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Sexually Attracted to a Sagittarius Male BUT is he trying to really dominate a BULL?
"Is this normal Sag behavior? "
which part?
which part?
Him, what it seems like it to me, trying to make me be dependent on him and telling me that my independence is a joke? I think this is ironic because aren't they known for their freedom and independence? So why do I feel like he's trying to strip me of mine and dominate me emotionally and sexually?
Is this normal for a Sag to be like this?
Is this normal for a Sag to be like this?
"telling me that my independence is a joke?"
I agree with exo. There must be another sign in the game. Sag themself is not talented enough to provocate. Sag's style is more like flattering. (I claim. but how do I know?)
Check for Cap and Scorpio in his chart. Even Leo is a provocator. Look for AC, Moon, Mars. Maybe Venus.
If you are strong enough you should resist his attacks. It has positive influence on the chase. We Sags are so ambitious. We want what is difficult to get. But later in the relationship it can work against you. Maybe you need then to be flexible or begging one out of five times. So he has in his mind that he is not being kept like a slave. But even that depends on his whole chart.
I agree with exo. There must be another sign in the game. Sag themself is not talented enough to provocate. Sag's style is more like flattering. (I claim. but how do I know?)
Check for Cap and Scorpio in his chart. Even Leo is a provocator. Look for AC, Moon, Mars. Maybe Venus.
If you are strong enough you should resist his attacks. It has positive influence on the chase. We Sags are so ambitious. We want what is difficult to get. But later in the relationship it can work against you. Maybe you need then to be flexible or begging one out of five times. So he has in his mind that he is not being kept like a slave. But even that depends on his whole chart.
Posted by KsamCancer
Why is this in the astrology forum. Take this shit to the shit forum
@OP, shit forum is here:
http://www.dxpnet.com/opinion/relationships-astrology.asp
That's sag male alright.
1.) We don't open up easily, and i mean emotionally. If he tells you he likes you then ignores you, it's because he feels exposed.
2.) Taurus girls have a really feminine demeanor, and he probably sees a baby deer whenever he looks at you. I know some Taurus females, and I've never tried to 'dominate' them, but I have tried prodding them along. Taurus moves very slow, and Sag can be superficial with communication, so yeah I've tried to push Taurgirls to open up more. It's a bad idea though, and if your sag isn't into astrology, maybe you could help him out with some verbal communication or by having your friend talk to him.
3.) Taurus females are independent and have their shit together; sag is more casual and absentminded. I have been embarrassed by Taurgirls because they have their shit down and I feel like I can't keep up, and we are competitive so it annoys us. His ego's inflamed.
-Sag male
1.) We don't open up easily, and i mean emotionally. If he tells you he likes you then ignores you, it's because he feels exposed.
2.) Taurus girls have a really feminine demeanor, and he probably sees a baby deer whenever he looks at you. I know some Taurus females, and I've never tried to 'dominate' them, but I have tried prodding them along. Taurus moves very slow, and Sag can be superficial with communication, so yeah I've tried to push Taurgirls to open up more. It's a bad idea though, and if your sag isn't into astrology, maybe you could help him out with some verbal communication or by having your friend talk to him.
3.) Taurus females are independent and have their shit together; sag is more casual and absentminded. I have been embarrassed by Taurgirls because they have their shit down and I feel like I can't keep up, and we are competitive so it annoys us. His ego's inflamed.
-Sag male
Posted by YellowSubmarineI don't think it comes to dumbing anybody down. Both can benefit from extending their sense of understanding, or from focusing more on what's important.Posted by TheShire+1
That's sag male alright.
1.) We don't open up easily, and i mean emotionally. If he tells you he likes you then ignores you, it's because he feels exposed.
2.) Taurus girls have a really feminine demeanor, and he probably sees a baby deer whenever he looks at you. I know some Taurus females, and I've never tried to 'dominate' them, but I have tried prodding them along. Taurus moves very slow, and Sag can be superficial with communication, so yeah I've tried to push Taurgirls to open up more. It's a bad idea though, and if your sag isn't into astrology, maybe you could help him out with some verbal communication or by having your friend talk to him.
3.) Taurus females are independent and have their shit together; sag is more casual and absentminded. I have been embarrassed by Taurgirls because they have their shit down and I feel like I can't keep up, and we are competitive so it annoys us. His ego's inflamed.
