heonylove
@heonylove
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How to make A Cancer man communicate with me?
LOL yeah you over thinking this situation a lot. I know you probably felt hurt & lashed out him because of his harsh jokes. But, at least you did the right thing by apologising to him & you gave him 5 days plus more to respond back. I think you don't enough already. If he keeps ignoring you & he doesn't apologize, you may have to move on. You two aren't bf & gf, so don't force him to do anything. His actions will show how he really feels about you. So if he won't return your messages or even try, let him fly away. As Cancer Man myself if i get hurt, i usually need a few hours by myself. But since you apologize, it shouldn't have taken him that long to came out of his shell. So let him fly away & find someone who stick by you ok 🙂
Thank you so much, 2BlackIndian3. I feel much better now. 🙂 It's still shocking though. We were bf & gf even though it was a very short time. I'll just think he wants to break up with me and move on. I think that's healthier 😢
Posted by heonylove
Maybe I'm thinking too much and shouldn't waste my time.
You're not thinking too much - you are feeling too much.
Not every man who notices you, is suppose to be a partner ... you have been wasting your time the entire time you mislabeled a temporary person for a permanent person.
Had you just gone with the flow and let life live naturally, to whatever end .... then none of your time would have been wasted.
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I'm maybe too serious. Maybe that's my problem for this? I have found great responses from this website. Please give me any advice. Maybe I'm thinking too much and shouldn't waste my time. I just want to be sincere to my commitment whether it was short or long.