Did he lose interest already?

This topic was created in the Cancer forum by ni1992 on Sunday, August 7, 2016 and has 19 replies.

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@ni1992
10 Years

Hello i'm a leo female and he is a cancer male we are both architects and thats how we've known eachothers .. We kept talking for a while texts and phone amd we both are liking eachothers a lot and we both made ot obvious to each others and because we both were busy we didnt really go out till after 3 weeks or so .. And during that dinnerthe first thing he said was you're beautiful. And the kept saying he is enjoying his time and he hadnt go out with someone and enjoying his time like he was doing with me .. But after that date he never texted me or talked to me or anything .. I tried to say hi once and ask him about what he was doing he said in doing fine and i have a meeting in another city ghat was 1 hr far from here .. And that was it. I felt like he completely lost interest i dont know is it that he doesnt like me or he saw something from he he dislikes i cant really know and i refuse to ask him i dont wanna show that im so into him u know ... But i wanna know what is this i mean i really really like him !.

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Posted by ni1992
Hello i'm a leo female and he is a cancer male we are both architects and thats how we've known eachothers .. We kept talking for a while texts and phone amd we both are liking eachothers a lot and we both made ot obvious to each others and because we both were busy we didnt really go out till after 3 weeks or so .. And during that dinnerthe first thing he said was you're beautiful. And the kept saying he is enjoying his time and he hadnt go out with someone and enjoying his time like he was doing with me .. But after that date he never texted me or talked to me or anything .. I tried to say hi once and ask him about what he was doing he said in doing fine and i have a meeting in another city ghat was 1 hr far from here .. And that was it. I felt like he completely lost interest i dont know is it that he doesnt like me or he saw something from he he dislikes i cant really know and i refuse to ask him i dont wanna show that im so into him u know ... But i wanna know what is this i mean i really really like him !.

I'm not really sure either! Ask him out on another date and see what he says.

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@Helye
10 Years

Don't do it. Leo girls can't handle Cancer men. Only Scorpio woman can find a way to deal with the idiotic mess that is a Cancer guy mind.

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@Pearls
11 Years

Posted by Helye
Don't do it. Leo girls can't handle Cancer men. Only Scorpio woman can find a way to deal with the idiotic mess that is a Cancer guy mind.

No they can't. They are forever a Cancer man's bottom bitches I swear.

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@Pearls
11 Years

Posted by ni1992
Hello i'm a leo female and he is a cancer male we are both architects and thats how we've known eachothers .. We kept talking for a while texts and phone amd we both are liking eachothers a lot and we both made ot obvious to each others and because we both were busy we didnt really go out till after 3 weeks or so .. And during that dinnerthe first thing he said was you're beautiful. And the kept saying he is enjoying his time and he hadnt go out with someone and enjoying his time like he was doing with me .. But after that date he never texted me or talked to me or anything .. I tried to say hi once and ask him about what he was doing he said in doing fine and i have a meeting in another city ghat was 1 hr far from here .. And that was it. I felt like he completely lost interest i dont know is it that he doesnt like me or he saw something from he he dislikes i cant really know and i refuse to ask him i dont wanna show that im so into him u know ... But i wanna know what is this i mean i really really like him !.

He doesn't seem crazy about you I can agree with you on that.

You're too busy trying to have the upperhand & hold "power" (btw we're not into that at. all.)

than trying to be honest even with slight restraint. Sooo you win!

You have the upperhand. Your ego, pride, and all that is intact lovely leo lady.

What do you want?

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@Helye
10 Years

Posted by Poppyseeds

Posted by Helye
Don't do it. Leo girls can't handle Cancer men. Only Scorpio woman can find a way to deal with the idiotic mess that is a Cancer guy mind.

What does a Scorpio woman have that a Leo woman doens't?

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The insanity to deal with a cancer guy. —?

No amount of tasty crab meat is worth the shit yoi have to do to get it.

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@Poppyseeds
10 Years500+ Posts

Posted by Helye

Posted by Poppyseeds

Posted by Helye
Don't do it. Leo girls can't handle Cancer men. Only Scorpio woman can find a way to deal with the idiotic mess that is a Cancer guy mind.

What does a Scorpio woman have that a Leo woman doens't?

The insanity to deal with a cancer guy. —?

No amount of tasty crab meat is worth the shit yoi have to do to get it.

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Translation, scorpio has the insanity and leo doesn't? 😛

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@Helye
10 Years

Posted by Poppyseeds

Posted by Helye

Posted by Poppyseeds

Posted by Helye
Don't do it. Leo girls can't handle Cancer men. Only Scorpio woman can find a way to deal with the idiotic mess that is a Cancer guy mind.

What does a Scorpio woman have that a Leo woman doens't?

The insanity to deal with a cancer guy. —?

No amount of tasty crab meat is worth the shit yoi have to do to get it.

Translation, scorpio has the insanity and leo doesn't? 😛

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Leo is to busy paying attention to herself to give a shit long enough for a cancer man. He'd be gone before she was done fixing herself up in the mirror. He wouldn't wait for her azz.

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@Pearls
11 Years

Posted by ni1992
What do u mean what do i want ? And how did i win exactly ? Im not competing its just i have never payed attention to him but he kept showing interest bug time and kept telling me about their deep life secrets till he got all my attention thats what annoyed me .. After he got my attention he stopped showing his .. So i dont knoww what is this and i dont wanna get attached so i figured u would know something about cancer guy that i dont know ..

You didn't mention this part.

You weren't really interested at first and he started going overboard trying to get your attention?

Expand it'll probably shed some light.

Your initial post came across as ego-driven and as if you were pulling back out of resentment.

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@rabidtalker
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Posted by ni1992
Hello i'm a leo female and he is a cancer male we are both architects and thats how we've known eachothers .. We kept talking for a while texts and phone amd we both are liking eachothers a lot and we both made ot obvious to each others and because we both were busy we didnt really go out till after 3 weeks or so .. And during that dinnerthe first thing he said was you're beautiful. And the kept saying he is enjoying his time and he hadnt go out with someone and enjoying his time like he was doing with me .. But after that date he never texted me or talked to me or anything .. I tried to say hi once and ask him about what he was doing he said in doing fine and i have a meeting in another city ghat was 1 hr far from here .. And that was it. I felt like he completely lost interest i dont know is it that he doesnt like me or he saw something from he he dislikes i cant really know and i refuse to ask him i dont wanna show that im so into him u know ... But i wanna know what is this i mean i really really like him !.

How long has it been since this date?

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@ni1992
10 Years

—??

He went through something similier and i told him i did too. But never talked about it more than that we went through something with somrone it was serious but it ended in a bad way.

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@ni1992
10 Years

Hummm About 5 days ☺️☺️ Bs for real am talking about his reactions also like the way he talks changed so cold u know.. I decided to step out of this .. And dont react but i was thinking umm maybe cancers dont like that i dont know if they are waiting for me or no i shall ignore and leave it as it is if they want they'll re act

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@CalmCrab22
10 YearsCancer

I can not deal with Leo's on any level. Family friends work relationship- none. I can't get passed one or two conversations before I am boiling under the surface.

I'm wondering how connected you two may be in the work field. He could play you for something on that level.