Just Realized..

I dont think I could ever get in a serious relationship with an earth sign again.

I just dont feel slightly introverted and completely introverted could work. I find earth signs to be way too passive for me.

Most of the time I have to initiate everything from physical contact, to conversation. And its really tiring. Having Sag in moon and mars in my chart, I thrive off of rapport.

Rapport to me, is not being the royal court jester to a female darth vader. Its more like Lois and Clark in Smallville.

I dont mind being dominating but I like women to take intiative as well. Im not into the whole ambiguity ala aloofness thing earth signs specialize in.

Maybe its because of all the fire I've got or just the way my parents raised me, but I want no BS directness.

Dont get me wrong female earth signs, we can still be friends with benefits, just nothing more. For relationships Alex, I'll take a Leo please. Unless she has a earth moon 😉

lol @ female darth vader

All right, all right lets pour water on the bonfires. This post was my way of venting cause of being head gamed by a taurus girl.

This girl lived in a apartment complex across from mine. I used to see her walk her dog all the time. I was attracted to her but real initimidated to approach just because she was really attractive.

Anyway, a few weeks ago, I'm out with two married friends of mine for dinner at a korean restaurant. And who do I see later take up the hostess stand in the restaurant? The girl from the complex. My friends noticed me looking at her.

Asked me what was going on. I gave them the background on the situation. They did everything but bully me to say hello. I go up and talk to her. She recognizes me. We talk for a few minutes. I cut the conversation short as I didnt want to get her in trouble with the manager.

A couple of weeks later, I go into a bar to wait for my bartender buddy to get off work. And when I walk in there she is sitting down. She immediately greets me. We talk for a while. During our conversation she constantly touching me on the shoulders, legs, whatnot. Also a lot of compliments thrown my way. As she pulls out her wallet to show the picture of her new dog, the driver's license is right there.

So I saw her birthdate and that's how I know she is a taurus. We talk for a while longer. Turns out she is fixing to go to her other job as a bartender. She bartends on weekends. I ask for her email. She gives me hers and then asks for mine.

Now let me preface this by saying anyone whoever gets someone's email or name googles or myspaces them. If they say they dont, that's some lying motherf---ers right there. Well I looked her up on myspace and found her page.

And what do I see in her profile but the ever classic "In A Relationship" Normally I would give this the benefit of the doubt as myspace is becoming outdated. But there was a recent login.

So I was pissed off. Dont get me wrong, I understand the whole being friendly and social thing girls do. However at some point when you talk to them most directly or indirectly mention they've got a boyfriend. So you understand that they only see you as a potential new friend. Well she didnt. I could've made myself look like a jerk if I sent her a real flirty message. Since she failed to tell me. Finished next post...

I sent her a email just to keep my word. Never heard back, and its been three weeks now. BTW I normally would have been really pissed off and confused if I didnt know about the boyfriend.

Cause to me if a girl was blowing you off, she just gives you her email and doesnt ask for yours. Bottom line, though I know why she didnt write back. I just rather she never wasted my time.

Machiavelli, I offended you and my apologies. Here's my definition of passive. Now all girls are passive aggressive, but depends on what degree they are. Every experience I've had with a earth sign has always been some very hard core passive aggressive bullsh-t

Like my ex virgo roommate who never once brought to my attention, the messiness. I was going through a very traumatic experience and he knew that. I had been in a dark depression just going to work and home, totally oblivious to anything else. Now that is no excuse, but he wanted me out.
But he never once addressed that issue with me. If he had and I didnt correct the behavior, I'd understand. Anyways, I started paying attention and cleaning up better after myself. He changed his mind about kicking me out. Although when his lease came up for renewal, I opted not to stay with him.

Then my cap ex who acted like I was wrong for being mad when she didnt talk to me for two weeks. Leaving me wondering what went wrong. Or my personal favorite, the virgo girl who flaked twice on me for a date.

We had a date set up, I showed she never did. After waiting an hour and a half, I left her a vm saying I was leaving. The next day she calls saying she had been drinking at a female friends and got drunk. Then totally forgot. I said fine, rescheduled for another date. Made the joke about coffee's on her. I go up to the coffee house wait an hour for her. She's a noshow. I immediately deleted the number out of my phone. Ironically enough 4 months later I see her go into a grocery store with what looked like a boyfriend as I'm going out. When she see me, you can see the panic. But I just gave her a f--koff look and went on my business.

Look, I've just had some really rotten experiences with earth signs. We're just different people. I'm direct and upfront about things, while they just happened to be two-faced and shady. Some earth signs arent like that, but that is pretty much who I attract. Oh and the darth vader comparison was based on a female taurus co-worker. one more post...

She was new to town and didnt have any friends. She wanted to be friends with me. Which is fine. Except, everytime we hung out at lunch, I was always the one carrying the conversation.

Now I understand being shy, but if Im going out of my way to make you feel comfortable, then be social. The other thing was she would debate every little thing I talked about. She loved to argue about the stupidest crap.

It got to the point where i avoided her as much as possible. She finally got the point and left me alone after a couple of months.

I realize my sign aint no angel either. I've had a recent crappy experience with a scorpio girl. I put it out there from the get-go there was no ulterior booty call motive, just wanted her as a friend. Dont get me wrong , she's attractive but she smokes. Unless you look like Elizabeth Hurley, I find girls who smoke to be a huge turnoff.

I thought we had a good friendship going. But she hasnt called, emailed, or texted in three months. I realize people have other friends and have busy lives. But three months is bullsh-t. All it takes is one call, text or email. I'm a very low maintence friend.

I just have no place in my life for people that cant be straight up or real with me. I'm done with my venting. Time now for some rum and blow. *Starts folding 20 dollar bill up*

hey, i have an earth moon and i'm pretty outgoing! i think u'd see more of my leo traits with my aqua rising playing an important role! i'm all about being assertive and forthright.

FB I'm gonna be straight with ya. This isn't a sign thing. It's a chick thing. I was talking to my buddy about this not long ago. There was a Scorp girl at work basically dry humping him in his office and turns out she is married. He was pissed!! He wrote me and asked me why she'd do something like this.

It all boils down to females (especially nowadays) are attention whores. Yeah, I'm a female but I'm pretty crititcal of my own sex. 😛
You act even the slightest bit interested in a woman and suddenly she forgets she's married/in a relationship. Why? Because it's all about HER and maybe getting an ego boost from where ever she can get it and now matter how many people she steps on to make herself feel good. It's sad.
Usually how it happens is the guy (you) express interest. She takes it for all it's worth (nevermind YOU and your feelings) and when she thinks she has you or has had her ego fluffed enough to satisfy you *GASP* She can't BELIEVE you didn't KNOW she only wanted to be friends!!! She's TAKEN. You read the signals wrong!!! Oh poor me how did this misunderstanding ever happen?!?! It must be because she's so desperately HOT and you couldn't THINK around her *fans herself Scarlett O'Hara style * ........................... snort. It's Bullshit.

I know how harsh I sound about women but there are women like that and sadly those types are more abundant then a "normal" girl. I'm sure it's frustrating for you. I know you seem to get blindsided by it but I say keep the faith and keep trying. There are woman out there that don't act like that.

Sometimes I wonder if women manipulate to compensate for being the "weaker" sex. Since the beggining of time we that was the way we survived man and his "physical superiority". But now we've taken a tool that was used to survive for use of personal gain and ego. 😛

I was just thinking out loud I guess but I was discussing this with my buddy at length. I got a little fired up from his story. 😛 Whoops. 🙂