-Sag male
@OP I've been in your shoes... the best I ever had was a Sag, and he still has a hold on me, which I'll never fully admit to him. I'm not a Taurus, but I am "independent and have my shit together" - as per the Sag I'm referencing, I'm the :strongest woman" he's ever met, which made him feel like he was failing in our relationship when compared to me, since he's so oblivious and absent-minded.
It really comes down to whether you are willing to dumb yourself down for him. Someone else mentioned above that he's testing your resolve, and that's exactly it - he wants to see if you will give in, and I can assure you he won't respect it if you do.
I'd bet good money your Sag has Venus in Scorpio, or some other Scorpio influence.click to expand
Posted by ImpulsvExactly, nothing but games.
Only a Taurus would be down for games n enjoy it.
No, you're a pisces female and I'm sure you've read up on the sag sign and the taurus sign, but I've been involved with taurus before and I recognize the situation. You should sit this one out.
Posted by YellowSubmarinedumb it down? I disagree. Knowing who wears the pants, yes.Posted by TheShire+1
That's sag male alright.
1.) We don't open up easily, and i mean emotionally. If he tells you he likes you then ignores you, it's because he feels exposed.
2.) Taurus girls have a really feminine demeanor, and he probably sees a baby deer whenever he looks at you. I know some Taurus females, and I've never tried to 'dominate' them, but I have tried prodding them along. Taurus moves very slow, and Sag can be superficial with communication, so yeah I've tried to push Taurgirls to open up more. It's a bad idea though, and if your sag isn't into astrology, maybe you could help him out with some verbal communication or by having your friend talk to him.
3.) Taurus females are independent and have their shit together; sag is more casual and absentminded. I have been embarrassed by Taurgirls because they have their shit down and I feel like I can't keep up, and we are competitive so it annoys us. His ego's inflamed.
-Sag male
@OP I've been in your shoes... the best I ever had was a Sag, and he still has a hold on me, which I'll never fully admit to him. I'm not a Taurus, but I am "independent and have my shit together" - as per the Sag I'm referencing, I'm the :strongest woman" he's ever met, which made him feel like he was failing in our relationship when compared to me, since he's so oblivious and absent-minded.
It really comes down to whether you are willing to dumb yourself down for him. Someone else mentioned above that he's testing your resolve, and that's exactly it - he wants to see if you will give in, and I can assure you he won't respect it if you do.
I'd bet good money your Sag has Venus in Scorpio, or some other Scorpio influence.click to expand
Posted by crownedinbeautyWhat would happen if you did admit that you needed help?
I'm your typical stereotypical bullheaded, materialistic, grounded, and independent Taurus female, and I'm SOOOOO sexually attracted to this Sag male.
I think I way more dominate than he is, but he told my friend that he thinks that it's an act, and that I would end up doing everything he said if we were to ever be in a relationship and that he is really the dominate one. ??
We have been flirting nonstop back and forth and texting each other until like 12 and 1 in the A.M. for weeks.
I flat out told him last Thursday that he was "All Talk," which led to him to kissing me, (our first time) pulling back my car seat and getting on top of me, and feeling me up. He literally almost had my pants down, but I stopped him and told him that he wasn't getting it that easily, and that I'm hard to get and that he has to work for it!!
I literally had to force him off me because it seemed like he was going to rape me, but I LIKED IT, LOL, and it turned me on so bad!!
I surprisingly told him that I was physically/sexually attracted to him, and he bluntly told me that he was too as well, and that he loved my personality....but after this he hasn't texted me like usual.
To make a long story short, he has been trying to get me to admit that I need his help, which I will NOT do. We have literally gotten into several disagreements about this, one being last night to where he said that I wasn't as independent as I thought I was, which completely angered me.
Is this normal Sag behavior?
Ive known a sag man for almost 7 years. Ive never had to dumb it down. I accept his help and tell him its appreciated because its the truth. Im bout as independent as they come. I also, give him help and advice. But always remember that he is a manly man with an ego to back it up. He's not trying to take your power, hes trying to enhance. The delivery can and will be cocky at times.
its never been a power struggle. Its cooperative and supportive.
its never been a power struggle. Its cooperative and supportive.
