What is wrong with my libra friend—

I went out to dinner with her and her cancer bf (they have been together for 4 years). They were arguing because she told him that he had enough wine. The entree's hadn't been served yet. He told her that she is always arguing in public, then she says well you never want to eat at these places so you need to watch how much you running up the check. That wasn't the end of it. They argued at the dinner table the entire time. She told him to stop eating all the bread sticks because she wanted to get her money's worth because he sure in hell wasnt going to pay for extra. I told her, the bread sticks are complimentary and limitless. Trying to give her a hint that I am uncomfortable. So the checks come, I paid mine. I am ready to leave, I got my dessert to go. Because I am so embarrassed.

Then, they started arguing over the tip and how much each other should pay. WTH! He paid for the dinner and he asked her to go half on the tip. She (Libra) wants to leave $ 2 for a $ 45.00 dinner. I was like what! So I left the waitress a generous tip on my card ( my dinner was $ 15) and I left.

Thats not the end. I stop by the store to get some ice cream and cash for the paper man tomorrow. Who do I find in the store yelling at her cancer man. Telling everyone that he is a bad lover ("he only last 8 minutes"), he is not a real man, etc etc. I did a u turn and left.

I should have stayed at home and stuff my face with pizza and mozzarella sticks! And watched the damn game.

My friend has always been classy. Not this bitchy tyrant making embarassing public displays like this.

This relationship is way past its expiration date. Their behavior sounds like a mountain of issues that have been piling up for a while coming out now.

Posted by aquarius09
This relationship is way past its expiration date. Their behavior sounds like a mountain of issues that have been piling up for a while coming out now.

+1

Especially if you said she's not normally like that.

Posted by aquarius09
This relationship is way past its expiration date. Their behavior sounds like a mountain of issues that have been piling up for a while coming out now.

Oh yes, coming out with vengeance!

Posted by aquarius09
This relationship is way past its expiration date.

Totally.

Posted by chemengin

Posted by aquarius09
This relationship is way past its expiration date. Their behavior sounds like a mountain of issues that have been piling up for a while coming out now.

Oh yes, coming out with vengeance!

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That's usually what happens in a cancer/libra relationship. Both parties are harmonious, peace loving and absolutely hate confrontation. In order to keep the peace, both parties keep sliding any issue that emerges under the rug. As the mountain of issues grow so does the resentment within their hearts. Now the mountain is too big for them to sit and tackle.

Libras almost never behave as rudely as your gf is behaving right now and cancers are not like that either. So, the relevant question is what's keeping them together? The infamous fear of being alone. Good luck to them. Let's see who cheats on who first, if that already hasn't happened.

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Posted by chemengin

Posted by aquarius09
This relationship is way past its expiration date. Their behavior sounds like a mountain of issues that have been piling up for a while coming out now.

Oh yes, coming out with vengeance!

That's usually what happens in a cancer/libra relationship. Both parties are harmonious, peace loving and absolutely hate confrontation. In order to keep the peace, both parties keep sliding any issue that emerges under the rug. As the mountain of issues grow so does the resentment within their hearts. Now the mountain is too big for them to sit and tackle.

Libras almost never behave as rudely as your gf is behaving right now and cancers are not like that either. So, the relevant question is what's keeping them together? The infamous fear of being alone. Good luck to them. Let's see who cheats on who first, if that already hasn't happened.

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Pfft, I know of one like that. She's total white trash status though. Screams and yells at her kids in public, swears at them, etc.

Actually, she came to mind when I read this, haha.

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Posted by aquarius09
This relationship is way past its expiration date. Their behavior sounds like a mountain of issues that have been piling up for a while coming out now.

Oh yes, coming out with vengeance!

That's usually what happens in a cancer/libra relationship. Both parties are harmonious, peace loving and absolutely hate confrontation. In order to keep the peace, both parties keep sliding any issue that emerges under the rug. As the mountain of issues grow so does the resentment within their hearts. Now the mountain is too big for them to sit and tackle.

Libras almost never behave as rudely as your gf is behaving right now and cancers are not like that either. So, the relevant question is what's keeping them together? The infamous fear of being alone. Good luck to them. Let's see who cheats on who first, if that already hasn't happened.

Pfft, I know of one like that. She's total white trash status though. Screams and yells at her kids in public, swears at them, etc.

Actually, she came to mind when I read this, haha.

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LOL! I'm just shocked because I've never seen a libra like that!!

Maybe you should suggest that she deserves to be happy and it doesn't matter how long two people have been together if they aren't happy anymore. There is someone out there that will treat her like she wants and will make her happier than she has been. #suggestion

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Posted by chemengin

Posted by aquarius09
This relationship is way past its expiration date. Their behavior sounds like a mountain of issues that have been piling up for a while coming out now.

