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Just in case someone missed this on the Virgo board, here's a copy:

From: P-Angel
Date: 2/12/2007 5:44:05 PM
Subject: About Time!

I'm sure you're used to getting PM's from various people, for you talk about it alot (often) .. and it's about time, we spoke in private ..

Dyr .. I'm NOT unhappy at all in my marriage. In fact, after 24 years, it's still as hot and heavy as it's always been. Do you honestly think him, or me, would have been together for so long if we weren't happy? Ok, that's a stupid question because obviously you did with Libra, lol.

We've never talked about divorce and have no intentions of discussing anything that would take us away from each other. Actually, we are very close to each other .. talk on the phone every couple hours everyday he is at work, do everything together, even go to the grocery store together. I know it appears that I'm unhappy, but, I'm not ..

To me, this is fun as hell .. I know, bad trait to find pleasure in pissing people off .. but, to me, it's fun as hell. The reason I stay on the Virgo board is because in there I can throw butter around and nobody gets upset except maybe Q-bone and he just makes it funnier. So, shoot me ...

Just riddled with boredom sitting home all day while my peeps are at work .. certainly, I have friends (alot) in which I find endearment, and they make me feel sane when life is crazy and I need another woman to console me .. but, in here .. this isn't real to me.

This is fiction .. like writing a book .. these are just characters to direct for my entertainment. Does that make me bad? Ok !!!

Anyway, not that it's any of your business, unless I choose to make it so, and not that you care, but .. I'm a very happy woman who's married to the man of my dreams and whom I cherish dearly.

Hi, this is from you Pangle? Were you telling the people on the virgo board you weren't happy in your marriage but you are? im not understanding

yeah, i'm confused myself?

Ok, let me explain ..

I am happy and unhappy, depending on my mood. You know, a person loves and hates different qualities or deeds or habits in their partner, all depending on how they feel at the time, or what the other person did to irritate you .. that said .. for several years, I've been posting on here .. sometimes, what I say about Virgo's are wonderful qualities, some are horrible ones .. people vent, as well as they praise.

Well, Dyr was pissing the crap out of me, so, in my bad, I launched a thread which painted him out being false .. according to my perspective, of course. The thread lasted several days and for those days, he got angrier and angrier because the way in which it was worded would suggest to readers that there was an underlying reality, such one reality would be something to the effect of ..

Isn't it curious how every woman who comes in here says nearly the same thing about their VirGuys .. and ONLY Dyr is different from the rest. Isn't that odd?

By doing that, I was really just implying, without really stating outright that his assessment into the Virgo nature, may only be from his own perception of himself, and not reality, as it's percieved from the partner of a Virgo.
So, also, in my bad, as the days wanned and he got angrier at my implications .. I planted a PM to him (I had co-conspirators, but, even hungry alligators won't make me say) .. I knew, since he was completely irritated with me and wanted to throttle the living crap out of me, that if I sent this message to him .. he would think he had some kind of evidence to betray a rat.

However, what he accomplished is pointing out what everybody else already knows .. I have mood swings, so there's no telling what I might be feeling at a given time .. but, more importantly, he publicized a private message (which was the aim on my part - I WANTED him to post it, that's why I have no shame, for everybody who was around when this happened, knows I did this on purpose, so there's nothing to fear).

Betraying confidentiality is probably one of the biggest injustices one could do to another .. I wanted people to see the real him. My bad, I know and I take responsibility for scamming him, and playing
Now, everytime I piss him off, which is quite regular since on any given day, I might be pissed off at my husband's Virgoess .. Dyr will post this again, thinking he's using some kind of weapon to flush out a dirty lying rat .. and the truth is, it was a set-up.

Booooooo@attention whore

So, since he thinks he's this clever detective and in his complete unawareness of how he did the ultimate betrayal of disclosing personal information .. I decided it was time he comprehended ..

I don't CARE who knows about this because the people who were around when it happened knew it was a set-up and they know me well enough, after all this time, to know that I can be a raving bitch or a cuddly cry-baby, or anywhere inbetween .. depending on my mood swings.

He always tries to use this as a weapon and I just decided to show him by posting it here .. that it isn't a weapon that hurts me.