Posted by crownedinbeauty
...... he told my friend that he thinks that .....
You must be children. Mature adults don't convey messages back and forth through friends.
Welk every sag is different. Theyre not trying to dominate, only in the bedroom will that happen.
My sag is exactly 7 years older so i rather enjoy the student teacher relationship. Makes me feel good at the end of the day.
Your not giving in, your allowing support to come to you.
My sag is exactly 7 years older so i rather enjoy the student teacher relationship. Makes me feel good at the end of the day.
Your not giving in, your allowing support to come to you.
Posted by DMV+1 and best answer as only a Sag can explain
Ive known a sag man for almost 7 years. Ive never had to dumb it down. I accept his help and tell him its appreciated because its the truth. Im bout as independent as they come. I also, give him help and advice. But always remember that he is a manly man with an ego to back it up. He's not trying to take your power, hes trying to enhance. The delivery can and will be cocky at times.
its never been a power struggle. Its cooperative and supportive.
Posted by P-AngelI'm no where near a child. I'm 28, thank you very much. And mature isn't 50 years old lol.... Inexperienced, yes. Childish, NO. I've never been in a relationship and this is as far as I've gotten with a guy. That is what you SHOULD have asked instead of passing judgement. No one asked you to reply.Posted by crownedinbeauty
...... he told my friend that he thinks that .....
You must be children. Mature adults don't convey messages back and forth through friends.
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He is also 23, which is why he is telling my friend things... the more you know....
Posted by DMVI would NEVER admit that I need his help, knowing that's what he is wanting me to do! That means that he wins!!! But, I'm sooooo stubborn that the more you try to make me give into to saying something or doing something, I'll rebel/avoid you until I'M ready to admit it/do it, IF that ever happens, lol. You don't rush a Taurus. We always think things through and take our time.Posted by crownedinbeautyWhat would happen if you did admit that you needed help?
I'm your typical stereotypical bullheaded, materialistic, grounded, and independent Taurus female, and I'm SOOOOO sexually attracted to this Sag male.
I think I way more dominate than he is, but he told my friend that he thinks that it's an act, and that I would end up doing everything he said if we were to ever be in a relationship and that he is really the dominate one. ??
We have been flirting nonstop back and forth and texting each other until like 12 and 1 in the A.M. for weeks.
I flat out told him last Thursday that he was "All Talk," which led to him to kissing me, (our first time) pulling back my car seat and getting on top of me, and feeling me up. He literally almost had my pants down, but I stopped him and told him that he wasn't getting it that easily, and that I'm hard to get and that he has to work for it!!
I literally had to force him off me because it seemed like he was going to rape me, but I LIKED IT, LOL, and it turned me on so bad!!
I surprisingly told him that I was physically/sexually attracted to him, and he bluntly told me that he was too as well, and that he loved my personality....but after this he hasn't texted me like usual.
To make a long story short, he has been trying to get me to admit that I need his help, which I will NOT do. We have literally gotten into several disagreements about this, one being last night to where he said that I wasn't as independent as I thought I was, which completely angered me.
Is this normal Sag behavior?click to expand
Posted by busyeyes88EXACTLY!!!! We're all about groundedness and security we Taurus', but for some reason I like playing this Sag-Taur game!! I'm a smart Taurus, so I am proceeding with caution and am guarding my heart, even though I feel like I'm slowly getting emotionally invested.
Firstly, you sound as if you are teasing him by getting your panties nearly off then saying no!!!! It will turn into a competition of "wills" with regards to your independence which is in question if you both continue this way.
Sag is dominant and wants to be in control but so does taurus. Taurus will only let the other person lead if they have their shit together and sag man doesn't!! Major problem!
Yes! I'm sure he is very attractive and the sexual chemistry you will find "off the charts" in yr case, but the down side its yr "union" will be short lived if you both get together. You will earn and he will spend all yr money; he will not be stable or have a stable income; he will not offer you security; all the things a taurus woman wants in a man He will not be able to provide.
If sex is all you want then try him out but if you want more don't go there. They make good friends.... If you can out up with their coarse blunt tongues. That's it!!!
I tell you from experience and I am in no way a typical taurus female I have dominant fire in me. If I knew then what I am advising you now, I would not have gone anywhere near the sag. My sister is also a sag. I also have two other sag male acquaintances.