Oh yes, coming out with vengeance!

That's usually what happens in a cancer/libra relationship. Both parties are harmonious, peace loving and absolutely hate confrontation. In order to keep the peace, both parties keep sliding any issue that emerges under the rug. As the mountain of issues grow so does the resentment within their hearts. Now the mountain is too big for them to sit and tackle.

Libras almost never behave as rudely as your gf is behaving right now and cancers are not like that either. So, the relevant question is what's keeping them together? The infamous fear of being alone. Good luck to them. Let's see who cheats on who first, if that already hasn't happened.

Pfft, I know of one like that. She's total white trash status though. Screams and yells at her kids in public, swears at them, etc.

Actually, she came to mind when I read this, haha.

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my other libra friend is like this ^^^^its like night and day between the two of them. The only difference is one is born in September the other is born in October. She treats her man like butter, but I think he like it because they are always making out. She cusses people out at the grocery store for not bagging her stuff properly.

oops bagging her stuff improperly

Posted by Denver34
that is insane for a libra....they never act out in public...what's the rest of her chart like?

no idea and right now, i dont think it would be a good idea to ask for the proper information to get her chart. all I know is, her birthday is September 29, 1977.

Which one is the Sept Libra?

Posted by rockyroadicecream
Which one is the Sept Libra?

the classy lady.
the hood rats birthday is October 1 I forgot what year she was born.

yea thats her birthday. I dont know her time of birth to get a more accurate reading. But thanks for taking the time to find a chart for her since it was so important to you to figure out why a libra is acting like a total bitch.
Typical Aries behavior.

Posted by chemengin

Posted by rockyroadicecream
Which one is the Sept Libra?

the classy lady.
the hood rats birthday is October 1 I forgot what year she was born.

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Really? All the nutty ones I know are Sept.

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Posted by chemengin
yea thats her birthday. I dont know her time of birth to get a more accurate reading. But thanks for taking the time to find a chart for her since it was so important to you to figure out why a libra is acting like a total bitch.
Typical Aries behavior.

Um....uh....wow this is amazing.....THIS IS WHAT ASTROLOGY IS, YOU FVKIN DOWN SYNDROME TWAAT!!!!

Um...in case you didnt know, astrology is the art of attributing behavior to the stars.

Time to wake up, monkey face.

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whoo you are crazy! and getting way to upset over this astrology shit. but thats an aries males for you. they always over react to the simplest shit. Now that I mention it, I havent fucked with my Aries coworker today. I have to do that its funny seeing him blow his top.....on to lunch fun. 😄

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Posted by rockyroadicecream
Which one is the Sept Libra?

the classy lady.
the hood rats birthday is October 1 I forgot what year she was born.

Really? All the nutty ones I know are Sept.

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Well rocky I agree with that. Thats why I was surprised. Because she was the first Sept. one that was calm and classy. My room mate in college, my cousin, and my aunt all Sept. Libras and they are nuts.

oh and when you said Libra's will set your shit on fire. I laughed because my college room mate did that to her cheating virgo's clothes. He was so vain so she decided to stick it where it would hurt him the most. She is a ChemEngin too. 🙂

I miss her, we used to do all kinds of chem stuff in our dorm room. 😈 it was great.

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Posted by rockyroadicecream
Which one is the Sept Libra?

the classy lady.
the hood rats birthday is October 1 I forgot what year she was born.

Really? All the nutty ones I know are Sept.

Well rocky I agree with that. Thats why I was surprised. Because she was the first Sept. one that was calm and classy. My room mate in college, my cousin, and my aunt all Sept. Libras and they are nuts.

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Maybe the crazy is there, and she knows how to control it, haha.

That, and the guy may be bringing out the worst in her. When you're in any situation where someone brings out the worst in you, it's time to go.

omg. I'm mortified for/by these trailer park Libras.

I could never even dream of causing a scene in public like that. Even my psychopath bad temper mother never caused a scene in public...she'd just whisper me a threat in her first language if I was misbehaving in a store or something.

But yea, honeymoon stage is long over for this couple, and their reality together is not a good one. They have overstayed each other's welcome.

Honestly if someone ever yelled at me in public, I'd get up and leave right then and there.

Posted by chemengin
oh and when you said Libra's will set your shit on fire. I laughed because my college room mate did that to her cheating virgo's clothes. He was so vain so she decided to stick it where it would hurt him the most. She is a ChemEngin too. 🙂

Haha, I wasn't even serious when I posted that. There are some threads here, that when I'm posting one liners, I'm not even being serious about what I'm saying- just posting the first thing that came to mind when I read whatever it was, haha.