So my Venus is in 12 house. I attract a lot of men, but usually men who only want sex and that are taken. What's up with that? They say Venus in 12 is mysterious. Anyone has this or knows more?
venus 12 house
http://www.8and12houses.com/writings/articles/planetsinthetwelfthhouse-suninthetwelfth
Venus in the Twelfth
When Venus is placed in the twelfth house, you are a person who hides your romantic feelings and relationships. The twelfth house is known as the “House of Suffering”. The energy that rules this house is kept hidden or secret. The deep secrets about your own personality, as well as your emotions are locked within you. This placement is an indicator of suffering through love affairs and through heartache at some time in your life. The positive energy of this placement is that you are also protected by what seems like a guardian angel watching over you. When you are at your lowest point and almost ready to give up hope, the universe answers your prayers in many ways. You are always protected and you are guarded more than others around you by invisible forces.
You are destined to experience clandestine or secret love affairs. This happens because your expression of love is kept secret from others. Your initial emotion of love is held within and sometimes never expressed. You might often find yourself in love with someone that is not free. You may fall in love with someone who is already married or committed to someone else. I have studied several charts with this placement and almost every time, the client reveals to me that they either had an affair, were in love with someone they could not be with, or they were in love with someone and never let them know.
You will experience hidden feelings or secret love affairs at sometime in your life. Sometimes the feelings are acted on and other times you will keep them hidden and repressed. You may not cheat on your partner, but you will have “emotional affairs” because of the energy of this placement. Even the most moral, committed and happily married individual can fall prey to this placement. This can be extremely difficult for you, but with understanding and compassion you will eventually heal. You can suffer as a result of the relationships that you find yourself in. It is important for you to truly look within and be honest about your emotions. You have a tendency to be attracted to partners that have some type of pain in their life. You are attracted to partners who have been wounded. You fall in love with people that need your help and that you feel you need to take care of in some way. You can attract unhealthy partners that might not be mentally stable and this can manifest as depression. You are spiritual and can fall in love easily with partners that are spiritual. Love and spirituality go hand and hand for you. Just be cautious when you have feelings for others. Sometimes you can put people up on a pedestal and have illusions about how someone truly is because you only see the good in others. You can be blinded by love and ignore all the red flags of disaster before it is too late. You will naturally love others who are wounded, outcasts or those that people make fun of. You have great compassion for those who suffer and are different. Sometimes you can get involved in relationships with partners that have addiction issues such as alcoholism. You are a natural co-dependent when you are in relationships and need to be careful not to neglect yourself for others. You have to learn to first love yourself before you can truly love others in a healthy way.
You will experience relationships like the ones described above, but remember that it is not your fault. The energy of this placement might eventually lead you into situations similar to the ones above. You are destined to experience secretive relationships and secret love affairs at some time in your life. You can learn about this energy and choose to approach it in a different way. Being aware of this energy can help you prevent certain situations and relationships from developing.
just found that website and thought it would be interesting to share. supposedly, the 12th house planets are planets that you are unaware of but that others are aware of, so for me, i can think I have low self esteem etc but others may think the opposite of me. Or I can indeed have low self-esteem and it just shows outwardly that way (two different manifestations)
I have Venus in the 12th - Pisces. I've had some open and fulfilling relationships. I never date married men or convicts or anything like that, but I do often date men so wrapped up in their work that they are not "emotionally" available all the time and so the relationship isn't what I want it to be and eventually we part which is really unsatisfying. I suppose I may seem mysterious to others, especially men, but I wouldn't be if they took the time to get to know me. I'm not in love with suffering. I do want "the love of the century". But this is just one opinion, my personal experience from being a 12th house Venus and I'm sure there will be more.
if you do some research....you can find some good finds on real life people who have gone through tumultuous relationships, and horrible ones.
12th house Venus, linda Lovelace. she married an abuser, cruel person, who she was unable to get away from. I saw all the oppositions and trines. and I thought jessusss. she was highly magnetized to this man.
12th house Venus, linda Lovelace. she married an abuser, cruel person, who she was unable to get away from. I saw all the oppositions and trines. and I thought jessusss. she was highly magnetized to this man.
actually lovelace is a dominant 12th houser.
my ex husband has a stellium in pisces and he has been in and out of prisons all his life.
my husband's other pisces sun uncle went into the mental institution for awhile before retirement, had a nervous breakdown....couldn't take the pressure of looking at life bleakly that he couldn't keep his business.