Just look after your purse and heart my dear bullette.
But by reading your and other people's posts, the Sag DOES "try" to be soooo dominant. And they do have sharp tongues!!!
We literally had this flirty power struggle war last night. He was saying the rudest stuff last night to me, but of course I won because he had to give in. I didn't back down and just rammed my bull horns right into him!! I just think that he likes the fact that I stand up to him. He's probably never had a girl do that to him. Poor Sag. But I ignored him half the night and he was starting to get sweet because he couldn't stand being ignored! Their so bipolar!
Posted by TheShireThis is THE best!! 🙂 Thanks
That's sag male alright.
1.) We don't open up easily, and i mean emotionally. If he tells you he likes you then ignores you, it's because he feels exposed.
2.) Taurus girls have a really feminine demeanor, and he probably sees a baby deer whenever he looks at you. I know some Taurus females, and I've never tried to 'dominate' them, but I have tried prodding them along. Taurus moves very slow, and Sag can be superficial with communication, so yeah I've tried to push Taurgirls to open up more. It's a bad idea though, and if your sag isn't into astrology, maybe you could help him out with some verbal communication or by having your friend talk to him.
3.) Taurus females are independent and have their shit together; sag is more casual and absentminded. I have been embarrassed by Taurgirls because they have their shit down and I feel like I can't keep up, and we are competitive so it annoys us. His ego's inflamed.
-Sag male
You're 28 and he's 23 that should tell you right there this is nothing but a game. I've been friends with a sag male for 10 years we are the same age. He told me last year that he don't believe in marriage and rather be a bachelor. Sag men love their freedom so this guy is just wasting your time. They also like older women for challenges. This guy is all ego and a doosh don't bother reading into his tastics he just wants to have sex with you. In the meantime he is finessing other females.
My grandparents were a sag couple and they weren't bipolar, and I'm not bipolar. We do like to think a lot, often out loud.
Posted by Octoberbaby91This is how I would've described myself years ago, and to some extent it's still true for casual sex. But I've felt woman's wrath and I'd hate to see a fellow sag get the horns... My advice comes from hard experience, and I'm being optimistic that he won't have to learn the hard way.
You're 28 and he's 23 that should tell you right there this is nothing but a game. I've been friends with a sag male for 10 years we are the same age. He told me last year that he don't believe in marriage and rather be a bachelor. Sag men love their freedom so this guy is just wasting your time. They also like older women for challenges. This guy is all ego and a doosh don't bother reading into his tastics he just wants to have sex with you. In the meantime he is finessing other females.
It's easy to be with Sagittarius. Just have fun and don't get attached. Taurus and Sagittarius will always hit it off sexually.
In the end though some fixed signs need more than sex.
Posted by FirstDecanTaurianWomen0428Have to agree here. Definitely a really strong chemistry for me whenever I've interacted with Sag women. I think the women and the men are probably the most physically attractive of the signs. Even the Sag icons of popular culture that I can't stand, are still really beautiful IMO. The emotional connection is more difficult but worth the effort IMO....
Taurus and Sagittarius will always hit it off sexually.
Just avoid the pointless arguments. Try to enjoy each other; they are pretty easygoing and enjoy the loyalty of our companionship. There's no need to "dominate" your partner, "win" every argument, etc. Also, Sags may be promiscuous, and may even cheat if they feel neglected, but I've found them to be truly loyal when in love...And I've had so many close Sag friends and am with one now. I think the Sag I'm with now is one of the most loyal women I've been with....
Posted by TaurusLovesScorpioWhen it works, it works.Posted by FirstDecanTaurianWomen0428Have to agree here. Definitely a really strong chemistry for me whenever I've interacted with Sag women. I think the women and the men are probably the most physically attractive of the signs. Even the Sag icons of popular culture that I can't stand, are still really beautiful IMO. The emotional connection is more difficult but worth the effort IMO....
Taurus and Sagittarius will always hit it off sexually.
Just avoid the pointless arguments. Try to enjoy each other; they are pretty easygoing and enjoy the loyalty of our companionship. There's no need to "dominate" your partner, "win" every argument, etc. Also, Sags may be promiscuous, and may even cheat if they feel neglected, but I've found them to be truly loyal when in love...And I've had so many close Sag friends and am with one now. I think the Sag I'm with now is one of the most loyal women I've been with....click to expand
Just have fun.
