What's your type of Anger ?

This topic was created in the Astrology forum by itsnoteasybeingavirgo on Monday, June 11, 2012 and has 23 replies.

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@itsnoteasybeingavirgo
15 Years

Slow to anger or Short Fuse?
Furious outburst or Cold Shoulder?
Forgive easily or Hold grudges for long?
Anything else noteworthy?

Lets discuss what type of placement predict which type of anger....

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@DMV
15 Years25,000+ PostsSagittarius

im passive aggressive, followed by long delayed outburts. no lie, im still holding onto resentments from 10+ years ago. just waiting for the perfect moment to exert my revenge. when im mad, i pull back. way back, emotionally and financially. but i can still see you everyday. but access is gone.

silent treatment is my specialty. it is the ultimate trump card. the end to be all.

Sun Sag
Moon Scorp
Mars Virgo
Venus Cap

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@scorp1110
14 Years

Posted by DMV
im passive aggressive, followed by long delayed outburts. no lie, im still holding onto resentments from 10+ years ago. just waiting for the perfect moment to exert my revenge. when im mad, i pull back. way back, emotionally and financially. but i can still see you everyday. but access is gone.

silent treatment is my specialty. it is the ultimate trump card. the end to be all.

Sun Sag
Moon Scorp
Mars Virgo
Venus Cap

Sound somewhat like me!

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@DMV
15 Years25,000+ PostsSagittarius

for example,

there is this leo girl who used to mess with a scorpio who i am messing with. because she is sleeping with someone im sleeping with, i hate her with a passion obvi...so

the other day her house burned down and she didnt have renters insurance.

gotta say that i wasnt too shaken up about it. dare i say, i did a little jig

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@Scenic
14 Years5,000+ Posts

Short fuse, furious/sarcastic/sharp words, forgives easily unless angering me becomes a frequent thing. i'm stubborn with sticking to the attitudes I show you the most. So, if you see me angry a lot, be prepared for that to become permanent . I think that stubbornness is from my Taurus ascendant.
I get angry at really stupid things. If I were only angry at things that really deserved it, I'd never be angry.

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@lisabethur8
14 Years50,000+ Posts

Holding grudges only causes health problems and will effect the rest of your loved ones.

I honestly don't get angry often, i'm slow to it. However when I do, i start crying afterward. Cause' I can't control it and hold it in and after I get a good cry, I feel so much better.

But I do shake when I feel the rise of anger, the shakes come, and then the tears.

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@truecap
14 Years10,000+ Posts

Cap Sun
Aqua Mars
Cap Moon
Scorpio Rising/Venus

Usually cold shoulder or passive agreesive behaviour. Can hold a grudge for a long time. Can forgive, NEVER forget. Very controlled. Slow to show real anger, but when it blows, it really comes out! (then I feel like an ass because I didn't control it). I'm also a red head, so go figure.

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@enfant_terrible
17 Years10,000+ PostsLeo

When dealing with other people I'm incredibly good at keeping my lid on even when I've been wronged because it usually takes some time for me to realize I've been wronged and that I should have let it rip right then and there!

But when dealing with a situation that only concerns myself or someone close to me, I can be like an elephant in a porcelain shop.

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@BlueSandCacoon
14 Years1,000+ PostsAquarius

Mars in Capricorn conjunct Uranus and Neptune.

I'm very quick to anger, but i'm careful not to act on it. Sometimes i'm so angry that i feel like i can hold a grudge forever, but truth to be told it is very easy to get on my good side again. When i forgive, i forget. Also I'm prone to sudden outbursts of rage.

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@RamsesTheGreat
14 Years

I'm an Aries. When I'm angry, I explode. Nothing is held back (probably why I was fired from jobs more than once when I was younger).
I don't hold grudges. Once the anger is out, I cool off, and it's over.

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@CreepyPants
20 Years5,000+ Posts

Posted by Sutekh
holding grudges is a waste of time and energy.

Get mad quickly but don't stay mad..

