Really lost leo woman!! ??

Hey guys!

Leo girl here. I was never really into astrology before meeting this aquarius, who is everything that his sign says he is. I have a big communication problem with him. Our story starts 4 years ago. I was 18 he was 22. We started talking once in a while, then every day, and finally saw each other. I was head over heels for him. Him, on the other hand seemed more detached and distant. Disapearing and reappearing days later. One day, he told me to forget about him, since he was moving in another state to work. He told me he didnt want me to get attached to him, only to get hurt when he leaves. But then a couple days later he comes back around asking me to wait for him and not see anyone else, and that he would do the same. I agreed. We kept contact until he left. But when he was away, No texts, no calls, no contact for more than 2 months.

I started dating this sag guy who was the complete opposite of him. Perfect. He was the one to make our relatinship official by posting pictures of us on social media. Aquarius saw that, and texts me the same day saying "i thought we agreed on not seeing anybody else". I said he has no right to tell me that after ignoring me for two months! He said "You're right. What if i make an effort to talk to you on a daily basis, would you leave him for me?" I said it's too late now. He deleted me off everything, and we stopped all contact with each other.

4 years later, I just broke up with my sag. It was a beautiful relationship with someone i'll respect for the rest of my life. Aquarius adds me on social media again, but still no talking. Then on a random night, he texts me: "Hey. I know you must think it's really wierd of me to come talk to you after all this time, but I was wondering if you wanted to meet up for a coffee." I agreed. And this time, I was the more detached one. I guess I didn't want to do the same mistake and run after him again. He would be the one to text me,he would want to see me nearly every day. Me, on the other hand, didn't want to go theough another heartbreak, so I kept my distances.

One night, we talk and laugh just like we always do, like best friends. He pauses for a minute, looks at me, and leans in for a kiss. I freaked out. I hadnt been with anybody since my ex,and I had never kissed him. So i pushed him away. He asked what was wrong, and I froze. I told him nothing, but it's getting late so I want to go home. He was really taken aback. And I really wanted to tell him something, but I lost control, was blushing like crazy and i went back home i had forgot my shopping bag in his car!

He texts me later telling me : Hey. I think i should take a little distance next time I see you. I don't want to make you feel unconfortable. I answered him that I freaked out because I havent kissed anyone since my last boyfriend. Then I said : maybe it's because we know each other for so long? He's like "I know exactly how you feel..that's why I'm saying this". I asked if he means to tell me he doesnt want to see me anymore. He answered "No! Not at all, in fact I like spending time with you. I just mean I'll back off a little..maybe wére better off friends, don't you think?" My pride got me to answer him "maybe you're right.." But he kept on insisting like "but what do you think about it??" I said maybe it's really because we've been "friends" for so long, and it feels wierd to take that next step"

So i guess that meant that we would stay as friends, and i started regretting. The very next day I asked him to go for a coffee. He agreed but canceled on me the next hour, saying he's really tired and works in the morning. Since then, nothing. Almost a week, and he took his distance right away.

What should i do? I know aquarius like their space so I don't want to keep on texting him and smother him! Do i leave him be or should i move on, like last time and forget about him?

I don't understand it when people say "he added me on social media".

In order for someone to 'friend' you they send a request that YOU accept.

Just had this conversation the other day and she used this same phrase, "well HE added me on fb". Naw you added him by accepting his request. Don't push the blame and play victim.

*end of rant

As far as your saga Op, coffee says friendship...dinner says romance.

We did both. It's not like we weren't seeing each other. We go to the movies, went to diner, played bowling..

And btw, english is not my first language, so i may have made some mistakes here and there. As long as people can understand what I'm saying!

Posted by dolluxe
Move on. He's playing mind games.

He has been in the past, but I feel like right now, he's just trying to get over his bruised ego from our last encounter.