada, but then he make jokes when I leave in the am without saying bye, he doesnt seem to care so I'm awkward and just leave rather get rejected. he sends me messages all day every day seeing how my day is, but we only see each other once a week, so weird yet he does other things and never invites me so i dont invite him because I dont want to come off clinggy, but when he is away with his fam he still txt me to say hi. Please help me fingure this guy out!!