Sutekh, I like that.

Unfortunately, I'm a short and long fuse, but fuses to hot explosives. I'm not cold. I'm indifferent or aggressively mad. And I wouldn't say my indifference is cold either... If I'm indifferent, I literally don't care to have a temperature on the matter.

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@virgodog58
14 Years1,000+ Posts

Scorpio is famous for bearing grudges but I think that Taurus, Cancer, Virgo and Capricorn do too. I sometimes do. I think I feel anger easily but don't think I show it often and it can build up (maybe this is a Mars in Taurus thing). Maybe people can feel it but I don't know.

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@sithae
13 Years

sun scorpio
moon capricorn
asc cancer
merc scorpio retrograde
....and mars in aquarius.

expect the unexpected basically 😛 im usually upset instead of angry, but once I get angry instead of mopy, anything can happen. Either way I remember every single thing anyone said to or about me that wasn't nice since I was a kid. I'm not a forgiving type, but usually like to tactfully ignore the past issue, and try not to bring out past hurts from the depths of the closet.

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@lblibra
14 YearsLibra

Posted by itsnoteasybeingavirgo
Slow to anger or Short Fuse?
Furious outburst or Cold Shoulder?
Forgive easily or Hold grudges for long?
Anything else noteworthy?

Lets discuss what type of placement predict which type of anger....

depends on ths situation usually i try to difuse it before i get angry
cold shoulder but again depends on who it is and what its about
i usually forgive quikly but if its someone who went out of there way to piss me off or hurt me or someone i love then forget it I hold onto that a long time

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@lnana04
15 Years5,000+ Posts

Im usually slow to anger for the most part.
Ill give the cold shoulder, and do the silent treatment thing if im pissed. If a person pushes, which sometimes happen, ill remove myself from the situation. If I dont want to go "there" with someone I simply wont. If I gotta get up and leave to avoid you pushing, I will. There are some people that become so curious by this behavior, they continue to push and eventually get popped.....well in my mind they do. Im not violent but all of that brushing off, silent treatment, walking away etc, does take a toll on me.

Ive never exploded on anyone before. Ill just get an extremely hot flash that lasts for a few seconds. Both good and bad thing, I guess.

Cap Sun
Leo Moon
Scorpio Venus
Libra Mars

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@ecent
14 Years

My anger is all about moods, I get irriated not angry. The more I hold things in the more I am piss,hurt, and frustrated about it. The quicker I let things go when I'm piss the less emotional I feel about it which would cause me to be a bitch when it comes back up again. The less emotional I am about something bad the more mean I am about the situation. Forexample a coworker came to me with some bullshit last yr that was some he say she say dum shit. When she came to me we got the shit straight and move on well a month later it came back up from the same bitch. This time it was a wrap I black out curse her ass out so fast then I was back to my self but felt like shit. Another sistuation with a friend ,she kept on bitching to me about some crasy shit I decide to not say anything cause I didn't want to be a bitch. The more I hold thing in the more I became piss and hurt. I learn to say what I need to say with a lot of sense and keep it moving don't hold that shit in or keep it with u its no good.

When I do get mad I black out, half of the time I can't remember what happen.sometimes I find myself so up set that i can't keep still and I want to fight. If I'm trying to cool down I would begin to shake i. I hate being mad cause I don't like how I feel its hard to cool the anger down.

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@Damnata
16 Years25,000+ PostsVirgo

I cannot hold grudges at all. I'm mostly frustrated than angered..and if I am angered, I usually let steam fast. I might say a thing or too but I'm done as soon as I unburden and I'll even feel sorry afterwards.

In the rare case I was hurt...I forgave the person but didn't forget the deed. Those people just..disappeared off my radar for ever. When I get to that point, I don't look back.

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@Sashimoon
13 YearsLibra

I don't get angry very easily but when I do....A very loud silent treatment. I'm not a shouter nor do I throw/damage things. I just shutdown and please, if you're the one who made me angry, follow my lead and just STFU.