Yes, that is where the disconnect is coming from.
Posted by crownedinbeauty
I'm 28 .........
I've never been in a relationship and this is as far as I've gotten with a guy.
Really?
So, you're verbally stroking this man's dick with teases and proclaiming that you're dominant ... but, it's all a lie, isn't it?
A false pretense.
Because the truth is .... you don't any life experience of such, you have no action to back the words.
No wonder you don't get far with a person .... you're transparent, and so dense that you can't rationalize anything beyond yourself.
Because I mean like really .... who in the hell is 28 years old and unable to get a boyfriend.
Like dudes are easy as hell to get ... any ole woman can get one.
except you .. that speaks volumes.
Posted by P-AngelLMFAO!!!! And who the hell are you to judge me exactly—!!!! No one. And I'm supposed to value your worthless opinion?? LOLPosted by crownedinbeauty
I'm 28 .........
I've never been in a relationship and this is as far as I've gotten with a guy.
Really?
So, you're verbally stroking this man's dick with teases and proclaiming that you're dominant ... but, it's all a lie, isn't it?
A false pretense.
Because the truth is .... you don't any life experience of such, you have no action to back the words.
No wonder you don't get far with a person .... you're transparent, and so dense that you can't rationalize anything beyond yourself.
Because I mean like really .... who in the hell is 28 years old and unable to get a boyfriend.
Like dudes are easy as hell to get ... any ole woman can get one.
except you .. that speaks volumes.click to expand
Anyone who DOESN'T whore around and respects themselves, and who actually has STANDARDS/MORALS/GOALS for their life and just doesn't jump at the first person who is in my face CHOOSES not to have a boyfriend at 28 because their standards/morals/goals are more IMPORTANT than a man, being in several waste-of-a-time relationships, or getting knocked up, which could all possibly have the potential to make me lose focus of what I'm trying to obtain in my life which is having my own sense of financial security and being SELF-RELIANT.
Trust, it has NOTHING to do with me being "UNABLE" to get a boyfriend. It has EVERYTHING thing to do with me saying NO to a lot of guys because they DON'T meet my high-minded Taurus quota/conditions or I have no chemistry with them. I CHOOSE. I could stoop down and sleep with anyone I wanted. I get hit on by several men everyday of my life, but that's NOT what I want.
I CHOSE this Sag, and I PURSUED him for months which is why I'M getting what I want. How am I teasing him, when our feelings are both mutual and we're both playing the game like he so very much likes??
....He's the first guy that I've ever had Chemistry with, which is what I meant to begin with....I'm a Taurus, I get EVERYTHING I plan and want in every area of my life, which is how I got him to begin with.
Not having had a boyfriend DOESN'T mean that I don't have any life experience or doesn't mean that I'm not dominant, or a virgin or inexperienced, LMFAO. That alone makes you sound so ignorant and obviously you haven't learned anything in your senile, miserable, dependent 50 years.
END OF TOPIC on my end because everything that comes out of your mouth, to me, is worthless...
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I think I way more dominate than he is, but he told my friend that he thinks that it's an act, and that I would end up doing everything he said if we were to ever be in a relationship and that he is really the dominate one. ??
We have been flirting nonstop back and forth and texting each other until like 12 and 1 in the A.M. for weeks.
I flat out told him last Thursday that he was "All Talk," which led to him to kissing me, (our first time) pulling back my car seat and getting on top of me, and feeling me up. He literally almost had my pants down, but I stopped him and told him that he wasn't getting it that easily, and that I'm hard to get and that he has to work for it!!
I literally had to force him off me because it seemed like he was going to rape me, but I LIKED IT, LOL, and it turned me on so bad!!
I surprisingly told him that I was physically/sexually attracted to him, and he bluntly told me that he was too as well, and that he loved my personality....but after this he hasn't texted me like usual.
To make a long story short, he has been trying to get me to admit that I need his help, which I will NOT do. We have literally gotten into several disagreements about this, one being last night to where he said that I wasn't as independent as I thought I was, which completely angered me.
Is this normal Sag behavior?