I think if you are not careful, you will go into dark place. kind of like the symbol of the little nemo fish going to the big bad ocean, and you don't know if you are in dark waters where the sharks play or if you're gonna be safe, always encountering danger, until you find safe harbor, then if you survive, you can be a big happy whale. or a terrifying shark. or remain a cute puffy fish, going through life happily and ignorant. and you are food for the big guys, gobbling you up, so you have to be careful. also symbolically food for the souls, who are tortured in this world, and you are there for their healing, so you are the healer and sometimes you need healing.
Posted by britneybabe26I don't understand the 12th house either. lol
So my Venus is in 12 house. I attract a lot of men, but usually men who only want sex and that are taken. What's up with that? They say Venus in 12 is mysterious. Anyone has this or knows more?
my ex husband has a stellium in pisces and he has been in and out of prisons all his life.
my husband's other pisces sun uncle went into the mental institution for awhile before retirement, had a nervous breakdown....couldn't take the pressure of looking at life bleakly that he couldn't keep his business.
I think if you are not careful, you will go into dark place. kind of like the symbol of the little nemo fish going to the big bad ocean, and you don't know if you are in dark waters where the sharks play or if you're gonna be safe, always encountering danger, until you find safe harbor, then if you survive, you can be a big happy whale. or a terrifying shark. or remain a cute puffy fish, going through life happily and ignorant. and you are food for the big guys, gobbling you up, so you have to be careful. also symbolically food for the souls, who are tortured in this world, and you are there for their healing, so you are the healer and sometimes you need healing.
I can't believe I didn't add Edie Sedgwick, 11th house aries sun, cusp Taurus. her venus 12th along with Saturn and Uranus. 5th house scorpio moon.
http://www.astrotheme.com/astrology/Edie_Sedgwick
she had a very tumultuous childhood. Men abused and used her, including her brothers and her own father, a raging alcoholic who tried to rape her. Her story reminds me a little of the Aries sun/aries mars/Scorpio moon/pisces venus daughter of the monster in Austria, Josef Fritzl. both are very no matter what, no degree of pain and torture is any better or worse for each individual going through that. this is 12th house, that's the 12th house I kind of understand. (kind of like lovelace too, I understand)
http://www.astrotheme.com/astrology/Edie_Sedgwick
she had a very tumultuous childhood. Men abused and used her, including her brothers and her own father, a raging alcoholic who tried to rape her. Her story reminds me a little of the Aries sun/aries mars/Scorpio moon/pisces venus daughter of the monster in Austria, Josef Fritzl. both are very no matter what, no degree of pain and torture is any better or worse for each individual going through that. this is 12th house, that's the 12th house I kind of understand. (kind of like lovelace too, I understand)
Posted by starloverexactly.Posted by britneybabe26Nothing to do with astrology
So my Venus is in 12 house. I attract a lot of men, but usually men who only want sex and that are taken. What's up with that? They say Venus in 12 is mysterious. Anyone has this or knows more?
Seems to be a modern day trend
Sadly
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edit- OP, you're just facing the typical ebb and flow of society out there, where men are looking for the next hook up.
Posted by ElleDuMondeI totally relate to everything you say here. I have a stellium in the 12th house and need to spend time alone to regroup every once in a while too. It's amazing how much it helps. The twelfth house is like wading through quicksand. Nothing is as it seems and you never know if the next step will lead someplace you don;t want to go.
I find anger shameful too.
12th house is a shapeshifter....you have to constantly be cognisant of your surroundings. Situations have to be put in a pile in front of you so you can pull off the layers to get to the reality of things.
You aren't even analyzing anything.....you are just trying to unmask what is really going on....most times.
You have to ask questions like....
Okay, am I feeling this way because I feel this way or is it someone projecting it on me?
Is my anger rational or irrational....many times we are told we are being irrational....so, you have to check yourself. sometimes it's NOT irrational but you are felt to feel shame for being angry.
All while the looking glass is changing to another picture.
I spend a lot of time by myself to recharge.
So we are destined for torture? Bad relationships?
I know Rihanna has venus 12 and look what happened with her and Chris.
I know Rihanna has venus 12 and look what happened with her and Chris.
I don't get it
Posted by zFlavorI don't get itPosted by britneybabe26No.... quote. the whole world is here for me to see end quote..
So we are destined for torture? Bad relationships?
I know Rihanna has venus 12 and look what happened with her and Chris.
and it is...so its what you make of it.click to expand
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