Inconjunct compatibilty

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I really hate making generalizations but this one, I just can't help but share with you... Is it just me or do inconjunct relationships seem to be the longest, strongest, happiest, and most understanding relationships out of all the other options?

A lot of my family members who are inconjunct relationships seem to be the happiest.

I see a lot of Aries and Virgo, cancer and aquarius, Virgo and aquarius, Scorpio and Gemini, Capricorn and Leo, Pisces and libra, and Taurus and Sagittarius withstanding life obstacles and remaining in happy/loving unions.

Of course this doesn't apply to everyone but I am speaking in terms of majority.

Anyone else notice this pattern?
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I know a Pisces-Libra pair which is divorced now. After 5 years. Another one is in its 5th year. I'm a Sag and had a Taurus bf which was the best case from the start. But we did last only 1-2 years.

I know of an old Gem-Scorp couple. But I met the Gem wife when she had depression for whatever reason.

I can understand why it could work well. Because you make no assumptions about the partner until you get to know them through years. In other cases (sextile, trine, conjunction, opposition, neighbour signs) you think you know them from start. Your mind is at error.
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Posted by tiziani
I'm always going to love Pisces women. I don't know how anyone couldn't. Well actually I know a whole list of very valid reasons why they wouldn't but sweeping things under the carpet is one of the best things about being with a Pisces.


As for Taurus I never had any idea where things began or end with them. But my parents were Libra (man) and Taurus (woman) so that's something. They were very much tied together on many levels, incredibly brave couple that took many risks. Unsurprisingly, their stability as a couple and a family unit suffered because of it. But I don't think they would have chosen to do anything differently so you have to say fair play to them.

are they still together?
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Posted by tiziani
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aww im sorry to hear that 😢 how long were they together for? who was the one who filled for divorce?
if my questions make you feel uncomfortable, you dont have to answer them. just curious from an astrological stand point
that's all right, I'd be happy to talk about them except the only problem is - when it comes to their story - it's one of those life is stranger than fiction things. It'd be more believable for me to lie than talk about what actually happened lol

The real story is they were married for over 20 years. When they first met he was married to someone else. Just because he was a young Libra, orphan, survived and made it in the city. Happy to be alive. So typical Libra, let's celebrate by getting married because well.... it's just seems like the thing to do.

But then he met my mother and the whole game changed. At first they were casual but her stay (as a flight attendant) came to an end, and she more or less told him it's me and you or I'm done with this. She left back home. And he pursued her. He had to work his way onto the first ship from Southampton back to the Caribbean and the ship gets flooded and abandoned three quarters of the way through the trip. To make it even harder, because her family knew he was married when he met her they didn't want to have anything to do with him. So he convinced her to get married on a beach alone together behind everyone's back. They moved back to the UK and the rest is history.

She is a Pisces Moon so double inconjunct aspect to his sun. Doubly game for doing taking weird risks.
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UGH, so cute and romantic *heart eyes emoji*!!!

but who was the one who filled for divorce?
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Posted by VenusAquarius
I'm an Aries with a Virgo for about 20 years.

I have two younger Virgo brothers: one is married to an Aries for about ten years; the other is with a Sagittarius for about 5 years.
omg yay!!!! i love virgo and aries together, my cousin is an aries and married a virgo woman, they are pretty happy together. was it difficult or mostly smooth sailing? 🙂
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My father and mother are virgo and aries, respectivelly.
She takes care of him and the house while he criticizes her and screams his macho patriarchal stupidity every day.

I can't really see how they're still together, after more than 20 years of constantly fighting.

As irresistibly attracted to virgo placements as I am, I don't think this match can last more than five or ten years before turning bitter.
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Posted by Undine
Posted by mysteriousTaurus
i see cancer and aquarius, virgo and aquarius, and aries and virgo the most, all in long term relationships and still very happy after being together for 10+ years.
I know Cancer-Aqua and Virgo-Aqua couples. They lasted for about a decade, divorced now.
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i dont know any inconjunct that has broken up.

i only know trines, like my cappy mother in law and virgo father in law that didnt last.

and a couple in my family's relatives, who are trine water suns, trine earth suns that didnt last either. true story.

i guess it just depends on the individual(s)