Virgo's are slow .. judging, of course, from my 25 year experience being married to one.

Actually, the marriage will hit the official 25 year mark in September, so really it's only 24.

All the time, Yama .. people completely ignore the subject of the topic and shoot straight for me because I don't fear the truth. Most people don't want the truth, ignore the truth, defy the truth .. I say it.

People don't like that .. and so, straight for me they come.

I forget that there's new people in here who weren't witnesses to the events that led up .. so let me add .. he was NOT an innocent victim in which I targeted for no valid reason.

The first time he called me a C_ _ _ _ , I laughed, thinking it was a joke and even made a comment to suggest that I took it in jest. Then later, I came back and told him not to call me that again, that I thought it was out of line.

So, this ticked him off and he called me the "C" word again. I told him something to the effect of, don't remember exact words, "I'm warning you, Dyr, don't call me that."

He did it again .. the thread was then launched by me on the Virgo board to discredit his credibility.

He called me a "C" again .. this time in a rage. I told him again, something to the effect of, "This will be your last warning. Call me that again, and you'll pay." Of course, my words were filled with cursing because I was livid.

Guess what? That's right .. in his stupidity, he did it again.

The PM was planted to fulfill my proclamation that he wasn't going to get away with fucking with me.

Anyway, after reading what I wrote, I realized that it sounded like I just targeted him to screw him over for no reason and that simply isn't the case. I'd be a liar if I said that I've never done that to a person before, however, this wasn't the case.

People can take whatever position they feel is appropriate for them, however, rest assured .. I felt justified in making that stand and I would do it again, with no remorse whatsoever.

Good Night and I hope all this made it clear, so there was no confusion about this thread. 🙂

Why is this coming up again...did I miss a new battle?

many people throw PM's out in public, when they feel the 'need',which is why you keep things to a minimum.

Yes, M .. I know AGAIN.

Dyr posted it again, with intentions of trying to embarrass me, I guess. I don't know .. anyway, I put it up here, so maybe he'll get the message that this isn't hurting me in any way.

Sorry that your eyes had to read this again 🙂

P Angel: Virgo's are slow .. judging, of course, from my 25 year experience being married to one

Are you sure about that?....it has been 25 years on BOTH your ends right? lol Instead of slow, how about stubborn, and dogmatic....yes it's true that an sun will explode/be born more frequently than we change our minds about things, but I wouldn't say slow....My exchages with you from the beginning we're anything but slow....guess you got a dud? lol I'm trying to cheer you up, P....

Wow all of this sounds like a long drawn out drama. PAngle what is your sign? Well hun, after being with a Virgo for 10 years I DEFINITELY understand the up and down frustration and all...

"how can you accurately feel anything when you don't FEEL?, you THINK too much......just feel.'


VE, if I remember correctly, this was your quote referencing a conversation with your father .. however, your motivation in posting it on the Virgo board was prompted by Dyr and Q dronning on. It was recognized by you, and has been with Branh at a different time, that Virgo's are much like people claim them to be .. which is they don't "feel".

They ARE slow to FEEL .. and feeling is what it takes to make a change. If it's thought to DEATH, then death comes and it's still thought without any feelings of passion, which is what is needed to make a change.

So, the most accurate thing wouldn't be to assess that I have a dud, since he is like the rest, rather .. you are an exception. 🙂

"It was recognized by you, and has been with Branh at a different time,"


I meant to say that you have recognized this in Branh too .. NOT that he has recognized it, for he is very much like the rest in not feeling.

"PAngle what is your sign? Well hun, after being with a Virgo for 10 years I DEFINITELY understand the up and down frustration and all..."

Thanks, I'm a Pisces .. and yes, it is a drama .. a continueing one, still going on today, apparantly.

I don't know about your Virgo .. but, the ones in here (not VE), love Drama, though they claim not to. Mine doesn't it. He has the maturity to either walk away without taking offense, or changing the mood to a more civil atmosphere. In fact, it's mostly changing the mood. If someone was getting under his skin (like me, for example), he would just smile and suggest going to do a photo shoot, which I love.

How about yours?