Need help taurus broke up with me

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tomcancer
@tomcancer
16 Years

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lately my gf broke up with me a couple days ago and told me she wanted someone mature and still wanted to be friends, I of course approached this thinking but hesitantly said yes. A day after breaking up she contacted me with a smiley face wanting to hang. I said I couldn't then I told her a day after that Being friends would only complicate things And that I wanted her as a gf not a friend and i wish the best for her. she said "fine." I have not heard anything else, And I am trying to hold back from texting. I don't know where to go from this but I need some Taurus Woman help please I am a cancer.
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cappysweetie
@cappysweetie
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Hi tomcancer ....

In my opinion, its too soon to be friends. Being friends right after a break-up is hard on people. Recently, I had to learn this from an Ex of mine -- I wanted to be friends after the breakup but things didn't turn out that way. Now that I've reflected on the situation, I understand. I guess I assumed that since we were only together for a few monthes it wouldn't be that hard to be friends again because we started out that way. I've learned that you can't control how someone feels.

Yes, it was way too soon to be friends with her and if she didn't understand that, than let her be. Try your best to move on, if she tries to worm her way back into her left, don't let her.'