Shy Libra

So I'm dating a man 16 years younger than I am. I'm 47 and he's 31. He's a Libra and I'm a cancer.

I'm finding out that he is extremely shy and not that great at communicating with me. Nine times out of 10 I'm the one initiating sex. He can go days without texting me until I eventually give in and text him myself.

He has told me that he has fallen for me and that he wants to be with me. I'm not getting this in his actions or his words. he has told me that he has fallen for me and that he wants to be with me. I'm not getting this in his actions or his words.

What's frustrating is that he seems to be a good guy in every other sense, he does not seem like he's a player.

Any Libras out there want to shed some light on this?

Lol, please excuse my repetitiveness, I was using voice recognition.

I've known a couple of very shy Libra men which I think is why it didn't work out for me. What do you have in common with him? What's the spark?

Roar.

I think he might just want the sex, but on top of that he's a libra so he isn't going to initiate or entertain the communication

Posted by hydorah
I think he might just want the sex, but on top of that he's a libra so he isn't going to initiate or entertain the communication

this seems controversial to what others say above - that Libra will pursue/seek out if they want you - but you say they don't initiate ?

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Posted by hydorah
I think he might just want the sex, but on top of that he's a libra so he isn't going to initiate or entertain the communication

this seems controversial to what others say above - that Libra will pursue/seek out if they want you - but you say they don't initiate ?

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I only know of libra females, but aren't they supposed to be always on the fence?

Posted by Explicit
That's really weird. He claims he's fallen for you but goes days without texting you and rarely initiates anything, even sex.

Could be a FWB situation on his end. And if you guys have known eachother for a while now, the shyness should have been non-existent by now for the most part...

Maybe you should be honest with him and let him know how you feel without coming off offensive. Be like, "I'm a little confused because you say you fell for me but you go days without contacting me." Don't mention the sex thing because guys can be really offended by stuff like that. lol.

yeah there is no shyness once you've had sex.

Posted by hydorah

Posted by tcta

Posted by hydorah
I think he might just want the sex, but on top of that he's a libra so he isn't going to initiate or entertain the communication

this seems controversial to what others say above - that Libra will pursue/seek out if they want you - but you say they don't initiate ?

I only know of libra females, but aren't they supposed to be always on the fence?

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yes on the fence, I sure get that part - just wondered about the communication initiation ...